No, you haven't.
Also, of course i'm going to be defensive going ont oa forum that's attacked my friends, as well as me personally a number of times. I'm going to be angry about that, but I've actually been pretty well measured all things considered. Nobody's shown any appreciate for that. You can't expect people to be calm and convenient when your baseline argument is to invalidate their experiences.
If anyone wants to take up respectful discussion via PM, I'll gladly take them up on it. It's unreasoanbel to expect me to respond to it in this thread where the majority of people are anything but(not that anyone has actually tried anyway).