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- May 23, 2020
Watching that video made me appreciate a trick I learned from taking voice lessons when I was a teenager, which was to train myself into switching into a lower register when I am upset or angry. You don't actually put on a low voice, you just kind of bellow from the chest instead, so you avoid that seagull sound. Funny that I have technically put more effort into 'not sounding like a girl' than Ezra has.
my name is ezra and i identify as non-binary . i am 19 years old and i live in dayton ohio. for my whole life, i have always wished i was born male.
Were you raised in a conservative family? Did being born female in that environment hamper you? Unhappy about it? Congratulations, you're a boy now! Of course by this logic, oppression of female children is actually a-ok, because if they weren't happy with the shitty way they are treated that would mean they were boys. Very progressive.
it’s hard for me to find the right words to explain my gender identity. i strongly desire to be feminine in the way men are, not feminine in the way women are, if that makes sense.
No, it does not make sense. It sounds like you have experienced sexism and possibly abuse, and think you can escape all of it by shrieking that you're not a girl. Good luck with that.
i have never felt like a woman for a whole day in my entire life.
Neither have I. How does one 'feel like a woman'? I have never 'felt like a human', either. Maybe I am not one.
i am raising money for FTM top surgery to help alleviate this discomfort and emotional turmoil. i already struggle with bipolar disorder and post traumatic stress disorder, dealing with gender dysphoria on top of that kind of feels like i have a wet mattress on top of me and i can’t breathe.
Bipolar and PTSD, a great mental state in which to make decisions about amputating healthy organs. I am glad doctors and therapists are going along with this.
When an ordinary “cis” woman wants a breast reduction because she thinks they’re too big and make life hard/negatively affect her self image it’s seen as cosmetic surgery purely for vanity purposes, but when an Aiden wants it, it becomes “life saving” and “gender affirming”.
And the “feeling like a woman” thing I think is what manipulates a lot of these teenage girls into this gender shit - what does that even mean? People are more than just what’s in their pants, which should be obvious to everyone, but the ideology being pushed on kids is telling them otherwise. Nobody “feels” like their biological sex (it’s something you just are, feelings be damned) or is fully comfortable with the stereotypes associated with it.