Dude, do you even read? Slow down and reread the post. I listed no faults of anybody. I heaped praise on my boyfriend. I don't care if you don't work since -- hold on to your socks -- I don't especially want to date you. I know, surprise, right?
He is big (6'2") but not dumb or a douche. Also, to cheat on him with thugs, I would have to first meet some. So neither, sorry. You're so not even close. But I was right: you did in fact try to find a way to invalidate what I said. The boring truth is that we have a respect-based relationship. It's quite nice, really.
Here's a free tip, since you keep asking for concrete suggestions: We corresponded for months before meeting in person. For at least the first four weeks, Mr. Horse's correspondence revolved entirely around music. He started assembling YouTube playlists of videos by his favorite bands, and my clue that he really liked me came when he started really caring about whether I liked these bands, what my favorite songs or playlists were, etc. You've listed some music you listen to. You could look for a forum where people talk about these artists and see what other people enjoy the same music.
You're welcome, again. Are your parents well? Will you be seeing them this week?