Amber the Hedgehog
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- Aug 23, 2018
Only dating and/or flirting situations where a tranny shouldn’t feel obligated to disclose their genderbender status is when they are turning people down or follow up is not expected. “Sorry but you aren’t my type” or “Thanks but I’m here with my boyfriend” is same for trannies or cissies, as is being a bartender and getting flirted by clients or having a short kiss under a mistletoe at a party. If that type of short situation is end of it, then there is no need track it out with explanations of gender fluidity. Still if actual attention is the coal then just coming out as a tranny early is right thing to do. No matter how fun or affirming stealthing around romantic and/or sexual situations might be to a tranny it’s just too risky to be acceptable. People hate being deceived so trannies are setting up somebody being hurt. Hopefully it’s stays just emotionally unpleasant level but more emotional situations is less predictable people’s reactions are going to be. Are trannies really emotionally stable enough to say that they won’t flip out from call out as a trap?I love all the replies saying "Well it's better for your safety if you don't disclose it up front, some men will get angry if they find out they've been hitting on a tranny".
I guarantee they'll be even angrier if you wait until later to disclose it. There's no way of hiding it in the end.
If it were me (and I imagine most guys) and you tell me up front I'd just say hey, you do you but I'm not in to that, bye! You wait until you get further in to things and reactions will get more and more unpredictable.