Kids aren't allowed in "heterosexual" bars. Alas, I guess some irresponsible parent or an alcoholic can bring their kids to the bar, but at least they aren't forcing them to perform for the customer. In fact, I'm sure if some parent forces their 12 years old girl to dance there, police would be closing down the place in a snap.
The whole "it's not sexual, duh" argument is moronic and it's almost insulting that they believe we're that stupid and we don't know about their "gay culture" they keep asking us to respect. Yes, straight people go to bars to hook up, but some just go to spend time with friends or to have a drink. There is not one single exclusive purpose for a bar or a tavern or whatever . On the other fucking hand, gay bars exist with the only specific purpose of gay people to find other gay people so they can hook up. Otherwise, they'd go to a "normal" bar instead to spend time. What's next? Taking Desmond to a brothel and say it's not "sexual" because he's not the one having sex? Morons.