r/polyamory

[AprilRains]

Also, you can stop embarassing yourself on this account any time you want.

Yes, Greenland is lovely this time of year.

 

[Hollywood Hulk Hogan]

Full disclosure: Am Indian women, have had white boyfriends.

My family had to learn to be ok with it, they were more concerned I thought that there's something wrong with Indian guys. I don't think that there is, I just form relationships based on deeper things than what color he is. Now they've accepted it once they realized I don't hate Indian guys, but sometimes they are still a PITA because they are clueless. It's more mildly annoying if anything. My dad and grandpa were actually the best about it at first surprisingly.

My other friend, on the other hand, had to hide her relationship for 2 years. Her parents force arrange married her sister in India, and her sister is now miserable, and she didn't want that happening to her. Her parents tried to do the same to her, and her white boyfriend (also my friend) intervened and thats how they found out. They fucking hate his ass. He's such a sweet person and they hate him for literally no reason at all because he's white and that means they can't pawn her off to some dude in India.

It really sucks because one of the women that couldn't tell her family about me, I'd probably be married to. She was so awesome. Smart, sweet, sexy, accent was sexy as hell. But she couldn't take the next step with me because she didn't want to get disowned. I still think about her a lot. I hope she's doing well

 

[BubbleButt]

It really sucks because one of the women that couldn't tell her family about me, I'd probably be married to. She was so awesome. Smart, sweet, sexy, accent was sexy as hell. But she couldn't take the next step with me because she didn't want to get disowned. I still think about her a lot. I hope she's doing well

Well, if you need a silver lining, Indian women age like skim milk.

 

[Free the Pedos]

Why do people in these M/F/F cuck triads believe that that the wife’s relationship with the female side piece could never possibly overpower her relationship with her boyfriend/husband? Anyone who believes that they’re going to come out the other side of that arrangement unscathed absolutely deserves getting cucked over

There was a great r/relationships post last year by a man who talked his reluctant girlfriend into a threesome with another woman. TLDR: The girlfriend left him for the unicorn.

 

[Brain Problems]

Setting aside all the gross emotional manipulation and cognitive dissonance of poly folx, I’ve always wondered how the hell they find the time and energy for extra relationships. Do they not have anything else going on in their lives? (i.e. jobs, friends, families).

I’m happily married now, but I still remember how exhausting dating was. Spending hours reading profiles, carefully vetting people, messaging them, getting ready for dates etc. was very time consuming. The inevitable emotional highs and disappointments weren’t fun either, it was a lot of work for very little reward, since 90% of the time there was never a second date.

My one friend that got talked into this by his schlubby homely wife is basically who you're describing. He's addicted to socializing though, so there's no second thought to the exhaustion that comes from having to constantly interact with other humans on a more intimate level because he's hooked on it. It makes zero sense to me and is annoying to hear about since my perspective is someone who treasures every second of free and quiet time.

But most of these encounters also boil down to booty-calls that someone his age should have outgrown but I still find it fascinating when he lets slip some detail about the various broads he's nailing on the side despite working 40+ hours a week (the wife doesn't work, shocker!) along with all the rest of the obligations. Don't get me wrong, a hot piece of ass is outstanding but it borders on an addiction as far as I'm concerned, an almost animal-like obsession with sex and other people's company.

 

[DelicateMageflower]

Sigh...

 

[Dwight Schrute]

It's funny seeing how they whince, whine, and kick their feet when you tell them that a poly relationship is exactly like cheating but with consent.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

Sigh...

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Like all deviants, they are never content to stick with the first level of perversion, but keep moving the goalposts and escalating.

 

[bbfx]

Sigh...

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This woman is literally asking her husband to pay for her fucktoy to live with them, and to provide for the children she has with the fucktoy, while making the guy feel bad because he's not 100% on board.
That's a new level of detachment from reality.

 

[Vorhtbame]

Sigh...

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Answer: No. He is likely to be held responsible, by law, for any children born while he is married to her, and he will not be allowed to shift that responsibility to the real father.

What I see is her driving him out of his own house shortly after the other guy's baby is born, and filing for divorce, within days of her getting tired of having to see him as human. She gets the house because Baby, and he gets to pay her alimony (because she's unemployed!) and child support along with continuing to pay for a house he doesn't live in--but Boyfriend does.

