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There are no rules for trans surgeries. It's literally the wild west. Every surgeon does what they want. One Surgeon having more satisfied customers than another one doesn't make her or him less of a back alley butcher.
Worse, besides the techniques themselves being experimental, even slight differences in anatomy between subjects victims "patients" can result in wildly different results. A borderline unmeasurable difference of 1/8" in tissue thickness in the pelvic area can mean the difference between a standard issue stinkditch and a full shit-dripping stinkditch with bonus urinary incontinence. It's all done on feel. These people aren't surgeons, they see themselves as "artists".

There is no way those procedures would be approved if they were put through proper ethical evaluations. Fuck, some of the shit they do would have them tried in Nuremberg in '45. Yet these butchers get a pass for political reasons.
 
I posted this on the insane parents of trans kids thread but it also fits in here too.

Troon child celebrity Corey Maison has an onlyfans account. I wanted to know how his insane mother who trooned out shortly after him was doing and thought there were pictures of her on his official instagram. But nope. Instead I saw that he links to his onlyfans.

A troon celebrity linking to his onlyfans is fucked in the head. He has no shame. What a "great" role model for his minor insta followers :roll:. The fact that he is doing it so shamelessly on his official insta means that his insane troon mother is probably on board with it.

His nude pictures can be found online tho. My morbid curiosity set in. Troon actvists always tell you that blocking puberty and hrt makes boys bodies look female. And indeed their faces look soft like underage boys because they never masculinized. I have seen troons claim that hrt makes the hips of boys who had no puberty wider. And some may think it's true because they are only seeing them with clothes

But it's all a giant pile of steaming horseshit. Dude looks male as shit. He has the body of 13/14 year old male. A typical masculine frame. Broad shoulders, a broad chest, narrow hips, large hands and large feet. It's not masculine like a normal 18 year old but it's 100% male. All these drugs for THIS?? What was the point??

Jazz Jennings and his huge frame isn't an outlier. Biological sex can't be changed.

There are also videos of him jerking off but I don't want to watch. 🤮 I have no idea how his dick looks like and I don't want to. I saw a grainy picture where he was standing in a dirty bathroom and it looks like it's very thin but it wasn't a 2 incher like Jazz Jennigs had. The fact that he is able to fap means he stopped taking hormones. Perhaps lots of early male troons stop at hrt a certain point because they want to experience what masturbation feels like. It's like they are blokes or something. But I don't want to think about penises and hrt for too long because eeew.

If you are interested in such things look him up. By the way 4chan is claiming that he created the onlyfans account to scam people. Thirsty troon chasers deserve it tho.

There is also a video of him where he complaints that no one wants to date him like a typical trooncel. He thinks girls didn't want to date him because he is a "girl" with a penis. Nahh, they rejected you because you are a crazy freak. Early transitioners aren't less insane than the late transitioning sickos. I also love how he claims to be pansexuals but then says he is mostly attracted to ftms. He says he doesn't now why. :lit:

LMAO! He likes pussy. That's the reason. He is attracted to women. But lesbians don't want him, straight women don't want him and it seems like bisexual women also reject him. That's the reason why he specifically pointed out that girls in high school didn't want to date him. When he talked about his male classmates he only said that they didn't like him because he didn't fit in. Nothing about dating. I also read on 4chan who uploaded some onlyfans stuff that he apparently masturbated with a pocket pussy.

As you see it's not only gay kids who get trooned out. It looks like straight early transitioners are left sexually frustrated. But their underage bodies and infertility makes it really hard to find romantic relationships. Someone should do more research on this topic. A study would be great.

 
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Someone here recently posted content of this Reddit user (elsiemaep20). He's a perfect example of why troons should never become parents, lest they encourage their own children to troon out.
I think I may have a trans kid!?
So, my 5yo son(?) has been pretty GNC with their clothing since they were old enough to have preferences. Leggings, sparkles, and rainbows! Oh and the skirt we bought them....it goes VERY spinny. Since I came out to them they've told me a few times that they think they feel like a girl too. I wasn't sure if they were just copying me or if it goes deeper, so I always just affirmed that they get to be whoever they are and didn't make a big deal of it.

