Tanti-Fanti
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- Jan 17, 2018
Like Becky even said on Facebook she’s a good actress and she stayed with her ex longer than she wanted to, there’s a small part of me that’s assuming she can’t stand amber but is just along for the ride.
I feel it's a mix of both. I'm 100% certain that Becky knows or at least has the feeling that Amber is not super into her. Not calling her a Mastermind, but she seems to be smart enough to know that she doesn't have anywhere else to go from here UNLESS she made the effort. Not only would she have to put her coloring stuff away, lose weight, and grow up/get a job to save money to move out, Amber is a controlling, manipulative person. All that YT money is too comfortable for her.
Considering what happened to Destiny, I have the feeling Amber doesn't want to make the same mistake again. Despite CLEARLY being miserable with Becky, we know Amber can't stand to be alone. She needs someone to leech off of and give her constant attention. And in return, Becky provides that attention despite Amber clearly not liking her one bit. In a way it's mutualism. Becky, being irrationally enamored with Amber, gives her the attention she wants AND gets to sit around and eat food all day. For someone who has probably never been in a healthy relationship, this is paradise. And all Amber has to do is keep her manipulative sthick. It's a win/win for both of them.
At least with Destiny compared to Becky, in comparison videos you can see that she clearly had some sort of affection for her. But with Becky, she seems disgusted every time she's near her. In a way, they both are the best and worst for each other. Neither of them make them truly happy or healthy. Just content...until it's not. I have not doubt it will be Amber dropping her for the next guillable tomboy she comes across that does more for her than Becky ever could.