Culture Emma Thompson: 'Why can't older women have sex on screen with a much younger man?'

Emma Thompson: 'Why can't older women have sex on screen with a much younger man?'​



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Pick a Hollywood film at random and chances are that the leading man is paired with a much younger woman.

Emma Thompson would like to turn that on its head, and in her next film we will see her “largely naked” with a man in his 20s.

Good Luck To You, Leo Grande, stars Thompson as a recently widowed teacher who hires a young sex worker for a night of passion.

“It’s very interesting with this woman I’m about to play. This young man says, ‘You’re perfectly attractive, why can’t you find another chap?’ And she says, ‘Because the only people willing to sleep with me are people my age, and I want to sleep with someone younger than me.’

"Now I’ve never heard a woman say that on screen. With men, it’s completely acceptable,” Thompson said of Hollywood’s double standards.

“It’s completely acceptable for George Clooney - who is delightful - to have someone who is 30 years younger than him. If I have someone playing opposite me in a romantic way, they have to exhume someone, because I’m 61 now. Do you see what I mean? It’s completely and utterly unbalanced.”

While male actors are considered distinguished when they reach middle age, women “get past 50 and you’re invisible”.

To change attitudes to older women with younger men, Thompson told the Culture Blast podcast, you “just have to show it” on screen.

“If Leo Grande, the film that we make, speaks to people and people aren’t averse to seeing someone who’s 61 largely naked with a very much younger person, it’s going to be very interesting. We’ve got to keep being brave about that.”

When the podcast’s host, Farah Nayeri, asked Thompson why she was so unafraid to discuss taboo subjects, the actress joked: “It’s a personality disorder, really.” She added: “I probably could do with being slightly more boundaried, but I don’t feel much of a boundary between myself and other human beings.”

Good Luck To You, Leo Grande is written by Katy Brand, the comedian. Thompson’s character is Nancy Stokes, 55, a former religious education teacher who spent years in a stable but stale marriage and finds a new lease of life after her husband’s death. Casting is under way for the male lead.

Asked if the #MeToo movement had made the film industry a better place for women, Thompson said it was changing “but not nearly fast enough”. There is still a dearth of intelligent roles for women, she explained.

“It’s not good enough simply to give the women the guns and then make the women bad-ass as well. Now women have to bad-ass… they’re not allowed to cry any more, apparently, because we’ve got to be just like men. I remember thinking, ‘That’s not what we meant.’"

Women characters shouldn’t have to ape Superman or the Godfather to be considered great, Thompson said. “That’s not where our heroism lies. So how do we make it heroic? Why are there no films about birth, for crying out loud? Does anyone even know about that? No, it’s all hidden.

“All our heroism is hidden because what we’ve done is we’ve just given women the same parts as men and that’s not the point.”


 
Two words - Helena Mirren

And Heather Locklear and Cindy Crawford are in their 50's.

It's really about looking attractive when you're older. But older folks have sex more and more instances of STDs too. And older women have been known for flaunting younger guys too. I don't see the problem.
 
Two words - Helena Mirren

And Heather Locklear and Cindy Crawford are in their 50's.

It's really about looking attractive when you're older. But older folks have sex more and more instances of STDs too. And older women have been known for flaunting younger guys too. I don't see the problem.
There is something wrong with the world if a single person of any age or made up gender doesn't at least fantasize about a tryst with Betty White at least once per day.
 
Reba McEntire is 65. You can't tell me with a straight face that woman is not a total smokeshow.
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I mean, she looks OK with make up and clothes on but you look at some of these older dudes that women want to see take their clothes off in movies and it's:
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Are there pics of her without make up?
You can do a lot with make up.
Check out Lady Gaga:
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Those men that women want to see with their clothes off in movies... are also wearing makeup in said movies.

Reba looks like she hasn't aged a day in twenty years. That requires some measure of underlying beauty.

Also, you're fixated on the question of how much makeup she's wearing and completely dismissing the sum of the whole package. I mean, look at the body on her. Makeup can't do that.
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Those men that women want to see with their clothes off in movies... are also wearing makeup in said movies.

Reba looks like she hasn't aged a day in twenty years. That requires some measure of underlying beauty.

Also, you're fixated on the question of how much makeup she's wearing and completely dismissing the sum of the whole package. I mean, look at the body on her. Makeup can't do that.
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They do wear make up in movies, that's why I chose more casual pics of them.
I'm also pointing out their physiques because I don't really see Hollywood women working as hard as these dudes.
Hugh Jackman, for example, will have health problems in the future (maybe he already does) because of the shit he had to go through for the X-Men movies.
This kind of stuff is the standard these days for male stars.

Reba looks OK, I would fuck her, I wouldn't mind seeing a sex scene with her.
I'm kind of a health/fitness freak so I go for really athletic women, that's why I don't consider her "scorching hot".
I would not fuck Emma Thompson, she looks like a grandma and she's the one asking for sex scenes with 25 year old guys.

Also, I "fixate" on make up because I hate it.
If I could do a Thanos snap and remove all make up from existence, I would.
The complete absence of make up would force women to actually take care of their health instead of just covering up their faces with warpaint and their bodies with spray tan.
 
Reba looks like she hasn't aged a day in twenty years. That requires some measure of underlying beauty.
You need to consider that most women wear copious amounts of makeup. 90% likely that it's less that she looks like she hasn't aged a day in 20 years and more that her makeup game has been on point for the last 20 years.
 
You need to consider that most women wear copious amounts of makeup. 90% likely that it's less that she looks like she hasn't aged a day in 20 years and more that her makeup game has been on point for the last 20 years.
You motherfuckers just flat out refuse to give my future wife any credit at all.
 
You motherfuckers just flat out refuse to give my future wife any credit at all.
When it comes to makeup, women are almost exactly the same. Don't even think about softening up for a woman based on looks until you can ensure that you're not going to hear aggressive tubular bells or some junk when you wake up to her face in the morning like you woke up to a boss battle.
 
I haven't seen any of the new Bond films, but wasn't there a scene with Daniel Craig and Judi Dench as M getting it on? Did I imagine reading about that?

Chubby, clever little Judi Dench.
 
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You imagined it.

Well, at least Emma Thompson will be pleased.

Edit: I misremembered something I read. Judi Dench said in an interview while talking about her character that she'd love it if that happened, and she'd always been disappointed that her acting resume contained so few sex scenes.
 
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She made this movie so she could fuck him. No way around it. If the plot really is just that, this is bond to be the saddest softcore porn since Mums Make Porn.
I mean, she looks OK with make up and clothes on but you look at some of these older dudes that women want to see take their clothes off in movies and it's:
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No, no, no, you guys don't get it. When women are objectified, it's SEXIST and WRONG, but objectifying men is A-OK because "ThEy DoN't CaRe!"

This double standard needs to fucking die.

ETA: Either that, or "ThEy Do It To ThEmSeLvEs!" Yeah, so do women, Becky. "Bikini bod", anyone?
 
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