I can't feel any sympathy for him. He trooned out because he knew his wife wouldn't leave him no matter how she felt about him doing it since she's trapped with him by a young child and financial dependence. He deserves everything he gets and then some. You cut off your dick and constantly humiliate her by pretending to be a woman, dude, of course she finds you disgusting and wants to sleep with other men.
But honestly, why does the military produce so many trannies? Are men in overwhelmingly male-dominated professions(military, programming, etc) more likely to develop AGP?