Fat Acceptance Movement / Fat Girlcows

[Koresh]

What even is the logic of "jerking off to someone who looks like you will make you feel sexy!"
I understand conditioning yourself, but popping a boner because you associate 8 pm, sitting in your chair after a long bath with jerking off because that's what you always do doesn't mean you're suddenly attracted to that scenario. Even if you see someone who looks like a porn star you've jerked it to, that doesn't mean that you're attracted to them. It just means oh wow a lot of people look alike in the world. Yeah, some fetishes are developed through consistent exposure to something in a sexual context, but that's definitely on the statistically low side of happening.

Is there even any logic to this or is it just the diabetes eating at her brain

 

[bev]

Another thing I don't understand about self-titled Fat Activists is that they always preach about being unapologetically themselves--that they're strong for displaying their true selves rather than catering to society's standards. But what's the point if you're trying to change society's status quo anyway? What strength lies in demanding that society bends itself in order to respect you? Yes, it's brave to go against the norm. However, it's foolish and weak to whine and complain when society doesn't accept you immediately and wholeheartedly when your act of rebellion is by not doing anything with yourself.

Over in the Chantal thread, she posted a selfie with the hashtag #FatGirlsCanBePrettyToo (or smtg like that). But beauty isn't just physical, it's also behavioral. If you're not conventionally pretty, then behave as a pretty person would: take care of your appearance, be humble, mindful, and motivated. Don't emerge from your den unshaven, unshowered, half-naked and screech while expecting people to treat you with more respect than you clearly have for yourself. You don't care about yourself so why should anyone else?

No one thinks these pornstars are beautiful. Most people may pity them for being desperate or for having issues with acceptance. They jack off to them then forget about them entirely. No one is going to try to convince themselves that your lumpy, sweaty, unashamed, belching, farting ass is something to be desired or admired no matter how often you post your naked body online. Either be a standardly decent human being who others can aspire to be, or be your self-satisfied, disgusting "true" self. The choice is yours. You can't force others to embrace you regardless of your choices.

 

[AbraCadaver]

Oh, Sonalee. This cow deserves her own thread, I swear. She attended CurvyCon (of course), and here's what she had to say about it:
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thefatsextherapist
this is a photo of me in my glory. new favorite dress by @asos & sandals by @torrid standing in front of the @diaandco sign Big Girl Energy at @thecurvycon during #NYFW
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being at curvy con was weird as a person both aware of late stage capitalism and mostly uninterested in fashion. but my bestie @sharminultra described it as a dreamy place where we got to imagine what it would look like if fat femmes ruled the world it wasn’t overrun by small white fats. there were so many fat designers and freelancers of color. and i’d be lying to you if i said it didn’t excite me to be able to shop for FASHIONABLE clothes IN MY SUPER SIZE, in real life, with sweet and supportive fat sales people who fluffed my confidence and handed me bigger sizes without shame while i was in the dressing room sweating and taking selfies
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all non binaries won’t agree. but for me as a non binary person, it didn’t feel weird to stand in front of this sign. while i don’t like others to assume i’m a woman, i like to still be gendered in ways that feel playful and non judgmental. like i love to call myself the best man for the job & still have my friends call me their girl or bitch. i feel like others assume my gender bc i enjoy wearing dresses (it’s an easy one piece outfit tbh) and occasionally wear high femme makeup featuring prominent flirtatious dramatic false lashes (my faves are @kokolashes in goddess). but why does masculine androgyny get to be the sole representation of gender neutral expression? this is what my gender neutrality looks like
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no, i don’t wear makeup every day. mostly bc it takes time i’d rather spend sleeping and people treat me so differently (read: better) when i’m wearing it. i wonder if it’s bc of the extraordinary demand for hyperfemininity that’s expected of fat women and feminine folks. i also have light and "good" skin privilege here, which feels important to name when considering lookism and shadeism
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do you have questions about gender fluidity or neutrality? or gender and fatness? i and other non binary folks can answer them below hope everyone is having a gay day

What kills me (and by "kills" I mean "makes me laugh myself sick") is that she describes herself as "as a person both aware of late stage capitalism and mostly uninterested in fashion"--while at the same time crediting the manufacturers of both the dress and sandals she's wearing in the pic; pays money to attend a conference catering to women whose defining trait is gross overconsumption, and the purpose of which is to encourage even greater overconsumption of fashion and beauty products; gives a shoutout to the corporate entity (an online plus-size fashion retailer) that created the backdrop she is standing in front of; and then goes on at length about shopping for FASHIONABLE clothes manufactured (under no doubt horrible conditions, by brown women getting paid a pittance) and being cheerfully catered to by the sales staff who didn't make her feel the least bit self-conscious about her corpulence.

