I think I saw you say you don't support "golf club" feminism so this probably doesn't apply to you.
In my hobby (cycling) women are allowed to barge in and complain that clubs are too male. If we say it's because most women can't keep up it's sexist. They even say we're macho and show off by going downhill too fast even though heavier objects roll downhill faster (Galileo's falling cannonballs experiment doesn't apply to rolling objects). They literally want us to Harrison Bergeron ourselves and hold the brakes.
Men actually found a solution to this and started buying e-bikes for their wives/girlfriends/dads/etc so they can come out and keep up. Pinarello picked up on this and ran ads with middle aged men and young women. Women then called this solution sexist to imply they're too weak to keep up with men and Pinarello got cancelled.
Check out the different reactions for each image:
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(These bikes are $8k btw and the female ad is clearly aimed at serious cyclist husbands/boyfriends buying it as a present.)
Now trannies are allowed into women's races and suddenly the tune changes. They want us to save them but they won't even admit they did any of this previous stuff.
This is undoubtedly true but this is also similar to how we got here in the first place. How many of these born again TERFs previously blindly supported mainstream feminism because they believed the simple "feminism is the belief that men and women are equal" and unwittingly supported shitty causes like trannies while calling anyone who tried to warn them misogynist? Now they blindly support TERFism and there's no indication it won't repeat itself.
If they admitted that maybe the money they spent on the "this is what a feminist looks like" shirt perhaps didn't go to a good cause then I'd give them some slack but they double down and admit absolutely no fault.
If they got off the ride years ago then fair play but a lot of it seems to be recent converts like JK Rowling who only changed their minds when they were personally effected.
When you're already called homophobic, misogynist, racist, Islamophobic, etc then adding transphobic to the pile makes no difference. Women are only scared to speak up because they're not used to the abuse. They're not used to the abuse because they supported most things that lead us up to this point. Religious women have less of a problem because they're used to their religion being attacked.
I saw a post on KF along the lines of "men can't take criticism so they will save us when they're called transphobes for refusing to suck girldick". How deep in the bubble do you have to be to say that.