Well tonight they chose "I Am Jazz" for bedtime stories and listened to every word with a degree of intentional focus that is downright weird for this crazy kid. After reading it I told them that if they are still feeling like a girl we would be happy to help with that by buying more girl clothes and calling them a girl name if they wanted.

Kid was absolutely radiant. Told me they've always liked girl clothes better and want to be called "Elena". Also told me that their brother would need to call them "sister" instead of "brother". Seriously I rarely see those kinds of smiles from them! Sure looked like gender euphoria to me.

Obviously I'm in total support of my kids being 100% who they are! I mean, I'm trans, so self expression is yes. I'm also scared that they're copying me, but this seems pretty legit. Seriously, my wife and I went shoe shopping yesterday, and my kid was SO into the pink/rainbow/sparkly shoes. I think the right thing to do is to start using Elena/she/her? I mean, my kid said that's what she wants, right?

It honestly wouldn't surprise me too much really. I'm pretty convinced that I've got a mutation in how I process sex hormones, so it wouldn't be so surprising if I passed it on. Seems reasonable that my AMAB kids would be more likely to be trans...

So yeah, wow this is hard. Even for a trans mom. It's hard to switch your mindset about a kid you've been there for since -9 months. But I will always support my kids being who they are!

One last side note...if my kid is trans...my extended family is going to blame me so hard. That'll fucking suck. 100% worth it though. My kids come first.

Edit: Oh if forgot to mention she's been telling us, "I want my hair cut short in the front so I can see better but I don't want it cut in the back because I want it to get long but then once it's long you can cut the back sometimes to keep it the right length."

Edit 2: I also forgot that she told me that she likes playing fairies with her 3yo brother because she gets to dress up like a girl.

Edit 3: Another interesting thing tonight was at bedtime she told me that big kids don't need their parents to lie down with them at bedtime and that she's feeling ready for that. Sure enough, she put herself right to sleep. This is a Big Deal for a kid that is all about order and routine, and it will problem be the new normal. Did she make that jump because she felt really secure, supported, and loved after our talk? That would be very congruent with her personality.
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He's conditioned both of his kids to call him Mama.
Constantly misgendered by my kid
I've got 2 kids, 3 and 5. The 3yo is kinda too young to understand my transition or even care as far as I can tell. The 5yo gets it and seems totally fine with it. However, he calls me "daddy" about once every 10 seconds.

When we're home I'm actually ok with it. When we're out in public though... yikes. Getting outed and misgendered publicly when I would have likely been passing really sucks.

How have others dealt with this? Are there good ways to get him to switch titles without him feeling like the relationship is being threatened? What title works for you? I've tried "maddy", but it doesn't feel fem enough. My wife is "mommy" btw.

Update: all the replies really helped me take this step! I've asked the kids to call me mama. They're totally ok with it! Not a big deal at all it seems. The 3yo must have understood way more than I thought, because he had a great time calling me mama tonight! The 5yo struggled to remember, but he's totally on board and told me that he's trying to remember but it will take him a while to make the switch. Of course, no worries kid! Thanks for doing your best!

I also realized that it was bothering me way more than I thought. I've been kinda irritable with the 5yo recently, and that went away tonight once he started trying to call me moma!
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When he first started trooning out his wife was understandably put off by his breast forms.
Balancing partner's needs
I'm AMAB and 3 weeks into accepting my NB/genderfluid identity. I love this new identity! My partner is doing her absolute best to be supportive. She shops for feminine clothes with me, bought me my first bra, and is teaching me how to do makeup! So very thankful for her!

Here's the catch though. My breast forms absolutely weird her out. She does her best, but you can see the discomfort. If I wear them all day it really takes a toll on her well being. It breaks my heart two ways at once because I hate the pain I'm causing and just want so badly for her to love this part of me.

I've tried wearing them less, but some days I just have to. On those days they can take me from totally depressed to happy and motivated. I don't think I can stop wearing them at least occasionally.

Has anyone else dealt with something like this? We just keep hurting each other despite our best intentions.
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As you can guess, his early adventures in crossdressing gave him erections.
Arousal when dressing up
When I first started cross dressing I experienced a lot of arousal as a result. That's mostly gone since I've been full-time fem for over a month, but I still sometimes feel that if I'm wearing something I feel really cute or sexy in.

