Plagued Nice Guys

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BigRuler said:
"im suicidal, go out with me or i might kill myself ok?"
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just how fucked in the head do you have to be to think that this is even remotely acceptable or has any chance of success?
the guy should be glad that she didnt have him involuntarily committed for this lol
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In fact, therapists and abuse experts recommend you do exactly that if someone is trying to use threats of suicide to manipulate you into entering or staying in a relationship. If they are serious, they'll be given access to resources to help them. If they're just trying to guilt you into fucking them, well, psych holds aren't fun and they're unlikely to try that again.
 
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LtCucumber said:
What is it with "nice guys" or people who claim to be decent folk and having some sort of "time frame" in which they want people to respond? I had this very recently. There are too many screenshots for me to post them here. I don't often try to engage with these people, but some people need to be called on their shit. I'll have my coffee and post them in a while but i need to screenshot the conversation on my phone and then get them from there to my laptop. It's too early for that at the moment.

TLDR of the situation; I was sick as anything and could have ended up in A&E. Couldn't reply to m'nice guy soon enough due to illness and sleeping all day, so he had issues. I apologized to him (stupidly). Not good enough. I call him out privately. "you're gaslighting" was his response - clearly he's someone who likes to play the victim and make it look like someone is abusive at any chance he gets called on his shit. He blocked me not long after that, so I just forwarded our conversation to our mutual friends. I can't say he has much support on his end as more people have publicly blasted him for being a shit-for-brains.
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It's possible that they think that if she skims over her notifications once she might not really see the message, but if he keeps blowing up her phone she'll have to notice.
 
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LtCucumber said:
What is it with "nice guys" or people who claim to be decent folk and having some sort of "time frame" in which they want people to respond? I had this very recently. There are too many screenshots for me to post them here. I don't often try to engage with these people, but some people need to be called on their shit. I'll have my coffee and post them in a while but i need to screenshot the conversation on my phone and then get them from there to my laptop. It's too early for that at the moment.

TLDR of the situation; I was sick as anything and could have ended up in A&E. Couldn't reply to m'nice guy soon enough due to illness and sleeping all day, so he had issues. I apologized to him (stupidly). Not good enough. I call him out privately. "you're gaslighting" was his response - clearly he's someone who likes to play the victim and make it look like someone is abusive at any chance he gets called on his shit. He blocked me not long after that, so I just forwarded our conversation to our mutual friends. I can't say he has much support on his end as more people have publicly blasted him for being a shit-for-brains.
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hey, sorry I saw your profile and I just thought you looked cute in your picture, I really wanted to tell you that)) It's really rare to see girls playing video games haha! I don't know why its a guy thing honestly im like really against misogyny and like ill be the one in the kitchen making sandwiches. We should really play l4d2 sometime its a really cool zombie game with a lot of scary moments, but don't worry ill be there to protect you ;) sorry that wasnt flirting I swear Im just trying to be friendly I really like your profile picture sorry was that too far? Really sorry i'm really shy I don't go out much haha add me on skype we should talk more you look really nice and fun xxx
 
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This thread is filled with so much gold, the only way it could get any be better is if The Supreme Gentleman's ghost came from hell to post dating tips and experiences.

So many of these posts/chatlogs I think the responders are unnecessarily harsh in their interactions and judgements and in every one the messenger manages to prove themselves to be so much worse than I could have imagined and makes the original comment more than justified.
 
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Fully Eshay Skits Bruh said:
hey, sorry I saw your profile and I just thought you looked cute in your picture, I really wanted to tell you that)) It's really rare to see girls playing video games haha! I don't know why its a guy thing honestly im like really against misogyny and like ill be the one in the kitchen making sandwiches. We should really play l4d2 sometime its a really cool zombie game with a lot of scary moments, but don't worry ill be there to protect you ;) sorry that wasnt flirting I swear Im just trying to be friendly I really like your profile picture sorry was that too far? Really sorry i'm really shy I don't go out much haha add me on skype we should talk more you look really nice and fun xxx
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I just threw up in my mouth. That hit too close to home
 
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I just threw up in my mouth. That hit too close to home
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Yeah..... that is just something isn't it?
I was thinking of a bit more to say, but I'm three glasses in and my brain doesnt want to work with me.
These fags need to be punched. Be good for 'em
 
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Yeah..... that is just something isn't it?
I was thinking of a bit more to say, but I'm three glasses in and my brain doesnt want to work with me.
These fags need to be punched. Be good for 'em
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To be fair it's that same spiel you see in about 50% of niceguy interactions... You're attractive to them until you say no, and then they backpedal and say you're an ugly slut or someshit. That crap is surreal as anything but at least they show what they'd be like if told "no" generally, so you know that dating them would be a minefield as is and that they should be avoided at all cost
 
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ProgKing of the North said:
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"be the first to like this", lmao

A "nice guy" trying to tell a happily married woman that she's in an abusive/controlling/etc relationship because she's not with him, a guy who would totally treat her better than the man she clearly has a good time with and chose to get married to... Color me shocked.
 
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LtCucumber said:
"be the first to like this", lmao

A "nice guy" trying to tell a happily married woman that she's in an abusive/controlling/etc relationship because she's not with him, a guy who would totally treat her better than the man she clearly has a good time with and chose to get married to... Color me shocked.
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I once had to stop a "nice guy" from calling the cops on a couple because he was convinced beyond all reason that the guy was beating the girl, solely because the nice guy had declared his undying love for the girl, and she, shockingly, didn't want anything more to do with him. So, "logically", he concluded her bf was isolating her from her friends because he was abusing her. Nice guy finally backed off that claim, but remains convinced to this very day that she's secretly unhappy she chose her now-husband and not him.
 
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DrJonesHat said:
I once had to stop a "nice guy" from calling the cops on a couple because he was convinced beyond all reason that the guy was beating the girl, solely because the nice guy had declared his undying love for the girl, and she, shockingly, didn't want anything more to do with him. So, "logically", he concluded her bf was isolating her from her friends because he was abusing her. Nice guy finally backed off that claim, but remains convinced to this very day that she's secretly unhappy she chose her now-husband and not him.
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What kind of delusional dumbassery...?

It's almost like a new level of arrogance - "she didn't pick me so she must be unhappy because she's not with me"... I'm surprised you didn't let him call the cops, he would have been shut down for wasting their time, which would have been quite the funny reality check to watch unfold.
 
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DrJonesHat said:
I once had to stop a "nice guy" from calling the cops on a couple because he was convinced beyond all reason that the guy was beating the girl, solely because the nice guy had declared his undying love for the girl, and she, shockingly, didn't want anything more to do with him. So, "logically", he concluded her bf was isolating her from her friends because he was abusing her. Nice guy finally backed off that claim, but remains convinced to this very day that she's secretly unhappy she chose her now-husband and not him.
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Holy shit, you knew menumessages?

Just kidding, that guy will never back off his claim
 
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