Taylor's songs are about personal relationships she's had with these men, his songs are about women he doesn't know but wants to fuck. And he honestly doesn't see the difference. I think Russell may be the least nuanced person on this planet. It's like how he doesn't get that wearing a suit isn't impressive, let alone a suit that smells bad, or how the mere fact that he files a lawsuit doesn't make him a threat to the person he's suing, but he thinks wearing a suit means women will like him or filing a lawsuit will make the defendant give him what he wants. He writes songs about women, Taylor writes songs about men, and he can't comprehend how his songs and her songs are received differently because he just has no nuance.