I'm starting to think this isn't a trans thing. I think it's either a female thing, femme thing, or maybe a bottom / sub thing. It's totally normal for a cis-woman to say she "feels sexy" as a result of dressing up. I think that's because she feels pretty and desirable. A lot of people really get turned on by the idea of someone thinking they're attractive! I also think this might be related to being femme or a bottom since I'm the kind of girly girl that wants to be adorable. Or put more bluntly, few things make me happier than being told I'm cute / pretty / beautiful / adorable, etc. Those compliments are also a huge turn on.

So if an egg with that kind of sexuality crossdresses, it makes total sense they would be highly aroused. They feel desirable for maybe the first time in their life!

This idea makes sense of my experience. Does anyone else resonate with it?
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Somebody save his family. :(
 
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I posted this on the insane parents of trans kids thread but it also fits in here too.

Troon child celebrity Corey Maison has an onlyfans account. I wanted to know how his insane mother who trooned out shortly after him was doing and thought there were pictures of her on his official instagram. But nope. Instead I saw that he links to his onlyfans.

A troon celebrity linking to his onlyfans is fucked in the head. He has no shame. What a "great" role model for his minor insta followers :roll:. The fact that he is doing it so shamelessly on his official insta means that his insane troon mother is probably on board with it.

His nude pictures can be found online tho. My morbid curiosity set in. Troon actvists always tell you that blocking puberty and hrt makes boys bodies look female. And indeed their faces look soft like underage boys because they never masculinized. I have seen troons claim that hrt makes the hips of boys who had no puberty wider. And some may think it's true because they are only seeing them with clothes

But it's all a giant pile of steaming horseshit. Dude looks male as shit. He has the body of 13/14 year old male. A typical masculine frame. Broad shoulders, a broad chest, narrow hips, large hands and large feet. It's not masculine like a normal 18 year old but it's 100% male. All these drugs for THIS?? What was the point??

Jazz Jennings and his huge frame isn't an outlier. Biological sex can't be changed.

There are also videos of him jerking off but I don't want to watch. 🤮 I have no idea how his dick looks like and I don't want to. I saw a grainy picture where he was standing in a dirty bathroom and it looks like it's very thin but it wasn't a 2 incher like Jazz Jennigs had. The fact that he is able to fap means he stopped taking hormones. Perhaps lots of early male troons stop at hrt a certain point because they want to experience what masturbation feels like. It's like they are blokes or something. But I don't want to think about penises and hrt for too long because eeew.

If you are interested in such things look him up. By the way 4chan is claiming that he created the onlyfans account to scam people. Thirsty troon chasers deserve it tho.

There is also a video of him where he complaints that no one wants to date him like a typical trooncel. He thinks girls didn't want to date him because he is a "girl" with a penis. Nahh, they rejected you because you are a crazy freak. Early transitioners aren't less insane than the late transitioning sickos. I also love how he claims to be pansexuals but then says he is mostly attracted to ftms. He says he doesn't now why. :lit:

LMAO! He likes pussy. That's the reason. He is attracted to women. But lesbians don't want him, straight women don't want him and it seems like bisexual women also reject him. That's the reason why he specifically pointed out that girls in high school didn't want to date him. When he talked about his male classmates he only said that they didn't like him because he didn't fit in. Nothing about dating. I also read on 4chan who uploaded some onlyfans stuff that he apparently masturbated with a pocket pussy.

As you see it's not only gay kids who get trooned out. It looks like straight early transitioners are left sexually frustrated. But their underage bodies and infertility makes it really hard to find romantic relationships. Someone should do more research on this topic. A study would be great.

He's in highschool and uploading porn of himself that other classmates can see? I remember when that was the worst thing that could happen to you as a teenager.
 
He's in highschool and uploading porn of himself that other classmates can see? I remember when that was the worst thing that could happen to you as a teenager.
I recall there was some femboy who was semi-popular on 4chan who killed himself after people in his school found his pics, and they weren't even nudes.
Its almost like the people enabling these social changes are encouraging this kind of behavior in children
 
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Someone here recently posted content of this Reddit user (elsiemaep20). He's a perfect example of why troons should never become parents, lest they encourage their own children to troon out.
I think I may have a trans kid!?
So, my 5yo son(?) has been pretty GNC with their clothing since they were old enough to have preferences. Leggings, sparkles, and rainbows! Oh and the skirt we bought them....it goes VERY spinny. Since I came out to them they've told me a few times that they think they feel like a girl too. I wasn't sure if they were just copying me or if it goes deeper, so I always just affirmed that they get to be whoever they are and didn't make a big deal of it.

