Stephanie Cianfriglia / Sapphire Crimson Claw / Yarrow Brown / the-ghost-fucker / transmascdruid / anarchoenby77 / darktwistedpussy / Druid of Endicot - Xe/xyr ghost-fucker, womb wizard, hand sanitizer sommelier, trans-boomer, violently abuses her elderly parents, has sexual fantasies about raping children

@flight of ideas from what i know, personality disorders (particularly borderline) pop up when someone has an abusive or unstable childhood. what say you about this and steph's claims of aboose?

The cluster Bs at least (BPD, NPD, HPD, and ASPD) all relate to primary (family caregiver) relationship disturbances in early childhood of various kinds. Nobody is born with a personality disorder for the very straightforward reason that nobody is born with a fully-realized personality. That’s why those disorders aren’t diagnosed in childhood.*

In Stapphy’s case, from what has been presented here, it seems to me that her parents probably thought (as many well-intentioned but incorrect people do) that adopting and “just loving” a drug-exposed neonate was enough to undo all the biochemical repercussions of a toxic uterine environment. Love, despite what the Beatles would have you think, is not all you need. Neonates exposed to serious street drugs in utero have much higher rates of neurological and physical issues that interfere with development, as another poster noted, but more to the point: they can be extremely difficult to care for due to their hypersensitivity to stimuli. I suspect her parents were wholly unprepared and overwhelmed and didn’t do the best job of helping her learn to regulate a nervous system that was overtaxed out of the gate.

As for her abuse claims, I think she’s very unhappy in her relationship with her parents but also doesn’t have the emotional or higher-level cognitive skills to repair what needs mending. For their part, they seem terrified of her moods and rush to placate her, except for moments when they get frustrated and ask her to do something simple or try to set up a firm boundary, and her response is total meltdown or suicidal gesture. Not a great set-up!

Stapphy would love to have something firm to point to as evidence of actual-factual abuse but I think all she’s got is a very disordered family system. Which sucks! But is not the same thing. And I suspect if she latched onto something minor, it would only be to roleplay as an Abuse Survivor, because her identity is still so unrealized.

Tl; dr: it’s more casting about for a way to understand herself in a manner that is both maladaptive and harmful to others.

*If you would like to witness the potential development of personality disorders in real time, I invite you to visit Amy Ramadan’s thread and observe her younger children.
 
what in the world is she talking about? how do eugenics play into this at the fuck all?
(also not that it remotely matters but the eugenics movement is far closer to 150 years old, having originated from the basis of Darwin's Origin of the Species, in 1859, then Herbert Spencer's 1864 Principles of Biology, though Spencer himself was neither a Social Darwinist nor a eugenicist, and especially Darwin's cousin, noted polymath and minor bitch Francis Galton, starting in 1859 and crystallized in his 1869 Heredity and Character + Darwin's The Descent of Man the following year,, all in concert with the prevailing racism/scientific racism and Social Darwinism/pro-aristocracy/anti-poor sentiments and paternalism of the time. NONE OF IT MATTERS but saying "eugenics is a thing that's existed for about 100 years" is so strange. AND HOW DOES IT RELATE) (I will give her minor credit in that the height of the eugenics movement in America was squarely about 100 years ago as it peaked in the 1920s. the later 20s rly but w/e, now I'm splitting hairs.
 
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Other pictures are just the ingredients she's talking about.
OLIPOP is some kinda overpriced soda
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She just gave the recipe away in instagram so her one patron is getting jipped
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I know exactly what he's talking about. I'm actually shocked she's admitting she doesn't, since she pretends to have all this esoteric knowledge regarding religion and mysticism. Apophatic theology is about as niche as...let's say, a paper for a 300-level undergrad course. Someone is feeling a little bit threatened. Go back to watching your Netflix popular science movies lol (boy, if ever there was an example of r/iamverysmart, it's thinking THAT is something to brag about)
 
A lot of interesting things in this crop, so I think "eating wild mushrooms gathered by a highly self-confident idiot" flew under the radar. This one could turn out interestingly, although I hope she only cooks for herself.
 
A lot of interesting things in this crop, so I think "eating wild mushrooms gathered by a highly self-confident idiot" flew under the radar. This one could turn out interestingly, although I hope she only cooks for herself.
Since Staph started getting into larping as a foraging herbalist I have thought it's going to end with her mis-identifying something and poisoning herself. I have read a few stories about very knowledgeable foragers fucking up with mushrooms. Staph will almost certainly fuck up if she starts eating random mushrooms she finds.
 
A lot of interesting things in this crop, so I think "eating wild mushrooms gathered by a highly self-confident idiot" flew under the radar. This one could turn out interestingly, although I hope she only cooks for herself.
don't worry she has admitted before, using that sped habit of revealing every godawful thing about her life, to basically only using the microwave to eat. either the parents cook or she nukes something, she has not and will not use the stove/oven to create a meal for her family
 
don't worry she has admitted before, using that sped habit of revealing every godawful thing about her life, to basically only using the microwave to eat. either the parents cook or she nukes something, she has not and will not use the stove/oven to create a meal for her family
Cook something for the family to eat? Why, that would take SPOONS. She can't risk doing something that would benefit OTHER PEOPLE!!
 
Cook something for the family to eat? Why, that would take SPOONS. She can't risk doing something that would benefit OTHER PEOPLE!!
i wouldn't trust her cooking anything for her family even if she could. might contain curse-spit (or worse) if she's mad at dad

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her "lol dumb yt women!" takes make me roll my eyes back into my skull
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deviantart, tumblr, etc.
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i daresay she looks almost cute in this picture? 😲
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have i reminded you i am a satanist today?
also she literally sounds like a cult member.
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do you remember that i'm still a satanist? and bffs with lucifer??
 
i daresay she looks almost cute in this picture? 😲
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As far as "witchy" food additives, I suppose her family is lucky that she no longer menstruates.

I wouldn't say it's great, but yeah, she looks less like an unkempt teenage sped than usual. I think it's the lack of fedora and Magic Marker eyeshadow.

This look is like a cross between a Down Syndrome woman (but definitely an adult one) and a FAS dilution of Björk.
 
don't worry she has admitted before, using that sped habit of revealing every godawful thing about her life, to basically only using the microwave to eat. either the parents cook or she nukes something, she has not and will not use the stove/oven to create a meal for her family
Haha, Stephs retarded.
 
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