Yeah except literally every single trans advocate, thought leader, academic, and popular figure is like this. I'm even thinking of the lesser known YouTubers, they're all catty and shitty. The problem is they think if they smile when they do it, we won't notice. I've probably met more trans people IRL than most people here due to the urban centers where I was living, and even before all of this it was always "huh, you guys sure do like cocaine and drinking all the time!" Not much has changed.
By the way, what is it with women, homosexuals, and blacks who come out with all this super secret backroom meeting shit once something is outed in the mainstream? "Oh we ACTUALLY knew the whole time this person was fucked up, we actually know way more than you, we were just waiting for YOU to notice" fuck off.
The people consistently ringing bells about this are roundly disregarded as conspiracy theorists or abusers or whatever. There will come a day where we look back on this transgenderism mania as some freakish glitch in the system, and the history books will tell that it was actually gay black women who were fighting against it the entire time and prevailed.
