Culture North Carolina student denied diploma after wearing Mexican flag over graduation gown - "I did it for my family," student Ever Lopez said.


A North Carolina high school student said he was denied his diploma at his graduation ceremony for wearing a Mexican flag over his gown.

Ever Lopez draped a Mexican flag over his blue gown at Asheboro High School's graduation ceremony Thursday night.

Livestreamed video footage from the ceremony shows the principal ask him to take the flag off. After an unsuccessful attempt to take it off, he was handed his diploma holder, which the other students also received. But after walking across the stage, he was denied his actual diploma.

Lopez told ABC News, "When I got up there I went for the handshake and I wasn't thinking nothing of it and I heard her say, 'You can't wear that.' And I was in shock and confused. I was like, 'What?' She was like, 'The flag. You can't wear that.'"

The incident has sparked outrage and led to a protest outside the school Friday. However, the school district insists that Lopez's actions "violated the ceremony's dress code" and "the incident is not about the Mexican flag."


Lopez said he wore the flag to honor his family as he's the first to graduate from high school in his immediate family.

"It means everything to me," Lopez told ABC News of wearing the Mexican flag. "My parents, my whole family, is from over there. I did it for them because they had a rough childhood; they didn't get the scholarship that I got, or they didn't get to go to school like I did. So ... representing my flag and getting a diploma was really important to me because I was basically doing it for my family."

Lopez said that Asheboro high school asked him to apologize as a condition of receiving his diploma.

"I don't know why I should apologize, when it should be heard, because I did nothing wrong," Lopez said.

In a statement to ABC News on Sunday, the Asheboro city school district said that Lopez's diploma has been available for pick up since Friday and that an apology has never been requested, expected or required.

Afterward graduation, Lopez's family was escorted off the school property "after a request was made by Principal [Penny] Crooks," Asheboro police told ABC News. Asheboro police officers were working the graduation in "an approved off-duty capacity."

Lopez said he has still yet to receive his diploma.

Asheboro City schools said in a statement that the graduation dress code was shared with students ahead of time and allowed for students to decorate their graduation caps, but "the wearing of a flag of any kind is a violation of the dress code." In livestream footage of the graduation, a number of students are seen with alterations to their caps, featuring handwritten messages, drawings or flowers.

The backlash to the incident has led to the school receiving threats, according to authorities.

The superintendent said an employee received a threatening email on Friday that said "I’m gonna shoot up this school if you don’t give that young man his diploma," according to the Asheboro Police Department.

"Te Asheboro Police Department is investigating 9 additional emails, for a total of 10, that have been sent to school employees via email threatening violence against the school and/or the employee," the department said in a statement.

The school district said Friday in a statement that it supports "our students' expressions of their heritage in the appropriate time and place."

"We continue working to resolve this issue with the student and his family so that he will receive his diploma from Asheboro High School. He has worked very hard and we commend him on this great achievement. We are confident in his abilities and we know he has a bright future ahead of him," the statement added.

In a follow-up statement the school district said: "This incident is not about the Mexican flag. Students were encouraged to express their identity by decorating their mortar boards. A number of students followed the protocol and had the Mexican flag and other representations appropriately displayed during the ceremony."

Lopez told ABC News no one ever discussed that bringing a flag wouldn't be permitted.

On Friday, a group of around 30 people gathered outside the high school to show support for Lopez, demanding he receive his diploma. An online petition has also garnered more than 73,000 signatures as of Saturday afternoon.

"Well, it's crazy. I didn't expect it, all the community to come together like that," Lopez said of the support. "I was just walked out of school. I was kind of like down. I was like, 'Dang man I didn't get my diploma and stuff.' ... It is crazy because the next day I woke up and I had people calling me, saying, 'Oh man, you got interviews, you got interviews, you got interviews.' And I'm like, 'What?' And then what shocked me the most, other than the interviews, was the protest at my school because I didn't know about that."

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It is national pride, which doesn't have to be political. Everyone can and should be proud of where they came from. The kid's reason makes perfect sense and is innocent on its face. I'm not the one trying to crucify a high school graduate for showing pride in his family and heritage. Any politicization that is happening is occurring within the response to the event and is all external to what the kid did.
Why are we giving Mexicans free education? Or did he pay out of district tuition?
 
It doesn't make sense to me why some kid in a random North Carolina high school wearing a Mexican flag to honor his family
Because the school is obviously run by white supremacists because they enforced the rules.
If the rules state "don't wear a flag", don't wear a fucking flag. Easy call. Ceremony is not about you, it's about the graduating class as a whole. Same reason most schools get annoyed by kids acting a fool on stage. The principal even gave him a chance to take it off and "he couldn't". My school had a similar policy where not following the guidelines means you don't get your diploma. If it's that important just apologize.
If the retard wanted to show pride in where he is from he should've worn some Mexican flag pin on his gown or something insignificant that wouldn't be worth penalizing. Instead the idiot violates dress codes he definitely knew about and the school will likely cave since letting students act woke is now what is to be expected at graduation. Expect future graduation ceremonies to have stunts like this or that valedictorian in Texas explaining how Obergruppenfuhrer Greg Abbot wants to murder abortionists and her three parents.
 
