Whatever she has she does have a responsibility to get it sorted - she has the means. As long as she has enablers and excusers she will never seek legitimate help.
Anyway, imo, Amber is truly narcissistic with traits of histrionic. No way is she BPD or Bipolar.
I believe 100% Amberlynn is a Narcissist and probably has HPD. I don’t think she has BPD at all.
just watch this video and listen to what Jim Can’t Swim says on what Narcissistic Personality Disorder is.
Amberlynn is very very insecure with herself, but she hides it to where we don’t see the actual insecurities. Or she tries to “fake” what being insecure is. She is a shapeshifter, if you watch all of her videos from beginning to now, you can tell the major difference of personality changes she has due to each girlfriend she dated. We will probably never see the “real” Amberlynn (and I know of the old FB account she has and those text with Aunt Tammie and the voicemail to Beckys mom) because it’s so buried under the fakeness she has.
JCS says that the root cause of narcissism is being vulnerable. In my theory, I believe that’s the reason why Amberlynn stuck to her exes until she found a new person. If she was by herself, it would legit scare her. That’s why she tries to be all lovely dovey to the next girl she sees as a potential partner. But once she finds a partner, that will disappear quickly.
“Narcissists do not love like neurotypicals do, they will only accept love on a conditional basis. As they perceive unconditional love as unmerited and non-reflective of the virtuous traits they constantly seek to exhibit.”
“They are other wise possessive and controlling; or disinterested and revengeful.” She was possessive and controlling while dating Casey and Becky. And wasn’t interested in Becky (from her art to her mother dying) but was revengeful in trying to get Destiny back.
“Narcissistic are constantly in a state of rage, which is controlled most of the time. It only manifest itself when their defenses are down.”
Basically every live stream she’s done since she broke up with Becky.
“Narcissist don’t feel responsible for their own conduct. They often believe that they are victims of injustice of discrimination when facing retribution with past infractions.”
Whenever a hayyder brings up the things we already know (Casey situation, GoFundMe scam, her weight lost. It doesn’t matter what it is) she will always use an excuse for the shitty behavior. “My mental illness, my obesity, my childhood.”
No matter how much ALR ex GFs ever did to make her happy, it wasn’t enough. She will never be pleased.
But I don’t think Amberlynn is sociopathic or a cold blooded psychopath (like the hayders say she is). That is the thing that annoys me, people using the words Sociopath and Psychopath when they describe a shitty person.
This is my theory but, I am not a licensed psychologist to fully diagnose.
