Plagued Incels.is (Previously known as /r/incels) - Subreddit's banned, entitled Manchildren whine about why they can't get laid.

[off meds / online]

@NotArat is definitely real but I think he underestimates himself.

but is he fat?

 

[Null]

but is he fat?

no, he just needs to get a job offline somewhere.

 

[JaneThough]

@NotArat I'll take your V card. I'll make it good. Here's a recent pic:

Spoiler: Split me open

 

[Miller Hayward]

no, he just needs to get a job offline somewhere.

I have a networth of $200,000 at 23. Three years ago I was living at my parents house without electricity. I do have a job, it's making a shitload of money.

Yet females aren't interested in me in the slightest. It's over.

 

[ConcernedCitizen]

The real question here is

If he transitioned, would he pass?

 

[Null]

I have a networth of $200,000 at 23. Three years ago I was living at my parents house without electricity.

I do have a job, it's making a shitload of money.

yeah but if you're doing something like trading crypto that's not the kind of work that endows you with personal skills. I was afraid to use the phone until I got a job working at what-a-burger and then after a year I had friends, a girlfriend, and I was personable enough to run around yelling and answering the phone. It's different, it sounds stupid but it's something I think people need to experience.

 

[Miller Hayward]

yeah but if you're doing something like trading crypto that's not the kind of work that endows you with personal skills. I was afraid to use the phone until I got a job working at what-a-burger and then after a year I had friends, a girlfriend, and I was personable enough to run around yelling and answering the phone. It's different, it sounds stupid but it's something I think people need to experience.

I've actually had three day time jobs since I was 20 (currently employed right now), never made any friends and I was actually bullied by my female co-workers. Never really had any friends in high school either and I was the outcast of the outcasts and I always ate lunch alone. My personality doesn't make up for my looks. Probably have high functioning autism or something, but I was never diagnosed.

I've browsed wizchan since I was 18 in high school because r9k was too normie for me. It's over and it always has been.

 

[Null]

I've browsed wizchan since I was 18 in high school because r9k was too normie for me. It's over and it always has been.

Well one leads into the other. It's a choice. Every part of your person, personality, your thoughts, your feelings, everything about you is a choice. “Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.”

I think incels get inundated with empty boomer platitudes but that's the most true thing I can tell anyone. Once you realize you are the sole person responsible for every single thing about you, it empowers you to do and achieve anything you'd like. I've made active decisions that I'm going to do something, or stop feeling a certain way about something, and I've done those things and been better off as a result.

 

[off meds / online]

I have a networth of $200,000 at 23. Three years ago I was living at my parents house without electricity. I do have a job, it's making a shitload of money.

Yet females aren't interested in me in the slightest. It's over.

>doubt

if you're making that much money and null is correct about his assessment regarding your looks, you'd get laid in an instant, even with your personality defects.

even if that's not true, you'd have more entertaining things to do than fuck around for e-ttention on kiwifarms. willing to bet you're a NEET.

 

[Rich Evans Apologist]

Dunno if that's how it works for everyone but it's 100% true with me.

It's often a tomato-tomato situation. If you're itching to find you a woman and this drives you to take some classes, join a sports group, poke around the local music scene, attend a church, what-ever so-on so-forth... then it's functionally the same as just enjoying those things to begin with, and chances are you'll stick with them whether or not they pan out in getting you points towards the love quest. Generally speaking, people will bond if given the chance - what you should be doing is trying to create those chances, not force the bonds.

Spoiler: papa rich evans apologist blathers on

This is where young, inexperienced, awkward dudes tend to fuck up. Which is fine and a normal part of learning to navigate interactions with the opposite sex. I sometimes get an errant thought about how I approached women when I was 18 and have a good chuckle. The incel issue is that they seem to obsess over forcing bonds, forcing approaches, forcing their way into a relationship. This isn't to say that you, the individual, should be passive; rather it is to say that if you intend to be proactive, you need to get your crush to feel there's a good chance she'll get something she wants out of the venture - fundamentally, just a feeling that it won't be an annoying waste of time. If you don't want to be proactive, focus on doing something productive with yourself instead rather than on seething and dilating.

