Plagued Nice Guys

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Remember, ladies, if he beats the shit out of you because dinner’s late, he’s not an asshole, he’s just a big-hearted gentleman with a passion for life!
 
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I mean, if you wanted to send me nudes I’d happily take them XD XD but I’d never ask lol hahah you’re hot though, I bet they look stunning, like a goddess. But I’m a gentleman and would never ask for nudes. Hahaha

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Fuck you whore, enjoy all the guys that treat you like shit, I just figured you’d be easy
 
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I mean, if you wanted to send me nudes I’d happily take them XD XD but I’d never ask lol hahah you’re hot though, I bet they look stunning, like a goddess. But I’m a gentleman and would never ask for nudes. Hahaha

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Fuck you whore, enjoy all the guys that treat you like shit, I just figured you’d be easy
I mean, knock it all you want but that approach is what landed me my wife. She just couldn't get enough of me switching from absurd over the top worship and compliments to snapping at her for being an awful piece of shit who didn't deserve such an upstanding gentleman as myself. Don't most women swoon for that shit?
 

So being the definition of 'friends' is psychologically damaging now... :story: I'm not about to say that there are guys and gals who are kind to people and that shit is taken advantage of, though that is not a gender-specific issue. There are people who will use you for the favors you do for them because you two are friends. And yeah, it sucks, but the way to stop that? Find new friends.

Real talk though? Using people for sex isn't so awful that it warrants being labelled as "psychologically damaging" either (and it's not a gender specific issue). Most of the time people will get over it, and it's one of those things you wise up about after it happens. You live and you learn. Hookups and relationships are no different in that respect. If you keep getting into a situation where people are using you for this or that, maybe it's time to look in the mirror a little; most people can smell gullibility and/or vulnerability from a mile off.

People who victimise themselves to an insane degree about either of those things that fedoraphiliac mentioned are slightly autistic, considering that it's a non-issue and the only thing we learn from it is that the other person, who is either using your kindness or using you for sex, is an asshole to be avoided and you should probably find other people to spend time with.
 
So being the definition of 'friends' is psychologically damaging now... :story: I'm not about to say that there are guys and gals who are kind to people and that shit is taken advantage of, though that is not a gender-specific issue. There are people who will use you for the favors you do for them because you two are friends. And yeah, it sucks, but the way to stop that? Find new friends.

Real talk though? Using people for sex isn't so awful that it warrants being labelled as "psychologically damaging" either (and it's not a gender specific issue). Most of the time people will get over it, and it's one of those things you wise up about after it happens. You live and you learn. Hookups and relationships are no different in that respect. If you keep getting into a situation where people are using you for this or that, maybe it's time to look in the mirror a little; most people can smell gullibility and/or vulnerability from a mile off.

People who victimise themselves to an insane degree about either of those things that fedoraphiliac mentioned are slightly autistic, considering that it's a non-issue and the only thing we learn from it is that the other person, who is either using your kindness or using you for sex, is an asshole to be avoided and you should probably find other people to spend time with.
W-well worded m-m'lady!
 
For realzies though this pic makes me really fucking uncomfortable. That's like two or three hundred dollars worth of shit he bought for her, some of it pretty intimate (I wouldn't even buy frilly underwear for someone I'm actually banging). I hope at the very least they got all that during a mutual shopping trip and he didn't just show up at her house with bags full of pricey crap.
What makes me uncomfortable is how it was autistically lined up on the floor. Did he force her to take a picture with it?
 
What makes me uncomfortable is how it was autistically lined up on the floor. Did he force her to take a picture with it?
I mean, if both parties truly think they're just friends and of an age where Facebook is important, I can see how it'd pass as "How about we line it all up and take a picture?". Not so much if he's panting and licking his lips.
This is what people fail to see in "loser" main characters; they always have a hobby. It cracks when that hobby is anime and the viewer goes "oh that's me, i can be quirky!", cus regardless, they still have quirky impulses and often act shy or whatever. Hell, they ignore advances from girls in favor of their hobby. Of course the female characters are written to be soaking wet, but imagine a manga without a plot based in the loser's interests. "He wants to fall in love but offers nothing". Dead by page 8.
 
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