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- Nov 24, 2018
Sorry it's going to be a little TMI and I cringed a lot when I typed this message.
But I used to be a teenager who defends pedos. I had met one on an internet forum, he did a "pedophile coming out", he admitted to writing "erotic" stories with children to calm his desire and that he will never touch a single child because 'real children cannot consent and they are dirty'. He was polite and strangely, he seemed convincing, in my head I said to myself "ok he writes pedo stories but if he says that it's for prevent him from touching kids, it's a good thing right? ". I then started to defend pedophiles, because I had compassion for them, and after all they are human, they were born like that and if they said they won't touch any kids, why people would still hate them, right??
Fortunately it did not last long because I've never thought of seeing on the side of the victims, so I read read testimonies and watched several documentaries, one had struck me enough, it was a pedophile man of 30 years, he wanted to be cure and sworn to never touch a child in his life, that he would die a virgin because he didn't want to have sex with adults...
3 years later, he was arrested: He raped a minor, at that time I remembered the pedophile who wrote "erotic" stories, and if he too had already acted out? I will never know.
TL;DR Fuck pedos. They are and will destroying the lives of hundred of thousands children, every time I read a testimony from a victim of pedophilia, I feel guilty because I was on the side of their rapist.
Most teens believe in conspiracy theories, well many believe pedophiles are innocent, pedophiles who want to lower the legal age because teenagers are mature enough to consent, are dangerous.
Honestly? I still do have sympathy for people who have attractions that are out of their control, and I do think they need a lot of help. I see nothing wrong with what you did. I wouldn’t defend pedos who have offended before, because those people obviously have desires that overpower their own morality and willpower, and they should be locked up... but those who are aware that it’s morally wrong and actively fight it? I do have sympathy for those people. And a lot of them were abused as children themselves which caused their sexuality to develop that way, which was totally out of their control.
I think some of them deserve a chance and need to be put on meds and strict therapy, but never allowed near children ofc. But fuck this MAP bullshit. Keep it to yourself if you’re a pedo and seek help. The movement is ass-backwards. Pedophilia is not normal and never will be.
I kinda agree with both stances. It must be awful to find out you're a pedo, especially if kids are the only people you're attracted to. However... I also used to an autistic little kid who was naive and believed what they said. I didn't understand why someone would aim to hurt kids so I was accepting and, slight PL, they started circling around me like fucking vultures. Even one irl. Those people WILL find ways of getting nude pictures, making you do stuff, making you feel ashamed enough so that you won't tell.--- I really want to believe those "no contact" keep their word, because it would be better. I'm also kinda skeptical.