Teenage dating obsesses over coffee dates and going to the movies or simple shit like that; it gives off this rigid impression, when the reality is just that being interesting gets you opportunities. And if someone else isn't interested, you aren't gonna make them interested by trying to bargain or plead with them. If you can't imagine yourself talking to a person outside of the context of trying to date them, then you're probably not going to date them. One of my fonder relationships started when I was doing pickup improv comedy, saw someone else who was insanely good at it, and just asked her if she wanted to hang out with my weird gaggle of loser improv regulars. Had I not also been making an idiot of myself on the stage, that would've probably died right then and there. You have to be interesting to the kind of person you want to date. Turns out that "I have money" is interesting to gold-diggers; even women purely looking for solid father-figures need to be sure you're actually capable of raising your kids and being a role model rather than a rolls-royce dispensery.

Most incels also seem to wax poetic about romance and relationships and love and intimacy and blah blah blah blah when it's patently fucking obvious that they just want to nut. That shit's even fucking easier, so I just can't understand it: hit the gym or lower your standards.

but is he fat?

ladies love the full-belly laughs, but if this hasn't all been a devious ruse he probably takes himself too seriously to give a good diaphragm undulation

 

[big ups liquid richard]

There's something he isn't telling us. Like he's prematurely bald, or has a micro penis.

Anyway, the first step is to stop browsing incel forums, I used to browse them for humor but it started to fuck with my brain so I quit cold turkey. Much better now.
If you feel bad about a lack of experience, bang a bunch of whores.

 

[Null]

There's something he isn't telling us. Like he's prematurely bald, or has a micro penis.

A lot of incels are pedophiles but don't talk about it. They fetishize purity, innocence, virginity. I actually think people who participate in these incel communities are developing pedophilia because of what attraction parameters they're fetishizing.

Like you can tell a guy like this what he can do to get laid or even get a good girlfriend, but he won't listen, because what if that girl of his dreams has had sex before? That, for whatever reason, is a requirement. They'll go on about purity but what they're really trying to say is they want a child. I'm not saying NotArat like this, I'd hope he's not, but I'd say that incel communities are mentally healthy for absolutely no one and I'd also say they actively foment attraction to children.

IMO the healthiest thing a guy can do is hook up with a nice, easy going girl who just wants to netflix and chill. You'll probably naturally drift apart once you get bored of each other. Then you're past that awkward first step and can more confidently stride in. Women who have had a few boyfriends are not used goods, and people telling you (@NotArat) that you need a virginal girlfriend are crabs in the bucket trying to inflict pedophilia on you so you're alone forever and start wanting to rape women like they want to.

Literally, all in your head. Realize that you are in control of what you think, do, want, and fetishize, then actualize that into something fruitful.

 

[Miller Hayward]

A lot of incels are pedophiles but don't talk about it. They fetishize purity, innocence, virginity. I actually think people who participate in these incel communities are developing pedophilia because of what attraction parameters they're fetishizing.

Like you can tell a guy like this what he can do to get laid or even get a good girlfriend, but he won't listen, because what if that girl of his dreams has had sex before? That, for whatever reason, is a requirement. They'll go on about purity but what they're really trying to say is they want a child. I'm not saying NotArat like this, I'd hope he's not, but I'd say that incel communities are mentally healthy for absolutely no one and I'd also say they actively foment attraction to children.

IMO the healthiest thing a guy can do is hook up with a nice, easy going girl who just wants to netflix and chill. You'll probably naturally drift apart once you get bored of each other. Then you're past that awkward first step and can more confidently stride in. Women who have had a few boyfriends are not used goods, and people telling you (@NotArat) that you need a virginal girlfriend are crabs in the bucket trying to inflict pedophilia on you so you're alone forever and start wanting to rape women like they want to.

Literally, all in your head. Realize that you are in control of what you think, do, want, and fetishize, then actualize that into something fruitful.

