The adult women giving yaoi to teenagers are the majority of fujoshis today. Can guarantee Lynn Hunt was one of them. That whole kiss deal? Basically the epitome of that kind of cultire.
And it wasn't like any of these people tried to hide the fact they were getting cozy with teens but nobody really did anything about it because nobody cared.
They really don't care too much about the safety of teens unless it's over something stupid like
"Vic flirting with minors". And of course fujoshi don't want to admit that they're part of a major problem so they shift the blame onto
"perverted neckbeard otaku incels". Ironically, the male anime fans I've met have been nice to me and don't spend all their time talking about whatever hentai they watch in front of other people. Fujos however lack a filter and think it's cute when they loudly screech about how progressive they are for liking Naruto Mpreg. People often don't suspect women of being creeps because of obvious double standards but it's very evident in the anime con scene.
I'm sure people are aware of the amount of cross-dressing at cons but it's mostly female cosplayers who partake in it. The reason for it is because there's not a lot of gay/bisexual men who want to subject themselves to the cringe inducing shit that female cross-dressers do when they're portraying male characters. Because they are
openly role-playing their gay fantasies in front of everyone. Some even go as far to transition in order to look more masculine for these cosplays. Unfortunately, not even HRT can't make them look like the cute anime boys they desire to be. So, they tend to take their anger out on male cross-dressers or traps who actually put effort into their appearance and tend to successfully pass as a cute anime girl. Lately they've tried labeling "trap" as slur against trans people and/or try to convince the guys who like cross-dressing that they're actually "eggs".
I honestly think they're this pissed off at traps because both men and women find them sexually desirable. When you look at these female cross-dressers you can easily see that the makeup they use doesn't even compliment them plus they're often ugly as fuck without it. I mean who would look at this and say, "Hey girl, let's bang."
The only people who want to fuck them are other fujos that like this shit.
