Having to rely on care services is fucking bullshit. It's pure humiliation and gall. Not being able to shop or cook or clean for yourself... to perform the absolute basics of being an adult... it's utterly crushing and soul degrading. It does get worse- you could need people to perform bodily care if you are physically disabled to that degree- but still, having to depend on any sort of care service is demoralising and humiliating. Even if the care service personnel are nothing but compassionate and professional, if you don't want them there (even if you need them) they can feel incredibly invasive and intrusive, no matter how good they are at their job.
The fact that Wedgie wants home care service is absolutely fucking bewildering.