I've worked with young autistic men who desperately want a girlfriend. "I'm 18, everyone else has one, when do I get mine?" I have to explain to them that a girlfriend is not something you are entitled to or is just given to you. If they have a hard time understanding that, we have couples tell them stories of how they met, etc. and how couples break up. We've had some boys turn stalker & we have to tell them it's not acceptable & there are consequences for behaving that way. They may want a girlfriend, but they don't just get one, like getting a doll from the toy store. We tell them that if they cannot behave appropriately around girls, we will not allow them to near girls unsupervised.
But these are kids who are pretty autistic and 20 years old at the oldest. They also don't try to spout bullshit science at us.
It's sad (not not unsurprising) when a 40 year old man can't even learn what those kids can. No girl in her right mind is even going to make eye contact with Lucas. And he is not entitled to their time, attention or bodies.
Sorry, I see this horse is dead & yet I continued to beat it.
This is really interesting .. would you have any insight into how this translates in young autistic women?
I guess what I'm wondering is, if that behavior of frustrated entitlement (?) in regards of acquiring a girlfriend is a combination of the gaps of social understanding that comes with autism + how men are socialized to view relationships/women (yes it's 2020 but there's still a bit to go in terms of gender equality and clearly there are still plenty remnants from that boomer 1950s age of boys will be boys and ownership over women)
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The way insane Predator starts the video "If there is one thing I can't stand is a hypocrite". Well, there is a rabid dog that bites the hand that feeds it looking right back at him every time he looks in the mirror.
To be fair, I think he doesn't know the actual definition of what a 'hypocrite' is. All he knows is that it's 3 syllables and so he will sound smart and powerful saying it. He thinks a hypocrite is someone who has one set of beliefs (like BLM, racial equality) and a completely unrelated.. like BIZARRELY unrelated behavior (like not wanting to date a screaming urine soaked homeless lunatic 20 years older than them). He does not understand that a hypocrite is someone who has one set of beliefs and behaves directly opposite of their beliefs, like for example, maybe someone who claims to despise
aGEPhoBIA but has made it his entire life goal, like a violently obsessive compulsion that dominates his literal every thought of every single second, to *ONLY* be with a
HOTGIRL18TO24BUT16ISLEGALINWASHINGTON
Fuck didn't mean to double post..
Lucas is pretty autistic and doesn't understand that he isn't entitled to a girlfriend. "Is he entitled to a homeless shelter? Apparently he is. Is he entitled to his tugboat check? Apparently he is." He thinks he is owed a girlfriend and that the government really should provide him one. Lucas should not be around young women unsupervised either.
Lucas is offering dinner at Clinkerdaggers to a Gen Z Kween! They better not ghost him after that. To Lucas buying a woman dinner means she has to be committed. She better not ghost him!
Lucas having little experience dating has no idea how this works. Women quite often will go out to dinner with a man and never see him again. A bit of power leveling, I know this all to well, as I am sure most men do. That is dating. Most men I am sure agree with this. And yeah, this was after paying for her meal. Those greedy thots!
Another major red flag for tubby, showing how he expects a firm commitment from any woman dumb enough to have dinner with him.
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Ffs he's such a massive tard. I mean, this has been well established. Like he's such an inept shit stained moron that he literally can't take care of himself and entirely depends on government handouts and the generosity of Christian shelters, which he's so fucking stupid he can't stop screaming about how greedy those entities are, while concurrently relying on them for basic survival
But how do you become the kind of person who thinks that everything and everyone in the world exists just to serve you and do what you want all the time and only what you want. What if there was a genuine effort on the girl's part to want to try to get to know him and date him, because Idk, let's say she had a traumatic childhood that literally destroyed her brain matter, like she probably needs therapy. Anyways, she agrees to the date and they talk and it turns out they have nothing in common. She likes to get up at 4am and run 3 miles everyday and would like a partner who would run with her. Also, she has a science degree so everything Lucas says makes her want to cut her own jugular. So she tells him, it was a nice time but it turns out they don't have much in common and it's hard to imagine any kind of future in terms of the lifelong total commitment he's demanding
I know that makes sense to everyone else, but it won't for him. All he knows is that he SAID. AN OUNCE OF WEED. AND A $13 PLATE AT CLINKERDAGGER. FOR A ZOOMER BAE FOREVER. HE WANTS THE FECUND ZOOMER BAE. I can understand this kind of entitlement and lack of empathy for others' bodily autonomy if you're like, a really famous singer who has written masterpieces and have had the last 20 years of being constantly praised, served, worshipped, and pampered. Or even a surgeon with a God complex. But
LUCAS WERNER ??
Not only has he never accomplished anything, not even the bare minimum of being an unemployable homeless idiot who's able to keep an apartment HANDED to him by the government, he continues to be a total waste of oxygen and resources and an active threat to people, especially young girls, around him. The world would objectively have been a better place if he was never born, or when he finally dies from a gunt and hygiene related succumb to death