Sonalee's entire existence is entirely due to "late-stage capitalism," as is that of every obese heifer in the Fat Acceptance movement. She is utterly blind to any privilege she has--except for her "light and 'good' skin privilege." She's of Indian descent, yet that Indian (and other brown) women are exploited ruthlessly in order to bring her FASHIONABLE clothes in the supermassive size she needs because she has the luxury of eating herself to death while pondering what her gender is, while performing no physical labor whatsoever--my god, her hypocrisy and sense of entitlement are even greater than her girth. She is eminently hateable for that.

I think the real humor here is found in the FAT GIRL ENERGY!!! sign hung over a huge, tired-looking woman with a resigned expression.

That’s pretty much the definition of fat girl energy, at a glance.

 

[NototiousUnit]

LividLipids posted some of her meals today and I just thought some of you might want to look on in horror at just how much this woman can pound back in a single day. Each of these meals on its own might be fine, but I just don't get how you could possibly be hungry for all of this food. This is breakfast, lunch and dinner and I've included a rough calorie count for each.

Breakfast - 2890 cals (Sausages are super high cal)

Lunch - 1777 cals

Dinner - Rice and chicken are probably around 500-600 cal, I have no idea what the sauce or green veggie are.

Approx. Total - 5167 cal (excluding whatever sugary/caffeinated beverages she consumed)

Massive portions and so much food for one day. Especially someone who is so sedentary. I could see a very active person needing this many calories but damn. Looking at this makes me sick. I don't consider myself very healthy, I'm the type to eat breakfast at 7am and then fast until 9pm, so I literally can't imagine eating meals this big within hours of each other. Kudos to her for homemaking so much food but she really doesn't need all of that.

 

[Suzuki Beane]

LividLipids posted some of her meals today and I just thought some of you might want to look on in horror at just how much this woman can pound back in a single day. Each of these meals on its own might be fine, but I just don't get how you could possibly be hungry for all of this food. This is breakfast, lunch and dinner and I've included a rough calorie count for each.

Breakfast - 2890 cals (Sausages are super high cal)
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Lunch - 1777 cals
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Dinner - Rice and chicken are probably around 500-600 cal, I have no idea what the sauce or green veggie are.
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Approx. Total - 5167 cal (excluding whatever sugary/caffeinated beverages she consumed)

Massive portions and so much food for one day. Especially someone who is so sedentary. I could see a very active person needing this many calories but damn. Looking at this makes me sick. I don't consider myself very healthy, I'm the type to eat breakfast at 7am and then fast until 9pm, so I literally can't imagine eating meals this big within hours of each other. Kudos to her for homemaking so much food but she really doesn't need all of that.

The green veg appears to be pan fried okra.

 

[LetThemEatCake]

Massive portions and so much food for one day. Especially someone who is so sedentary. I could see a very active person needing this many calories but damn.

Tall, male, heavily muscled Olympic-level swimmers in training and competition may eat that or more or maybe serious professional strongmen lifting shitloads to pack on muscle (and their health suffers for it anyway) but nobody else 'needs' that level of calories. Even serious female bodybuilders on a bulking phase don't eat that much.

I read a swimmer like Michael Phelps (6' 3", 200lb) would burn a minimum of 3000 a day in the pool and often a hell of a lot more and would eat for that, but these are outliers. Short, sedentary women who are well over 50%+ body fat are not going to burn anywhere near 5K unless they are pulling a sled in the Arctic circle all day or something. Her BMR is probably quite high, but there's zero reason or excuse for her to eat like that other than gluttony inspired by whatever bad emotions she's trying to smother with lard.

 

[NototiousUnit]

Tall, male, heavily muscled Olympic-level swimmers in training and competition may eat that or more or maybe serious professional strongmen lifting shitloads to pack on muscle (and their health suffers for it anyway) but nobody else 'needs' that level of calories. Even serious female bodybuilders on a bulking phase don't eat that much.

I read a swimmer like Michael Phelps (6' 3", 200lb) would burn a minimum of 3000 a day in the pool and often a hell of a lot more and would eat for that, but these are outliers. Short, sedentary women who are well over 50%+ body fat are not going to burn anywhere near 5K unless they are pulling a sled in the Arctic circle all day or something. Her BMR is probably quite high, but there's zero reason or excuse for her to eat like that other than gluttony inspired by whatever bad emotions she's trying to smother with lard.

