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Urban Superstition said:
These morons really think their vision of polyamory is the same as a member of royalty owning multiple women? This is a false equivalence at best (thinking that kings actually loved their concubines instead of viewing them as pretty, fuckable ornaments), and horribly narcissistic at worst (comparing polyamorists to kings partaking in kingly activities), but completely shallow in both interpretations. Kings did not own concubines because they loved more than one person, they owned concubines because they were so wealthy that they could afford to indulge in their lust (which it was: lust, not love, and they almost always never had the same rights the real wife had). Polygamy had been largely practiced by the rich, not by peasants.
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I forget where I saw this but there was a thing on twitter a while back where a woman was calling out other women for saying shit like "He may fuck you but I'm the one he always comes back to." She said that statement was supposed to only apply to cases where it's a woman with a filthy-rich husband who has affairs, not your average 20-something who is paying the bills while her boyfriend smokes weed and bangs other women on the couch she paid for.

Ndnd said:
Setting aside all the gross emotional manipulation and cognitive dissonance of poly folx, I’ve always wondered how the hell they find the time and energy for extra relationships. Do they not have anything else going on in their lives? (i.e. jobs, friends, families).
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From what I've seen in this thread and over yonder, there's always a breadwinner, but that breadwinner tends not to be the same person who initiates the poly relationship. So you end up with cases where Man/Woman 1 is bringing home the bacon while Man/Woman 2 and 3 stay at home.

scathefire said:
Why do people in these M/F/F cuck triads believe that that the wife’s relationship with the female side piece could never possibly overpower her relationship with her boyfriend/husband? Anyone who believes that they’re going to come out the other side of that arrangement unscathed absolutely deserves getting cucked over
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They believe their dicks are magic wands that make women incapable of receiving better orgasms from other women.

queerape said:
He's such a sweet person and they hate him for literally no reason at all because he's white and that means they can't pawn her off to some dude in India.
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Some RICH dude in India.
 
SourDiesel said:
Apparently this is the dude's fourth kiwifarms account. He claims it's because he keeps losing his password but more likely it's because he keeps getting embarrassed.

Either that or he's trying to troll.

Bad bait though, mate. I rate it 0/8. No one's even irate. We just conflate you with the traits of the homosexual and overweight.
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I lose passwords all the time. Plus I believe in burner accounts. People get too attached to accounts like they mean something.
 
LolNoIPLeaksEvenLMFAO said:
I lose passwords all the time. Plus I believe in burner accounts. People get too attached to accounts like they mean something.
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people get too attached to their wives too like they mean something

i think you are doing the right thing by letting other people fuck her
 
AprilRains said:
you say that like it makes you not a tard
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Or that it makes my post bait. Just because you're dumb enough to fall into a hole, doesn't mean the hole was there to trap you.
LolNoIPLeaksEvenLMFAO said:
I lose passwords all the time. Plus I believe in burner accounts. People get too attached to accounts like they mean something.
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"Burner accounts"? Who the fuck do you think you are? Kevin Durant? For real though, you should be IP banned so you can't keep making new accounts everytime you embarrass yourself.

Also, you can stop embarassing yourself on this account any time you want.
 
queerape said:
Full disclosure: Am Indian women, have had white boyfriends.

My family had to learn to be ok with it, they were more concerned I thought that there's something wrong with Indian guys. I don't think that there is, I just form relationships based on deeper things than what color he is. Now they've accepted it once they realized I don't hate Indian guys, but sometimes they are still a PITA because they are clueless. It's more mildly annoying if anything. My dad and grandpa were actually the best about it at first surprisingly.

My other friend, on the other hand, had to hide her relationship for 2 years. Her parents force arrange married her sister in India, and her sister is now miserable, and she didn't want that happening to her. Her parents tried to do the same to her, and her white boyfriend (also my friend) intervened and thats how they found out. They fucking hate his ass. He's such a sweet person and they hate him for literally no reason at all because he's white and that means they can't pawn her off to some dude in India.
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It really sucks because one of the women that couldn't tell her family about me, I'd probably be married to. She was so awesome. Smart, sweet, sexy, accent was sexy as hell. But she couldn't take the next step with me because she didn't want to get disowned. I still think about her a lot. I hope she's doing well
 
