- Joined
- Jun 2, 2020
I might be in the minority here but I honestly feel bad for her boyfriend as well as her.Real talk, what kind of help is Bekah receiving? She makes me the saddest of anyone on this godforsaken site. Whoever is in her life that is not helping her during this very obvious downward spiral is not someone who loves her.
Slight PL, but a good friend's wife is a severe lifetime anorexic (might be 70lbs at this point, she gon die soon unfortunately) and watching him struggle to cope with her illness has awful. You can't help someone that doesn't want to be helped, but it doesn't mean that their illness makes you love them any less, and there's always the hope that maybe they'll wake up and think "oh, fuck, I have a good life and people that love me, what am I doing to myself?", even if that's totally unrealistic. I would guess Bekah's bf stays because he knows who she is beyond all the bopo bullshit and hopes she can come back before she either eats herself into the grave or slits her wrists in the bathtub - plus he knows that if he leaves he's automatically the bad guy. Rough.