Also, it occured to me, and I am an actual xx, btw, is that even if women have to suffer through normal pregnancy, that is no different when men give up contol of their lives when they creampie you. You both made your choices. Suck it up, both of you. If the kid has six eyes and no brain, yeet it, but I am talking only about two people willingly (sorry, sex has risk and you BOTH chose to take them) producing a pregnancy that is normal and healthy. I just do not see the reason to end it simply because it may cramp your social life your you might need to get a real job. Real medical reasons, sure, but otherwise, actions have consequences.