Well tonight they chose "I Am Jazz" for bedtime stories and listened to every word with a degree of intentional focus that is downright weird for this crazy kid. After reading it I told them that if they are still feeling like a girl we would be happy to help with that by buying more girl clothes and calling them a girl name if they wanted.

Kid was absolutely radiant. Told me they've always liked girl clothes better and want to be called "Elena". Also told me that their brother would need to call them "sister" instead of "brother". Seriously I rarely see those kinds of smiles from them! Sure looked like gender euphoria to me.

Obviously I'm in total support of my kids being 100% who they are! I mean, I'm trans, so self expression is yes. I'm also scared that they're copying me, but this seems pretty legit. Seriously, my wife and I went shoe shopping yesterday, and my kid was SO into the pink/rainbow/sparkly shoes. I think the right thing to do is to start using Elena/she/her? I mean, my kid said that's what she wants, right?

It honestly wouldn't surprise me too much really. I'm pretty convinced that I've got a mutation in how I process sex hormones, so it wouldn't be so surprising if I passed it on. Seems reasonable that my AMAB kids would be more likely to be trans...

So yeah, wow this is hard. Even for a trans mom. It's hard to switch your mindset about a kid you've been there for since -9 months. But I will always support my kids being who they are!

One last side note...if my kid is trans...my extended family is going to blame me so hard. That'll fucking suck. 100% worth it though. My kids come first.

Edit: Oh if forgot to mention she's been telling us, "I want my hair cut short in the front so I can see better but I don't want it cut in the back because I want it to get long but then once it's long you can cut the back sometimes to keep it the right length."

Edit 2: I also forgot that she told me that she likes playing fairies with her 3yo brother because she gets to dress up like a girl.

Edit 3: Another interesting thing tonight was at bedtime she told me that big kids don't need their parents to lie down with them at bedtime and that she's feeling ready for that. Sure enough, she put herself right to sleep. This is a Big Deal for a kid that is all about order and routine, and it will problem be the new normal. Did she make that jump because she felt really secure, supported, and loved after our talk? That would be very congruent with her personality.
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He's conditioned both of his kids to call him Mama.
Constantly misgendered by my kid
I've got 2 kids, 3 and 5. The 3yo is kinda too young to understand my transition or even care as far as I can tell. The 5yo gets it and seems totally fine with it. However, he calls me "daddy" about once every 10 seconds.

When we're home I'm actually ok with it. When we're out in public though... yikes. Getting outed and misgendered publicly when I would have likely been passing really sucks.

How have others dealt with this? Are there good ways to get him to switch titles without him feeling like the relationship is being threatened? What title works for you? I've tried "maddy", but it doesn't feel fem enough. My wife is "mommy" btw.

Update: all the replies really helped me take this step! I've asked the kids to call me mama. They're totally ok with it! Not a big deal at all it seems. The 3yo must have understood way more than I thought, because he had a great time calling me mama tonight! The 5yo struggled to remember, but he's totally on board and told me that he's trying to remember but it will take him a while to make the switch. Of course, no worries kid! Thanks for doing your best!

I also realized that it was bothering me way more than I thought. I've been kinda irritable with the 5yo recently, and that went away tonight once he started trying to call me moma!
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When he first started trooning out his wife was understandably put off by his breast forms.
Balancing partner's needs
I'm AMAB and 3 weeks into accepting my NB/genderfluid identity. I love this new identity! My partner is doing her absolute best to be supportive. She shops for feminine clothes with me, bought me my first bra, and is teaching me how to do makeup! So very thankful for her!

Here's the catch though. My breast forms absolutely weird her out. She does her best, but you can see the discomfort. If I wear them all day it really takes a toll on her well being. It breaks my heart two ways at once because I hate the pain I'm causing and just want so badly for her to love this part of me.

I've tried wearing them less, but some days I just have to. On those days they can take me from totally depressed to happy and motivated. I don't think I can stop wearing them at least occasionally.

