Daddies and Littles - Child Abuse Fetish

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Blake Bumbleby said:
That bridge piercing is a: crooked and b: either rejecting or pierced way too shallow, and it's triggering me
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Hole is not crooked but the piercing is a angled eyebrow piercing and it's not supposed to go on your bridge. Agree that's way too close to the surface. With the angled piercing it might just fuck off her face one of these days.
 
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desperate cockroach said:
Hole is not crooked but the piercing is a angled eyebrow piercing and it's not supposed to go on your bridge. Agree that's way too close to the surface. With the angled piercing it might just fuck off her face one of these days.
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I had to reread this post three times before I realized you meant it was a curved barbell for an eyebrow piercing. :lit:
 
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Can someone explain to me why is it that these spergs think their sick kink is a "healthy" way to cope with their childhood abuse?
Yeah okay I get it, the whole doing it again but you are in control because of safewords and all that... I know a bit about psychology and I know that the way to overcome a trauma is not to repeat it over and over again.
 
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sweet-cereal-killer said:
Can someone explain to me why is it that these spergs think their sick kink is a "healthy" way to cope with their childhood abuse?
Yeah okay I get it, the whole doing it again but you are in control because of safewords and all that... I know a bit about psychology and I know that the way to overcome a trauma is not to repeat it over and over again.
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There is a form of therapy for PTSD called EMDR. Your therapist will have you follow their fingers with your eyes while recalling traumatic events as you continue, your therapist will redirect you to positive thoughts. It's kooky, yes, but people who had this therapy says it works. Mixing something traumatic with something positive like sex and deep companionship maybe therapeutic to some people. Exposure therapy is more well established way to deal with anxiety and fears, though.
 
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Dr. Studman M.D. said:
There is a form of therapy for PTSD called EMDR. Your therapist will have you follow their fingers with your eyes while recalling traumatic events as you continue, your therapist will redirect you to positive thoughts. It's kooky, yes, but people who had this therapy says it works.
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I'm doing EMDR, it does work but that's not quite how it works. It directs you to negative/traumatic thoughts and you just use kind of free association and go from there. The idea is to unrepress negative feelings and memories. It works because it's just not about the traumatic event, it's all the other things before it, even seemingly irrelevant and harmless things.

It looks like to me what those BDSM folks try to do is repeat the traumatic event in a controlled environment and give it a "nice" outcome. Only it doesn't really change reality. The idea behind EMDR is that you don't need the compulsions/experience panic attacks anymore. It's supposed to get you out of a dissociative state, not put you in one like that BDSM stuff.

TL;DR BDSM for trauma is like trying to find a pretend abuser who you can control, EMDR is making you not need BDSM or compulsions.
 
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Dr. Studman M.D. said:
There is a form of therapy for PTSD called EMDR. Your therapist will have you follow their fingers with your eyes while recalling traumatic events as you continue, your therapist will redirect you to positive thoughts. It's kooky, yes, but people who had this therapy says it works. Mixing something traumatic with something positive like sex and deep companionship maybe therapeutic to some people. Exposure therapy is more well established way to deal with anxiety and fears, though.
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Also, those things are done with a therapist. As in, someone with a degree. Not with some walking fedora with a neckbeard attached.
 
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Blake Bumbleby said:
Also, those things are done with a therapist. As in, someone with a degree. Not with some walking fedora with a neckbeard attached.
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Sometimes your daddy has a bachelors in Psychology and works as a part time barista and part time uber driver. You mean his degree from Phoenix University isn't of the same caliber as getting a PHD at Stanford?

When you think about it Philip Zimbardo was the ultimate dom.
 
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sweet-cereal-killer said:
Can someone explain to me why is it that these spergs think their sick kink is a "healthy" way to cope with their childhood abuse?
Yeah okay I get it, the whole doing it again but you are in control because of safewords and all that... I know a bit about psychology and I know that the way to overcome a trauma is not to repeat it over and over again.
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Beyond child abuse and the degeneracy of DD/lg, I'm pretty sure that phobias that result from trauma are supposed to be treated by repeatedly exposing the patient to the stimulus in increasing levels.

But it's okay, I'm probably just some fucked up weirdo. Please use your knowledge of psychology to psychoanalyze me.

:)
 
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Ahoy said:
Beyond child abuse and the degeneracy of DD/lg, I'm pretty sure that phobias that result from trauma are supposed to be treated by repeatedly exposing the patient to the stimulus in increasing levels.

But it's okay, I'm probably just some fucked up weirdo. Please use your knowledge of psychology to psychoanalyze me.

:)
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Well yes, but I think it will be far more efficace if done by real doctors, I guess. You don't ask your neighbour to finger your ass when you have hemorrhoids, you call a proctologist.
 
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Jhonson Jhonson said:
Well yes, but I think it will be far more efficace if done by real doctors, I guess. You don't ask your neighbour to finger your ass when you have hemorrhoids, you call a proctologist.
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I reacted to your post with "winner" when it's really quite obvious.

@Ahoy You get exposed to them in therapy until you stop dissociating and accept whatever uncomfortable feelings are being repressed. You are not beaten into dissociation. That's the complete opposite of how to heal a trauma.
 
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Most littles can't claim to actually be little, but that lady has that going for her. Which is nice for her, I guess?
 
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