I just want a girl that isn't obese and has facial deformities. That's all.

I'd seriously fuck the shit out of a female version of me.

 

[JaneThough]

I just want a girl that isn't obese and has facial deformities. That's all.

I'd seriously fuck the shit out of a female version of me.

You're getting some really great advice here, and I hope you take it. Though I feel like you're not being honest with yourself. What do you mean, a girl that isn't obese and has no facial deformities? Would you date every woman in this photo:

None are obese, and none have facial deformities. Do you have a preference for age? Race? Anything?

The problem with most incels, is their default idea of what a woman should be is almost 100% unattainable for most women. We can't all be Gal Gadots and Megan Foxs, yet for most incels that is what their baseline is for a woman. Those that actually want a woman and not either a child or an anime character.

 

[Dyn]

There's clearly something extremely and immediately offputting about Not Arat's personality, and it existed before he discovered any incel rhetoric to wallow in. If you've been an outcast your entire life and a magnet for bullying everywhere you go, then something about the way you carry yourself is disturbing everybody you meet on some kind of subconscious lizardbrain level. Looks, income, political opinions, and personal motivations aren't the problem.

@NotArat do you have any idea what it is about you that makes everybody immediately dislike you? Do you remember having any social interactions that went noticeably well or poorly? Has anybody expressed in words what it is they don't like about you or why they don't want to spend any time with you?

 

[Miller Hayward]

You're getting some really great advice here, and I hope you take it. Though I feel like you're not being honest with yourself. What do you mean, a girl that isn't obese and has no facial deformities? Would you date every woman in this photo:
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None are obese, and none have facial deformities. Do you have a preference for age? Race? Anything?

The problem with most incels, is their default idea of what a woman should be is almost 100% unattainable for most women. We can't all be Gal Gadots and Megan Foxs, yet for most incels that is what their baseline is for a woman. Those that actually want a woman and not either a child or an anime character.

Every girl to the right of the Indian (I don't like non-whites). I'm 5'4, so they're probably all taller than me.

 

[JaneThough]

Every girl to the right of the Indian (I don't like non-whites). I'm 5'4, so they're probably all taller than me.

Why not the first one? She meets your qualifications - not obese and no facial deformities. And she's significantly shorter, so if height it an issue she may be your best bet.

 

[Null]

I just want a girl that isn't obese and has facial deformities. That's all.

I'd seriously fuck the shit out of a female version of me.

Bro you're doing something to intentionally sabotage yourself if you're open to casual sex but can't find it with your credentials.

I'll even do you a solid, homie to homie. The site is like 50% female. If you want to post your selfie, your general proximity (i.e. "near buffalo", "northwest florida"), and a way to contact you, I'll put up a personal ad for you on the site. There is definitely going to be some weirdo on this site who wants to take an incel's virginity. Just b on guard for trolls and trannies.

 

[big ups liquid richard]

I see, the height is an issue, unfortunately. Women have a preference for taller men, and some tend to shit on shorter men just because of their own insecurities.

I don't mind being the shorter one, honestly. As long as they weigh less than I do, it still feels right.

 

[Disheveled Human]

The biggest advice to incels is.
-Get off the obscure parts of the internet it will just warp your brain and give you the wrong perception of people in real life, most women only know youtube so if you must maybe start there.
-Move out of moms basement, this is probably the biggest thing on the list. You can't take a woman home to your mom after you meet them and expect sex to go down.
-Find a job, you need money to play the game and government welfare checks just simply do not cut it plus you will need to discuss what you do for a living and future prospects with them.
-DO NOT TALK ABOUT ANIME!!!!

Once these basic requirements are filled you can start. Do things such as hobbies or even just hanging out with friends; community is key for finding new people to hook up with. You can use dating websites like plenty of fish but don't be a tard about it and click on only 7/10 or higher, maybe start on page 15 when searching and look for more average looking women. Sitting at home and expecting women to show up at your door doesn't happen you need to put in the legwork if you want results. NEET's have no fucking shot at it.