Comparison is the thief of joy.
There are plenty of people who make easy money -and I had no idea who belle dephine was until it got posted. I wouldn't have known or cared because I don't follow instagram models or whatever she is, and it seems less like these incels are looking such people up not because of their boner but to feel jealous.
There are instagram models, and I highly doubt it's limited to girls. Beyond that there's guys who win lotto or whatever. And yeah it would be easy money, it would be nice to be them, but I'm not going to sob all day how easy they have it and how I have to make ends meet, because if I want to live the dream I gotta be busy.
If they want to gripe about how easy some folks have it why not go look at their fellow incel NEETS? They don't have to pay mortgage, or utilities, or even have to cook. They just sit at the computer eating tendies mommy brings them. At least instragram models do some amount of work doing make-up and posing and whatever to make people feel like they're getting attention. NEETS just spend all day moping about how bad they have it when they have food and shelter and shit African kids would kill for, all without lifting a finger.
If there was some group like AA or whatever that helped people deal with their boners, or heck even if people learned earlier on how to have a bit of self-control.
But AFAIK American sex-ed is behind enough as it is.