- Joined
- May 23, 2020
He was the last born, after two males, so it's possible the fraternal birth order effect would have applied to Jazz.I used to think that if left alone, Jaron would probably have grown up to be a gay man but now I'm not sure he would even had been gay. He doesn't exhibit the mannerisms or interests that normally set off my gaydar. I know I'm just going off of stereotypes but still, take away the long hair, boobs and female clothes and I don't think I would describe his behavior as feminine or gay.
If you ask me, the "gay aesthetic" and mannerisms is learned behavior. TMI me but I grew up in a small rural town so I never adopted those mannerisms and none of the gays I spent time around had them either. I move to the City and it's lisp after lisp after lisp. And I actually get ostracized by them for choosing not to act and speak like that.