You're a hypocrite. You want to point the finger at Marshall for supposedly being abusive yet you're sitting here trying to abuse me verbally. "Trying" because I don't take it to heart. The manner in which you speak is verbally abusive. Try getting that log out of your eye.
And if you want to harp on the accuracy of statements, check yourself first.
I did NOT tell The Stalker that Marshall was abusive or unstable. I said in an email I
felt abused. It's up on another thread, you can check yourself for yourself.
Saying you FEEL abused doesn't mean the person is actual abusing you. It's describing your perception. I wouldn't be with Marshall if he was abusive. We worked out our conflict.
People declare that they are "done" all the time in marriages. I've heard it all. People pack up, toss their rings, say ugly words ....then they turn around and decide to not give up on the marriage. Have Marshall and I had our share of fights? Hell yeah. But that doesn't make him "unstable".
I stand by what I said: Marshall is the most in line with Torah/most righteous man I have ever met in my 34 years of life. I picked him because he seeks Torah and fears YHWH.
I won't comment on my upbringing because your statements are just flat out inaccurate and I don't need to correct them.
Your victim blaming theory that women pick abusive men is horseshit too.
No one is responsible for another person's sin. If someone was abusive to me, that's their sin, not mine. If someone got dumped because they committed a sin that leads to excommunication or death, that's not my responsibility. There's no "mistakes" to admit
because I've never been the guilty party in any break up from my past.
and that's exactly what it is: the past. My heart and mind aren't there anymore, hasn't been for years. I have Marshall and my family now and that is where my heart and mind are.
Marshall and I are going on 4 years. This relationship has outlived the length of any of my past covenant partners. The only comparable in length was my first marriage. It was longer on paper but over from the inside before 4 years.
And that's just one of many reasons Marshall isn't the "latest". He's where my search for a righteous man ends.
Marshall and I are going to make it.