Why are we giving Mexicans free education? Or did he pay out of district tuition?
I don't have the link handy, but I am fairly certain that the first stimulus wasn't properly introduced into congress. Someone took some Mexican aid bill - infrastructure and education - replaced the contents of the bill with the stimulus, and turned the original bill into an earmark in the new bill. The complaint the person who originally posted the link had was that by doing things this way, congress is able to withhold the name of the person who introduced the stimulus and there is no accountability for that action. We don't know who decided that it made sense to draw a connection between these two concepts.

The American Coronavirus relief can only get snuck through on the back of a Mexican aid bill.

America would have paid for his education even if he stayed in Mexico. (If he stayed in Mexico, it would have been more federal and less local funding, however. Which might be better as long as you aren't from North Carolina).
 
i don't pay taxes so our kids can parade through their commencements cosplaying as Mexi-Man even against the insistence of the school admins

no, i pay taxes so the state of Israel can live to collectively Jew another day
Yeah, but funding Israel is hilarious. Nothing funny about Mexico requires much money. Comedy sombreros don't cost all that much, even if you're buying one for all Americans and the horde of illegals.
 
It's dumb to compare somone wearing something on their cap vs wearing something around their shoulders. No one really sees the top of the cap which is probably the only thing their allowed to change about it so it's not really that distracting vs draping an entire flag around your shoulders which sticks out like a sore thumb. And I did see a picture in that article of a girl with a decorated cap so you are allowed to alter some parts of the cap/gown it seems. I don't think the guy should be withheld his diploma indefinitely but punishing him a bit sounds like a good idea since he deserves it. Though besides that he's going to look like a troublemaker now because this went viral. Employers aren't going to like that.
 
Uhh... sure.

That example would be an overt political message and would be inappropriate for the situation.

Let's liven this up a bit more. @Hollywood Hulk Hogan am I taking crazy pills today?
If it were a MAGA flag on the cap, they'd be saying supportive autistic things about how "BASED" he was, but because he used a Mexican flag, they automatically hate it
 
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They're also failures at @ing people or hitting delete, "Dolfoohur".

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Adolfo is really after his 5 minutes of fame. He should be ashamed and he should start his own controversy instead of using his cousin to do it.
 
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He should have worn a BLM flag. He'd have his full-ride scholarship and Ivy acceptance letter by now.
 
I'm too dumb to archive the video, but the kid has the diploma now. Has the flag too, of course.

The video appears to be from tiktok user dolfincosmetics? What a weird name for a male. Men aren't known for cosmetics. I wonder if the cousin is milking the controversy with the goal of pushing sales.

dolfincosmetics.com does exist but it gives an ssl certificate warning, and if I choose to ignore the warning I get a 403 Forbidden.
 
Thank god all you mongs will be replaced in a generation.
It was a rule without leniency when I graduated high school. Some chucklefuck had to take an extra "summer class" (read: pointless busywork cutting into his summer) before he could get his diploma because he taped (his interpretation of) a hand with a raised middle finger to the top of his hat. Sometimes, you have to follow the rules and be respectful or else you pay the price. I see absolutely nothing wrong with teaching kids that there are consequences to poor choices.

Also, if I were to wear a flag of particular historical note from my ancestors' country and claimed to be just as adamant about how much it meant to me, I'm curious if your response would change. Depending on where you live, it's just a happy windmill of good fortune after all. Or perhaps the classic Confederate flag if a southerner wanted to show their Dixie pride?

Public displays of egregious individuality have been poison to modernity. Christ.
 
People need to get used to fucking following rules and goddamn conforming, again. This is as good a place to address that as any.

Broken windows policing patriotism.
This is the opposite of the current zeitgeist. Only nazis conform!


As for the kid, proud Mexicans are easy to hate and almost always have little to no experience with Mexico. I wouldn't be surprised if his dad thinks he's being a little faggot and embarrassing the family. He probably does shitty jobs so his kids can have a comfy life and they end up acting like ungrateful retards. Many such cases.
I'll admit I was surprised to see this was in North Carolina, I expected Texas or something.
 
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It was a rule without leniency when I graduated high school. Some chucklefuck had to take an extra "summer class" (read: pointless busywork cutting into his summer) before he could get his diploma because he taped (his interpretation of) a hand with a raised middle finger to the top of his hat. Sometimes, you have to follow the rules and be respectful or else you pay the price. I see absolutely nothing wrong with teaching kids that there are consequences to poor choices.

Also, if I were to wear a flag of particular historical note from my ancestors' country and claimed to be just as adamant about how much it meant to me, I'm curious if your response would change. Depending on where you live, it's just a happy windmill of good fortune after all. Or perhaps the classic Confederate flag if a southerner wanted to show their Dixie pride?

Public displays of egregious individuality have been poison to modernity. Christ.
Okay, that's it. NOBODY wear flags to graduations like a cape. Do a pin, decorate your cap, do it after the cermony. Because people want to be autistic. Just take your paper and go.
 
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