Agreed, it's also why they come up with common copes like
"My orgasms are more like the ones women have now! Because now its much more slow boiling and more mental rather than physical!"
It's obvious to anyone with more than 2 braincells that it's just coping. They don't experience orgasms "like a woman", they're not experiencing them at all. But they desperately look for an excuse to make it seem like things still work.
Irony is, it just shows how little they understand women and their bodies.
or another cope I've seen;
"Just like women, I don't enjoy PIV, I prefer the mental side of things, like cuddling!"
It's sad, really. People in those circles genuinly fall for it and think that those copes are reality, but any normal person reading that stuff will just realise it's all just coping for losing the ability to orgasm or really feel pleasure.