It's no wonder she goes through so many doctors, I can imagine it would be hard to bite your tongue when this walking lump almost breaks your examination table. Her diet alone is out of control. She has Type 2 diabetes as well, although you're fatphobic if you even begin to suggest it could be made worse through her terrible high fat/sugar/calorie diet.

 

[AbraCadaver]

LividLipids posted some of her meals today and I just thought some of you might want to look on in horror at just how much this woman can pound back in a single day. Each of these meals on its own might be fine, but I just don't get how you could possibly be hungry for all of this food. This is breakfast, lunch and dinner and I've included a rough calorie count for each.

Breakfast - 2890 cals (Sausages are super high cal)
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Lunch - 1777 cals
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Dinner - Rice and chicken are probably around 500-600 cal, I have no idea what the sauce or green veggie are.
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Approx. Total - 5167 cal (excluding whatever sugary/caffeinated beverages she consumed)

Massive portions and so much food for one day. Especially someone who is so sedentary. I could see a very active person needing this many calories but damn. Looking at this makes me sick. I don't consider myself very healthy, I'm the type to eat breakfast at 7am and then fast until 9pm, so I literally can't imagine eating meals this big within hours of each other. Kudos to her for homemaking so much food but she really doesn't need all of that.

While I agree she doesn’t need all that, your calorie counts are way off, at least for breakfast. There’s no way that plate has 3000 calories on it. Even a bottom-tier greasy breakfast sausage from the freezer averages about 120 cals apiece. An english muffin is about 150. That scrambled egg seems to be from just one egg, possibly two. And an entire pound of strawberries has only 150 calories.

I’d estimate the whole breakfast plate at around 1200 calories at the most. Still very high for just breakfast, but not near as bad as the original estimate.

 

[Gym Leader Elesa]

While I agree she doesn’t need all that, your calorie counts are way off, at least for breakfast. There’s no way that plate has 3000 calories on it. Even a bottom-tier greasy breakfast sausage from the freezer averages about 120 cals apiece. An english muffin is about 150. That scrambled egg seems to be from just one egg, possibly two. And an entire pound of strawberries has only 150 calories.

I’d estimate the whole breakfast plate at around 1200 calories at the most. Still very high for just breakfast, but not near as bad as the original estimate.

I was thinking the same. That's not a low amount of food, but there's no way it's "massive." Hell, I know plenty of thin people who eat like that and never gain any weight from it (and aren't particularly active.) It would be more than I eat in a day, but not a feast. I think there's a lot between those meals she's not showing us. No one gets that fat eating what was in those pictures and only that.

 

[NototiousUnit]

I was thinking the same. That's not a low amount of food, but there's no way it's "massive." Hell, I know plenty of thin people who eat like that and never gain any weight from it (and aren't particularly active.) It would be more than I eat in a day, but not a feast. I think there's a lot between those meals she's not showing us. No one gets that fat eating what was in those pictures and only that.

I had used an online calculator just to get a rough idea but that totally makes a lot of sense. I kind of just meant massive in the context of the entire day, not as a meal on its own. I was just surprised that someone could have all of that for breakfast and still eat 5 full chicken wings (drumstick + flat) 4-5 hours later, while also planning to have a big dinner.

2000 calories is what they say you need to maintain your weight and she is definitely not maintaining by any means. I think you're absolutely right in assuming there's probably a lot of snacking in between.

 

[rocknrollmartian]

I had used an online calculator just to get a rough idea but that totally makes a lot of sense. I kind of just meant massive in the context of the entire day, not as a meal on its own. I was just surprised that someone could have all of that for breakfast and still eat 5 full chicken wings (drumstick + flat) 4-5 hours later, while also planning to have a big dinner.

2000 calories is what they say you need to maintain your weight and she is definitely not maintaining by any means. I think you're absolutely right in assuming there's probably a lot of snacking in between.

Tbh a 100% sedentary fatso like Kelly really only needs ~3000 calories a day to "maintain" her massive weight. People here have noted that TDEE calculators aren't always so accurate for the morbidly obese (the calculators are likely more forgiving, it seems), but let's say if Kelly is 350 to 400 pounds, her TDEE is technically around 2800 to 3000 calories. If she's eating even just a few hundred calories of other small snacks on top of what you posted, she's definitely able to stay fat and gain without obvious bingeing (though normal non-athletic people would probably consider six sausage links to be some form of bingeing or at the very least excessive/gluttonous, lol).

 

[eternal dog mongler]

I was thinking the same. That's not a low amount of food, but there's no way it's "massive." Hell, I know plenty of thin people who eat like that and never gain any weight from it (and aren't particularly active.) It would be more than I eat in a day, but not a feast. I think there's a lot between those meals she's not showing us. No one gets that fat eating what was in those pictures and only that.

