I had an experience yesterday which sums up my main problem with the metoo movement.
For context I work as a security guard/bouncer at a number of bars in my area. I have been for a while, so I know most of the other local security and how they operate.
So it was about 1:00 am, and this girl and two guys come up to the door. I give them my standard "I need to see your IDs first, and the cover will be three dollars" speall. Now after fumbling in her purse for like a minute, she tries to give me five bucks, and I repeat that I need to see her ID first, and she then starts fumbling for like another whole minute for that.
So I'm suspicious that she's drunk now, so I shoot out my standard line of drunk filter dialogue. I ask them how their night has been, and one of the guys responds "not so good", oh yeah, why is that? I ask, "she was sexually assaulted by the bouncers at xxxxxxx"
So what happened was she was drunk, the bouncers told her to leave, she didn't, so they escorted her off the property phisically. I guessed as much at the time, and when I asked later that was exactly what happened.
So I told them they couldn't come in, as she was visibly intoxicated.
I've had girls pull similar stunts on me. There was one occasion where a girl was trying to enter through the exit door to skip the line, and after I didn't take her bribe she squeezed in close to me and claimed I was trapping her against the wall.
Now whenever someone is defending the metoo movement they always argue that "she has no reason to lie, nothing to gain".
My problem with that is YOU HAVE NO WAY OF KNOWING WHAT IS GOING THROUGH SOMUONE ELSES HEAD. The motive could be financial, political, maybe they just hate the guy for personal reasons, maybe they're just fucking crazy. I have zero doubted in my mind that Ether money changed hands in the kavenaugh case, or a future political position was promised to the accuser, because some third party didn't want kavenaugh in office. But no one considers that, they just continue to spout the bullshit line "what was in it for her to lie?".
If people are willing to accuse you of sexual assault just to get into a bar without having to line up and pay the cover charge like everyone else, or because they don't have a valid ID, or are too intoxicated to get in, what on earth makes you think they would be unwilling to do the same for other equally petty selfish reasons.
If the police took what drunk collage girls said at face value me and every other security guard on my street would be registered sex offenders.