Has anyone else dealt with something like this? We just keep hurting each other despite our best intentions.
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As you can guess, his early adventures in crossdressing gave him erections.
Arousal when dressing up
When I first started cross dressing I experienced a lot of arousal as a result. That's mostly gone since I've been full-time fem for over a month, but I still sometimes feel that if I'm wearing something I feel really cute or sexy in.

I'm starting to think this isn't a trans thing. I think it's either a female thing, femme thing, or maybe a bottom / sub thing. It's totally normal for a cis-woman to say she "feels sexy" as a result of dressing up. I think that's because she feels pretty and desirable. A lot of people really get turned on by the idea of someone thinking they're attractive! I also think this might be related to being femme or a bottom since I'm the kind of girly girl that wants to be adorable. Or put more bluntly, few things make me happier than being told I'm cute / pretty / beautiful / adorable, etc. Those compliments are also a huge turn on.

So if an egg with that kind of sexuality crossdresses, it makes total sense they would be highly aroused. They feel desirable for maybe the first time in their life!

This idea makes sense of my experience. Does anyone else resonate with it?
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Somebody save his family. :(
I remember when Dan Savage wrote an article about something like this. He's gay, married to another gay guy and they have an adopted son. One point him growing up he wanted to be gay because his dads are gay and he was actually quite distressed that he might not be gay. What did our Danny boy do? Did he take him to nearsest gay bar, pride parade or sign him up for grider? No, Dan pointed out to the kid most couples they know and care about are straigh so most likely he is too. He is too young to say for sure in this point but those are odds. He also assured that no matter what his dads will love and support him, that isn't dependent on him being just like them. That was it and far as I know the boy turned up straight and fine about it.

Young kids copy their parents and try to please them by acting like them and paroting what they say. Some kids do this more than others but it's still quite common behavior. Often the kid doesn't realize that they are copying instead of making their own minds. These are kids after all, they aren't that good selfregulating and have limited experiences of life. That means that parents shouldn't take it too seriously. Most likely the kid isn't trans at all, just likes the attention and positive reinforcement he gets when acting girly.
 
I recall there was some femboy who was semi-popular on 4chan who killed himself after people in his school found his pics, and they weren't even nudes.
Its almost like the people enabling these social changes are encouraging this kind of behavior in children
But no, the *googles* 22% to 44% rate of attempted suicide is only because of how bigoted everyone else is, right?
It couldn't be because it's also a generally bad idea and a terrifying culture to be in.
 
Someone here recently posted content of this Reddit user (elsiemaep20). He's a perfect example of why troons should never become parents, lest they encourage their own children to troon out.
I think I may have a trans kid!?
So, my 5yo son(?) has been pretty GNC with their clothing since they were old enough to have preferences. Leggings, sparkles, and rainbows! Oh and the skirt we bought them....it goes VERY spinny.

"Oh and the skirt we bought them....it goes VERY spinny" -- this particular sentence creeps me out so much, the way it's written. This sick fuck probably gets off looking up his kid's skirt.

I also feel sorry for his wife. Even if we ignore the financial aspects of getting a divorce, her situation is so hopeless. At her age and with two small kids, most men would consider her worthless for a serious, stable relationship. It's not fair, but unfortunately, that's how it is. And if she's a stay at home mom, the gap in her job history (and having to raise 2 kids, of course) would make it very hard for her to have a career.

Her self-esteem must be destroyed as well; family women tend to be too forgiving and to blame themselves much more for relationship problems than men. It wouldn't surprise me if deep inside she blamed herself for her husband trooning out (like, not being attractive enough, not having sex with him enough, giving "too much" attention to the children and not enough for him, etc).

The best she can hope for is that he doesn't leave her, burn through their savings, molests their children (which he probably already did, or intends to do) or abuses her much more.
 
Most likely the kid isn't trans at all, just likes the attention and positive reinforcement he gets when acting girly.

This is also true for Corey Maison. He has 4 sisters. He is the only boy. So he was most likely emulating his older sisters from an early age. In the age of troonery this is like a dead sentence. His father wasn't a positive male role model because this dude is a fucking loser. He even is still together with Coreys crazy troon mother. She was the one who enabled him and later trooned out herself.