Hollywood Hulk Hogan said:
It really sucks because one of the women that couldn't tell her family about me, I'd probably be married to. She was so awesome. Smart, sweet, sexy, accent was sexy as hell. But she couldn't take the next step with me because she didn't want to get disowned. I still think about her a lot. I hope she's doing well
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Well, if you need a silver lining, Indian women age like skim milk.
 
scathefire said:
Why do people in these M/F/F cuck triads believe that that the wife’s relationship with the female side piece could never possibly overpower her relationship with her boyfriend/husband? Anyone who believes that they’re going to come out the other side of that arrangement unscathed absolutely deserves getting cucked over
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There was a great r/relationships post last year by a man who talked his reluctant girlfriend into a threesome with another woman. TLDR: The girlfriend left him for the unicorn.
 
Ndnd said:
Setting aside all the gross emotional manipulation and cognitive dissonance of poly folx, I’ve always wondered how the hell they find the time and energy for extra relationships. Do they not have anything else going on in their lives? (i.e. jobs, friends, families).

I’m happily married now, but I still remember how exhausting dating was. Spending hours reading profiles, carefully vetting people, messaging them, getting ready for dates etc. was very time consuming. The inevitable emotional highs and disappointments weren’t fun either, it was a lot of work for very little reward, since 90% of the time there was never a second date.
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My one friend that got talked into this by his schlubby homely wife is basically who you're describing. He's addicted to socializing though, so there's no second thought to the exhaustion that comes from having to constantly interact with other humans on a more intimate level because he's hooked on it. It makes zero sense to me and is annoying to hear about since my perspective is someone who treasures every second of free and quiet time.

But most of these encounters also boil down to booty-calls that someone his age should have outgrown but I still find it fascinating when he lets slip some detail about the various broads he's nailing on the side despite working 40+ hours a week (the wife doesn't work, shocker!) along with all the rest of the obligations. Don't get me wrong, a hot piece of ass is outstanding but it borders on an addiction as far as I'm concerned, an almost animal-like obsession with sex and other people's company.
 
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It's funny seeing how they whince, whine, and kick their feet when you tell them that a poly relationship is exactly like cheating but with consent.
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DelicateMageflower said:
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Answer: No. He is likely to be held responsible, by law, for any children born while he is married to her, and he will not be allowed to shift that responsibility to the real father.

What I see is her driving him out of his own house shortly after the other guy's baby is born, and filing for divorce, within days of her getting tired of having to see him as human. She gets the house because Baby, and he gets to pay her alimony (because she's unemployed!) and child support along with continuing to pay for a house he doesn't live in--but Boyfriend does.

This is Progress, y'all.
 
Vorhtbame said:
Answer: No. He is likely to be held responsible, by law, for any children born while he is married to her, and he will not be allowed to shift that responsibility to the real father.
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The law does not countenance cuckoldry and one is presumed to be the father of one's wife's children even if they are Tyrone's, as explained by cuckoldry-hating Justice Scalia in the celebrated case of Michael H. v. Gerald D.
 
AnOminous said:
The law does not countenance cuckoldry and one is presumed to be the father of one's wife's children even if they are Tyrone's, as explained by cuckoldry-hating Justice Scalia in the celebrated case of Michael H. v. Gerald D.
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This one I am 100% ethically on board with: the guy got together with his wife and wanted to parent the wife's daughter, fought for her all the way to the SCOTUS and got his wish. Yes, legally it's the same situation, but the parties' motivations are polar opposites:
man who didn't want his wife to cheat on him wants to maintain his functioning marriage and continue to raise the child of that marriage without interference from a flyby penis
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cuck who wanted his wife to cheat on him wants to maintain a sham marriage or divorce and dodge responsibility for the child

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We do not accept JUSTICE BRENNAN's criticism that this result "squashes" the liberty that consists of "the freedom not to conform."
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scathefire said:
Why do people in these M/F/F cuck triads believe that that the wife’s relationship with the female side piece could never possibly overpower her relationship with her boyfriend/husband? Anyone who believes that they’re going to come out the other side of that arrangement unscathed absolutely deserves getting cucked over
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Whenever I hear of these if the wife's not a completely miserable cuckquean I just assume she's a closeted lesbian looking for an out.
 
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