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I'm going to hate saying this but I do understand why the woman aborted her child. I think she was a dumb person for getting pregnant in the first place. Condoms are fucking cheap people! So is birth control! Female condoms are also ABSOLUTELY a thing!

She did it after the gender reveal to punish him. She did it behind his back to punish him.
It's good he was punished. It's good another person wasn't forced into their dysfunction.

More punishment would be ideal, but they've got a hostage in the goddamn house.

Hopefully they learn something and maintain the nuclear family. That little girl lost a person she called mama, forever. No notice. It's not okay.
 
She did it after the gender reveal to punish him. She did it behind his back to punish him.
It's good he was punished. It's good another person wasn't forced into their dysfunction.

More punishment would be ideal, but they've got a hostage in the goddamn house.

Hopefully they learn something and maintain the nuclear family. That little girl lost a person she called mama, forever. No notice. It's not okay.
So yeah, they were all awful people.

Spiteful abortion after doing a bunch of idiotic bullshit. No sympathy.
 
I'm going to hate saying this but I do understand why the woman aborted her child. I think she was a dumb person for getting pregnant in the first place. Condoms are fucking cheap people! So is birth control! Female condoms are also ABSOLUTELY a thing!

Another place in which the bitch showed her immaturity. I surely don’t advocate for anyone to carry a pregnancy to term if they don’t want it because the resulting child wouldn’t have asked to be born and yet would be a target for resentment and potential abuse (especially with these asshole crazy poly types). That said, this woman very well could have gotten birth control if she didn’t think she wanted to bring a child into this dynamic. Although considering that she wouldn’t communicate her unhappiness and feelings that the relationship wasn’t working, instead hoping that her husband would pick up on it and take the responsibility off her... she probably felt like birth control wasn’t her responsibility either.

She did it after the gender reveal to punish him. She did it behind his back to punish him.
It's good he was punished. It's good another person wasn't forced into their dysfunction.

More punishment would be ideal, but they've got a hostage in the goddamn house.

Hopefully they learn something and maintain the nuclear family. That little girl lost a person she called mama, forever. No notice. It's not okay.

After reading the whole saga, I get the feeling that she probably resented the little girl for existing because she was the side slut’s kid. Poor baby... maybe it’s for the better that she only has two shitty adults screwing her over without adding this selfish bitch’s influence as well. She’s still fucked with parents like the husband and the girlfriend but at least she won’t have the OP silently resenting her as she grows up.

Man, the kids are what makes me so 🎩🎩🎩🎩 at people in these dynamics, the adults don’t really give a shit about the kids’ stability or happiness.
 
She did it after the gender reveal to punish him. She did it behind his back to punish him.
She did it after the gender reveal because that's when she came to her senses and realized her marrage to her childhood sweetheart had transformed into something worse than the Final Fantasy house. She did it "behind his back" (honestly this deserves a bucket, do you really think she should eb forced to carry an unwanted child?) because she had already made the decision to run.

Don't shame people for coming to their senses. I want to say "shame them for losing their minds in the first place" but even that is unfair to her. Cults are widely laughed at and a teenager has to be retarded to fall into one, but degenerate cheaters can only be laughed at on a website run by a homeless man cut off from the mainstream economy.
Imagine for a moment that you woke up as Jackson the cuck, and Becky has bred with the other cuck and is now expecting a baby from some bull, one she'll pin on you (you being the legal husband and a willing cuck) - how loud will you scream when you run?

That little girl lost a person she called mama, forever.
Good, she already has a mother who should be taking care of her. If the girl's being criminally neglected, there's the courts. If the woman wants to take care of a child and have more input into his or her upbringing (rather than have one forced on her and have no input that'll withstand a challenge from a shitty person), she can adopt or foster one and make a bigger difference.

i love this idea. i think more women should go through incredibly invasive and potentially traumatizing surgeries to punish other people.
It's neither invasive (there are more invasive fertility diagnostics procedures) nor traumatizing, and certainly vastly less so than pregnancy and childbirth.
 