Uh clearly she's gone into starvation mode and started photosynthesizing, as mammals are known to do.

 

[Binge_n_purrrg]

I had used an online calculator just to get a rough idea but that totally makes a lot of sense. I kind of just meant massive in the context of the entire day, not as a meal on its own. I was just surprised that someone could have all of that for breakfast and still eat 5 full chicken wings (drumstick + flat) 4-5 hours later, while also planning to have a big dinner.

2000 calories is what they say you need to maintain your weight and she is definitely not maintaining by any means. I think you're absolutely right in assuming there's probably a lot of snacking in between.

Well, she’s eating for multiple genders, so....

 

[Tesshollidaysflupaknees]

The green veg appears to be pan fried okra.

How could anyone eat all of those sausages in one setting? The pan fried okra looks disgusting. She can't cook to save her life.

 

[chaddis]

Those sausages are mad salty, IDK how anyone eats more than two in one sitting honestly

Also Sonalee is a goldmine, who uses a photo platform to just post text? And why must it be right-aligned? That isn't cool or rebellious, just hard to read.

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Pretty sure the "erasure" here is death. It's well-known that obese pregnant women often have poor outcomes (miscarriage, stillbirth, gestational diabetes) and experience a number of other serious problems. But somehow she instead blames colonialism and eugenics, despite having heavy arms these people always manage to reach the furthest

 

[LetThemEatCake]

Holy shit, we're onto eUgEniCs!!!!111 now.

Being fat is not a genetically determined thing anyway. A fat person can become thin and a thin, fat, simply with a change of diet. But I believe they really DO think you somehow emerge from the womb predestined to reach some random 'set point' no matter what you eat. These are people who think they would still be 400lb if put in a workcamp to do 10 hours of physical labour a day and eat 900 calories.

 

[rocknrollmartian]

Those sausages are mad salty, IDK how anyone eats more than two in one sitting honestly

Also Sonalee is a goldmine, who uses a photo platform to just post text? And why must it be right-aligned? That isn't cool or rebellious, just hard to read.

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Pretty sure the "erasure" here is death. It's well-known that obese pregnant women often have poor outcomes (miscarriage, stillbirth, gestational diabetes) and experience a number of other serious problems. But somehow she instead blames colonialism and eugenics, despite having heavy arms these people always manage to reach the furthest

Sonalee is a bloated one-trick pony. She blames literally everything on colonialism and white supremacy. Get a new schtick, creep.

Also, how easy for her to say that obesity doesn't matter during pregnancy when she's a "queer" blob who will almost certainly never give birth. She sounds like a secret eugenicist herself who wants to trick undesirables into miscarriages and life-threatening eclampsia.

 

[StrawberryDouche]

Fat Amy has decided to address the elephant in the room. SOME OF YOU HAVE ASKED, Amy, is English your second language? Amy! Why u can't speaking good???

Answer: Amy went to public school for only a few years. The rest of the time, she was "home schooled" and she's married to someone with an accent + her fambily is from the south. Mystery solved! Amy isn't stupid. She's really, really, rillly stupid.

*children screeching*

She gained back 50 of the 78 she lost last year and is 472 pounds. A 100 less than Amber. Holy cows.

She "retired out" of her in home daycare business at 30 because it wasn't fun any more. Also pesky things like new laws.

Another version and rehashing of their We're Going To Be Evicted Send Money Now LOL JK saga. You are her best frens

She paid consequences from people who wanted to cause her grif.

They need a "coffee pot maker" because their Keurig stunk so bad she had to throw it out rather than clean it.

THEY'RE DOING AMAZEENG!!!!!!!!!!

*children screeching*

6/10 snouts. Yet another shifting explanatory of The Grift, and that poor adorable utterly doomed precious skunk makes an appearance.

Unless you're an idiot, those things tend to last for decades. I'm not even sure how you can make a coffee pot "stink" - it's coffee beans and water. Did she get drunk and accidentally shit in it or something?

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[thejackal]

anna's latest haul. she complains a lot about comments on her videos, does her horrible singing, all while spewing vomit about mindless dead end consumerism.

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[rocknrollmartian]

Eww. And I see Anna's going for the "domestic abuse" bruised eye look.

Also, Jesus, didn't she just get rid of two tons of ill-fitting, hyper-trendy fast-fashion clothes before leaving NY? Gorl is going to have to do the same in Austin but sooner. I think she's going to size out of everything but Universal Standard and Ashley Stewart within the year. So wasteful.