This is Progress, y'all.

 

[DelicateMageflower]

Ol Matty has the right idea in his reply:

 

[AnOminous]

Answer: No. He is likely to be held responsible, by law, for any children born while he is married to her, and he will not be allowed to shift that responsibility to the real father.

The law does not countenance cuckoldry and one is presumed to be the father of one's wife's children even if they are Tyrone's, as explained by cuckoldry-hating Justice Scalia in the celebrated case of Michael H. v. Gerald D.

 

[Safir]

The law does not countenance cuckoldry and one is presumed to be the father of one's wife's children even if they are Tyrone's, as explained by cuckoldry-hating Justice Scalia in the celebrated case of Michael H. v. Gerald D.

This one I am 100% ethically on board with: the guy got together with his wife and wanted to parent the wife's daughter, fought for her all the way to the SCOTUS and got his wish. Yes, legally it's the same situation, but the parties' motivations are polar opposites:
man who didn't want his wife to cheat on him wants to maintain his functioning marriage and continue to raise the child of that marriage without interference from a flyby penis
vs
cuck who wanted his wife to cheat on him wants to maintain a sham marriage or divorce and dodge responsibility for the child

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We do not accept JUSTICE BRENNAN's criticism that this result "squashes" the liberty that consists of "the freedom not to conform."

 

[CheezzyMach]

Why do people in these M/F/F cuck triads believe that that the wife’s relationship with the female side piece could never possibly overpower her relationship with her boyfriend/husband? Anyone who believes that they’re going to come out the other side of that arrangement unscathed absolutely deserves getting cucked over

Whenever I hear of these if the wife's not a completely miserable cuckquean I just assume she's a closeted lesbian looking for an out.

 

[Free the Pedos]

The law does not countenance cuckoldry and one is presumed to be the father of one's wife's children even if they are Tyrone's, as explained by cuckoldry-hating Justice Scalia in the celebrated case of Michael H. v. Gerald D.

I'm only sorry I didn't know about this case in time to take "Cuckoldry-Hating Justice Scalia" as my username on KF>

 

[Pineapple Fox]

Not Reddit but this article made me laugh;

https://pagesix.com/2019/09/17/thomas-middleditch-says-swinging-saved-his-marriage/

 

[Kosher Dill]

From the Newspaper of Record: "How To Propose an Open Relationship"

How to Propose an Open Relationship

Raise the topic gradually. Talk about famous attractive people.

www.nytimes.com

If you’re in a monogamous relationship and want to explore making it nonmonogamous, raise the topic gradually. Conley doesn’t drink, but she thinks these exploratory conversations might benefit from the loosening effects of alcohol.

I'm not usually the type who goes around ranting about "degeneracy", but... wow

 

[Gym Leader Elesa]

My one friend that got talked into this by his schlubby homely wife is basically who you're describing. He's addicted to socializing though, so there's no second thought to the exhaustion that comes from having to constantly interact with other humans on a more intimate level because he's hooked on it. It makes zero sense to me and is annoying to hear about since my perspective is someone who treasures every second of free and quiet time.

But most of these encounters also boil down to booty-calls that someone his age should have outgrown but I still find it fascinating when he lets slip some detail about the various broads he's nailing on the side despite working 40+ hours a week (the wife doesn't work, shocker!) along with all the rest of the obligations. Don't get me wrong, a hot piece of ass is outstanding but it borders on an addiction as far as I'm concerned, an almost animal-like obsession with sex and other people's company.

As a hyper-social person who likes to be with people every second of the day (I try to spread my conversing around so I don't exhaust any one person) I never fucked anybody on the side in my life. So I think they're fucked in the head in some way other than me. Narcissism?

 

[Black Waltz]

As a hyper-social person who likes to be with people every second of the day (I try to spread my conversing around so I don't exhaust any one person) I never fucked anybody on the side in my life. So I think they're fucked in the head in some way other than me. Narcissism?

autism?

 

[Gym Leader Elesa]

autism?

I mean that's what most of us have and I think prevents more sex than it causes if the Virginity thread in Deep Thoughts is to be believed.