I agree, I feel better about someone being there for her. In the long run, is it kind of enabling? Yeah, probably. But taking her out is genuinely nice. It's the LGBTQ rallying that feels more desperate and empty.
Sure, heās trying to be supportive. Sander is not very bright, however, and he doesnāt realize all this support: being an ally, covering a room with trans flags, making a million tik toks about it, and likely making allyship his full time career, only means that heās boxing Jazz out if he ever does change his mind and realize heās a male. Who can he go to? His mother is a crazy person, his sister, father and one brother has checked out, and the one closest to him will also lose his identity if Jazz wants to be Jaron.
I saw a 60 Minutes. Australia in which they featured a 15 year old who had decided he was trans at age 12. Doctors in Oz are more sensible and wouldnāt let a child that young delay puberty. There are crazy mothers in every country, so mom, whoād had a hysterectomy, decided to give her son her estrogen, because he was getting tall and she was afraid he wouldnāt pass. He took it for two years. He grew breasts, voice changed, the story we know. However, at 14 the kid decided he really was a boy, so mom is hoping to reverse damage and get him a mastectomy-something they also donāt do easily in Australia. Small victory-sheās at least letting her son be himself now, although she shouldnāt have been caught up in childish nonsense at all.
The interesting thing was the doctorās interview. He said that exploring gender can be a normal part of childhood/early puberty but these childrenās dysphoria almost always disappear by the end of puberty. He said a true Dysphoric who didnāt grow out of it was so rare that he hadnāt yet treated one, and heād been a doctor for about 30 years and was about 70.
YouTube has a lot of videos about detransitioners-they are always thrown out of the LGTB club, of course, and are called traitors.
Itās really sad. Kids like Jazz who were brainwashed (or at least taken way too seriously) now will never have functioning genitals whether male or female. At this point, that part of his life will never happen. He may even want to revert back to masculinity and go see basketball with his brother
as a brother. But he can never admit it- his community would disown him, his mother would blame him, and the one family member who cares would also lose everything.
Heās trapped, so he eats. Nothing else he can do except join the 41. Itās terribly sad. His entire family is to blame, but especially his mother, next is the LGBT community, and then the medical community. They all failed this kid, and the others like him.