Fathers of trans kids have no balls (with the exception of this 1 dude who fought tooth and nail against the transing of his son). You see it time & time again. They just nod and smile when their kids get sterilized and even when they are sceptical (like Jazz Jennings' dad was one time before the srs disaster) they are still cowards. Protecting their children from harm?? Nope! They rather watch their children get put on hormones and get multilated.
 
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Edit 3: Another interesting thing tonight was at bedtime she told me that big kids don't need their parents to lie down with them at bedtime and that she's feeling ready for that.

I just felt that this sentence needed a little more emphasis. I hate to think what Daddy, sorry Momma, is doing for the kid to want to have his bed to himself.
 
I came upon this hopeless-case specimen on r/transpassing today and when I looked up his Reddit account I was plunged into a predictably horrifying rabbit hole of degeneracy and narcissism.


Meet "Patty":
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"Do I pass enough?" he asks. Yeah, about as well as a grape fruit up the ass, I'd say.

"Patty" recently trooned out and has since become the "most important person" in his life. Finally! For this particular coomer, it means he can (with a clean conscience) cease to be in a monogamous relationship with his wife (hopefully peak-transed, soon-to-be trans widow):
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"Would you like to wake up next to me?"
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Now I can imagine what the victims of serial killer Russell Williams saw before they died.
 
Fathers of trans kids in have no balls (with the exception of this 1 dude who fought tooth and nail against the transing of his son). You see it time & time again. They just nod and smile when their kids get sterilized and even when they are sceptical (like Jazz Jennings' dad was one time before the srs disaster) they are still cowards. Protecting their children from harm?? Nope! They rather watch their children get put on hormones and get multilated.
I'll grant you that fathers of trans kids tend to be fairly spineless, but let's look at it in practical terms: what can the father do there? No matter the kind of opposition he takes on the matter, every single legal procedure he tries to apply will result in the judge siding with the mother. So either he stays quiet or pays lip service... or the wife ruins his life completely in the courts.
 
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Someone here recently posted content of this Reddit user (elsiemaep20). He's a perfect example of why troons should never become parents, lest they encourage their own children to troon out.
I think I may have a trans kid!?
So, my 5yo son(?) has been pretty GNC with their clothing since they were old enough to have preferences. Leggings, sparkles, and rainbows! Oh and the skirt we bought them....it goes VERY spinny. Since I came out to them they've told me a few times that they think they feel like a girl too. I wasn't sure if they were just copying me or if it goes deeper, so I always just affirmed that they get to be whoever they are and didn't make a big deal of it.

Well tonight they chose "I Am Jazz" for bedtime stories and listened to every word with a degree of intentional focus that is downright weird for this crazy kid. After reading it I told them that if they are still feeling like a girl we would be happy to help with that by buying more girl clothes and calling them a girl name if they wanted.

Kid was absolutely radiant. Told me they've always liked girl clothes better and want to be called "Elena". Also told me that their brother would need to call them "sister" instead of "brother". Seriously I rarely see those kinds of smiles from them! Sure looked like gender euphoria to me.

Obviously I'm in total support of my kids being 100% who they are! I mean, I'm trans, so self expression is yes. I'm also scared that they're copying me, but this seems pretty legit. Seriously, my wife and I went shoe shopping yesterday, and my kid was SO into the pink/rainbow/sparkly shoes. I think the right thing to do is to start using Elena/she/her? I mean, my kid said that's what she wants, right?

It honestly wouldn't surprise me too much really. I'm pretty convinced that I've got a mutation in how I process sex hormones, so it wouldn't be so surprising if I passed it on. Seems reasonable that my AMAB kids would be more likely to be trans...

So yeah, wow this is hard. Even for a trans mom. It's hard to switch your mindset about a kid you've been there for since -9 months. But I will always support my kids being who they are!

One last side note...if my kid is trans...my extended family is going to blame me so hard. That'll fucking suck. 100% worth it though. My kids come first.

Edit: Oh if forgot to mention she's been telling us, "I want my hair cut short in the front so I can see better but I don't want it cut in the back because I want it to get long but then once it's long you can cut the back sometimes to keep it the right length."

Edit 2: I also forgot that she told me that she likes playing fairies with her 3yo brother because she gets to dress up like a girl.

