1)I struggled heavily with girls in high school(understatement). But even then, I did not blame them for my lack of sexual relationships. I always thought it was something inside me that repelled the women.
I had a best friend (girl) who I crushed on hard, but I was invisible to her sexually. All of that changed after I had orthognathic surgery when I was 17. My underbite was corrected (for functional reasons only at the time because I had absolutely no idea what aesthetics was at the time) and all of a sudden, girls took an interest in me. Almost overnight, I noticed that people (guys(SURPRISINGLY) AND girls) were nicer and seemed to listen to what I had to say more often, which definitely raised my confidence; although I was diasppointed that many people (family and friends) did not even recognize me. Even my best friend, who had previously ignored all of my sexual advances (and believe me there were many lol), finally decided to hook up with me before I left for college. It was like a never ending positive feedback loop. At the time, I could not wrap my head around why people were treating me differently all of a sudden. I just went with the flow. I felt great. It wasn't until I saw the before/after photos that my surgeon gave me six months after my surgery that I could begin to see a slight connection between physical beauty and social relationships. And thus, I developed a passion for understanding the "background" of social interaction. It's scary to say this, but I felt like jaw surgery not only corrected my facial flaws, but completely changed who I am from a social perspective.
Looking back, I'd probably blame my own physical deformities for my lack of success with women. I came to this conclusion because I experienced great success with many women in college even though I did not really change my approach.
2)Nobody is entitled to anything
3)I believe so. I need to have sex at least five times a week to function normally. Otherwise, I am way too horny for my own good. I can't really explain the reasoning for my need for sex. Sex is an illogical act after all.
4)I personally believe that the problem with feminism is that women want to be equal to men, but ALSO keep the perks of being a woman(women win divorces easily, opening doors, sexual harassment bias, etc). If a woman is equal to men but also has these extra perks, isn't the balance tipped in their favor?
5) I do not agree that attractiveness is exclusively related to outward appearances. I believe that a person's actions, sayings, and thoughts do contribute to their perceived attractiveness, but not to the extent that most people think it does. For example, in the past, many of my friends (guys) told me that girls thought I was shy, timid, and reserved. They would encourage me to be more open and extroverted. In college, (after jaw surgery), people perceived me as "mysterious" (what does that even fucking mean as a trait...) and charming, despite the fact that I did not go out of my way to change my behavior in any way -- I believe that people simply viewed my personality with a different perspective and mindset. (halo effect maybe?)
6) I think the definition of 'alpha men' (sexually speaking) is just another word for men that are perceived as attractive by women.
I can't say for sure whether 'alpha men' displace a significant degree of available women. However, in the younger crowd, 'alpha men' do take away some sexual opportunities from other men when going to bars, parties, or clubs; good looking people get much more attention (especially from unattractive people) than their unattractive counterparts, which constantly provides them with a infinite positive feedback loop. Whether this female attention is converted to a sexual encounter is entirely up to the 'alpha male's' desires and sex drive.