It's neither invasive (there are more invasive fertility diagnostics procedures) nor traumatizing, and certainly vastly less so than pregnancy and childbirth.

what? at 16 weeks they have to use tools to dilate your cervix and physically remove the fetus, you can't do a medical abortion at that point. that's still an invasive procedure. abortion no matter how it's performed can traumatize a woman because of the potential social repercussions (or fear thereof)... though maybe traumatize is a harsh word. i don't think that it should be that way, but plenty of women have to deal with the shame of having had an abortion by themselves, and it can mess them up.

i think women should be allowed to get an abortion for literally any reason, but i also just think the idea that the woman got an abortion purely out of spite when she was in what seems to be a loveless marriage (that was opened up likely because the husband cheated on her and wanted an excuse to continue doing so guilt-free, and in which having kids was not considered until 9 years into the marriage itself, and only after the sidepiece had a kid first) is hilarious. even if that was the reason, the dude deserved it.

ETA: if you look through the woman's comment history you can find posts where she mentions they initially did not have kids because she has PCOS. she somehow lost 100 lbs in the last year -- going from 225 lbs to 125 -- and got pregnant afterwards. it's not the pregnancy itself that was a miracle, it's the fact the woman came to her senses before the kid was born.
 
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My only comment from that story is that it sounds like the "friend helping her" wants to date her.
Looking at her comment history, a few other people pointed out the same thing. She says the friend had feelings for her before but doesn't now.
He doesn't, huh? Pressing X over here.
 
Hopefully they learn something and maintain the nuclear family. That little girl lost a person she called mama, forever. No notice. It's not okay.

I'm even pro-choice to a "for any reason at any time" degree and this fucking whore is vile and reprehensible. About the only good thing I can say about it is at least another child won't have to be born into a life with this miserable slag.
 
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Love for infinity? From what I've read here, these relationships tend to fall apart fast.
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Then cheddar fluidbonded with brie without goada's permission and now they all have herpes.
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Gross.
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Didn't know these people were so desperate for sex that they are now romancing vegetables.
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Degenerate rights!
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No.
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NONBINARY WIFE
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Double the fights.
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Any kiwis with a tiny pink pussy ready to join this triad?
 
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She did it after the gender reveal to punish him. She did it behind his back to punish him.
It's good he was punished. It's good another person wasn't forced into their dysfunction.

More punishment would be ideal, but they've got a hostage in the goddamn house.

Hopefully they learn something and maintain the nuclear family. That little girl lost a person she called mama, forever. No notice. It's not okay.

That's probably the most fucked up thing someone can do without breaking a law. If you're going to punish him slash his tires or whatever, throw away some cherished possessions, but don't kill his child in the womb.


Any kiwis with a tiny pink pussy ready to join this triad?

This seems like a fever dream, what kind of parents talk to their daughter about looking for a girl with a "tiny pink pussy"? If parents relationship with their kid is that casual there is definitely other screwed up stuff going on besides trying to find a polyamorous relationship. Every dysfunctional child/parent relationship basically stems from the parent(s) treating their kid as a buddy rather than, you know, their child.

But not giving a shit about the other person you bring into the relationship is probably the only correct way to engage with a polyamorous relationship without it blowing up, though.
 
I feel like sharing this terrible tumblr blog, one of those “your fave is...” types. Pride flags included! It’s so awful.

Your Fave is a BOP
(Bi Omni Poly)

And I’m unaware what “Omni” is supposed to mean since as far as I’ve seen the mod offers no explanation. I also hate they use poor Nico from Nanbaka to project their insanity onto. Also I’ve seen this person around for a while and they’ve been saying they’re poly since they were at least 15, probably before that. Which is just sad.
 
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I feel like sharing this terrible tumblr blog, one of those “your fave is...” types. Pride flags included! It’s so awful.

Your Fave is a BOP
(Bi Omni Poly)

And I’m unaware what “Omni” is supposed to mean since as far as I’ve seen the mod offers no explanation. I also hate they use poor Nico from Nanbaka to project their insanity onto. Also I’ve seen this person around for a while and they’ve been saying they’re poly since they were at least 15, probably before that. Which is just sad.
Why are they using the same flag for every character? Don't they get bored?
 
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