Edit 3: Another interesting thing tonight was at bedtime she told me that big kids don't need their parents to lie down with them at bedtime and that she's feeling ready for that. Sure enough, she put herself right to sleep. This is a Big Deal for a kid that is all about order and routine, and it will problem be the new normal. Did she make that jump because she felt really secure, supported, and loved after our talk? That would be very congruent with her personality.
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He's conditioned both of his kids to call him Mama.
Constantly misgendered by my kid
I've got 2 kids, 3 and 5. The 3yo is kinda too young to understand my transition or even care as far as I can tell. The 5yo gets it and seems totally fine with it. However, he calls me "daddy" about once every 10 seconds.

When we're home I'm actually ok with it. When we're out in public though... yikes. Getting outed and misgendered publicly when I would have likely been passing really sucks.

How have others dealt with this? Are there good ways to get him to switch titles without him feeling like the relationship is being threatened? What title works for you? I've tried "maddy", but it doesn't feel fem enough. My wife is "mommy" btw.

Update: all the replies really helped me take this step! I've asked the kids to call me mama. They're totally ok with it! Not a big deal at all it seems. The 3yo must have understood way more than I thought, because he had a great time calling me mama tonight! The 5yo struggled to remember, but he's totally on board and told me that he's trying to remember but it will take him a while to make the switch. Of course, no worries kid! Thanks for doing your best!

I also realized that it was bothering me way more than I thought. I've been kinda irritable with the 5yo recently, and that went away tonight once he started trying to call me moma!
(x)

When he first started trooning out his wife was understandably put off by his breast forms.
Balancing partner's needs
I'm AMAB and 3 weeks into accepting my NB/genderfluid identity. I love this new identity! My partner is doing her absolute best to be supportive. She shops for feminine clothes with me, bought me my first bra, and is teaching me how to do makeup! So very thankful for her!

Here's the catch though. My breast forms absolutely weird her out. She does her best, but you can see the discomfort. If I wear them all day it really takes a toll on her well being. It breaks my heart two ways at once because I hate the pain I'm causing and just want so badly for her to love this part of me.

I've tried wearing them less, but some days I just have to. On those days they can take me from totally depressed to happy and motivated. I don't think I can stop wearing them at least occasionally.

Has anyone else dealt with something like this? We just keep hurting each other despite our best intentions.
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As you can guess, his early adventures in crossdressing gave him erections.
Arousal when dressing up
When I first started cross dressing I experienced a lot of arousal as a result. That's mostly gone since I've been full-time fem for over a month, but I still sometimes feel that if I'm wearing something I feel really cute or sexy in.

I'm starting to think this isn't a trans thing. I think it's either a female thing, femme thing, or maybe a bottom / sub thing. It's totally normal for a cis-woman to say she "feels sexy" as a result of dressing up. I think that's because she feels pretty and desirable. A lot of people really get turned on by the idea of someone thinking they're attractive! I also think this might be related to being femme or a bottom since I'm the kind of girly girl that wants to be adorable. Or put more bluntly, few things make me happier than being told I'm cute / pretty / beautiful / adorable, etc. Those compliments are also a huge turn on.

So if an egg with that kind of sexuality crossdresses, it makes total sense they would be highly aroused. They feel desirable for maybe the first time in their life!

This idea makes sense of my experience. Does anyone else resonate with it?
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Somebody save his family. :(
Oh and the skirt we bought them....it goes VERY spinny.

Pretty sure most mothers don't go describing skirts/dresses this way especially on their own kids.

It honestly wouldn't surprise me too much really. I'm pretty convinced that I've got a mutation in how I process sex hormones, so it wouldn't be so surprising if I passed it on. Seems reasonable that my AMAB kids would be more likely to be trans...

It better not be some mutation. His kid is likely just copying what his dad does, only time will tell if the kid grows out of the phase or just worsens as they grow up.
 
I also love how he claims to be pansexuals but then says he is mostly attracted to ftms.

And as you note his mom is an FTM. Not at all Oedipal :(

Jazz’s pal Noelle is another straight dude who trooned out during puberty and is now super bitter that no girls want to go near him.

Knowing that Corey has an OF account is really disturbing, in the way it’s always disturbing when a child “celebrity” immediately turns to porn once the cuteness ends. This kid has been in the public eye since he was a preteen. Now that the attention has waned, he turns to jo vids.

Regardless if they’re just a scam for some quick cash, there’s something fundamentally fucked up with that family.
 
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