No women and in fact no one has ever gotten interested in me talking about calculus or differential geometry. I just get glazed looks
Eh, it's a case by case thing; and it's certainly not something you start with. But if you present yourself and simply genuinely passionate about something, you can pretty much talk about anything. It's less about the actual content and more about the fact that you have genuine interests, that you're smart, and that you have drive to gather knowledge and skills. Shit, on my last first date I blabbered about medieval ship construction, tall ships, and Zheng He's Treasure Fleet. You'd think nothing gets a pussy drier than the difference between clinker and carvel construction, but you'd be wrong. It's all in how you present yourself. You can talk about Hilbert spaces and Green's functions as long as you appear genuinely passionate about it and not patronizing, i.e. just happy to share some knowledge.
It also depends on the woman, of course. This is not for dumb bimbos who have zero interest in anything but themselves, but why even talk to those? They're like you.
The big issue with assburgers and tismos is that you have trouble seeing other people as human beings equal to yourself. A lack of ability to perceive them as thinking, feeling people, who have their own histories and thoughts and interests. Conversation is an art where you need to realize that you're having a
dialogue, not a monologue, and the goal of the dialogue is talking with another person, not
to another person and not just about yourself. You're not doing a sales pitch for yourself, at least not directly.
The first step in the art of conversation is to
listen. And engage with the other person's interests. That requires an open mind and a broad spectrum of at least superficial knowledge so you can keep a conversation going.
This is already a tough step for many incels, because they tend to dismiss anything outside of their tismo range as shit, and are absolutely brutally honest about it. That's where you need to keep an open mind. Try to see their perspective on something, understand why
they like something. Instead of going on a rant about how, dunno, Nicky Minaj or whoever is destroying western civilisation by twerking at the Superbowl or whatever, try and understand why this person might enjoy the music. If you dismiss something, do it in a humorous fashion. Don't fucking tard-rage!
When the conversation is going it can go in all sorts of directions, so it's a good idea to have at least some cursory knowledge about all sorts of things so you can keep a conversation going no matter where it goes. Learn about things. Especially important: Basic knowledge in (pop) music, not just anime theme songs. Basic knowledge about art. At least know some important artists. Bitches love Monet, so you better know who that is.
The conversation can steer in the direction of your interests. Be passionate about them, but keep an open mind. Be ready to explain
why you're into something. Why are you fascinated by quantum mechanics and topological properties or whatnot? Be self-aware about what you're interested in, but don't go too hard on the self-deprecation. Be confident about who you are and what you like. Don't go into autistic details, but rather talk about broad things that are relatable and explain what is so fascinating about that topic.
Conversation is an art that needs to be honed. Sadly, assburgers and tismos have a physical disadvantage when it comes to this, so it's harder for them. But it can be practiced! Most importantly, lose the self-centeredness. The world isn't about you, the conversation isn't about you, and you're not holding a conversation to get to your goals of getting into some chick's pants. You're holding a conversation to get to know her and to talk to her. They're human beings like you. They might think differently, so that's something you need to realize.
tl;dr: Conversation is an art. It's a dialogue. It's not just about you and giving a sales pitch for yourself. You're not the center of the world. Learn to talk
with people, not just
to people. Knowledge and confidence are key.
