r/polyamory

[Schatzi Katze]

absolutely. you can tell from the babyface. probably pre-testosterone or barely started using it.
also this polyamory shit is a big reason that i'm just not interested in dating anymore. people are too obsessed with sex, sex, sex. it's depressing.

Dont worry fam, the ace/queerplatonic poly community has your back! Which is to say, autists who do not understand what "friends" are.

 

[Yeeted Teet]

I'm at the stage now where I'm more curious about the mindset of a person that knowingly gets involved with the poly-types. I can see some young dude who's excited to get his dick wet and might even be turned on at the idea of cucking some schlub, but the mentality of the sidepiece women fascinates me. I have first-hand knowledge from one(!) of the people I know that's had multiple girls he's been fucking on the side try to pull the 'you should break up with your wife and join me' card, which makes sense considering they've got a shelf life and banging some married dude isn't going to result in a lasting relationship with children and a house.

I can only assume it's the thrill of the hunt, there are some women who get a huge ego boost from luring a man away from his wife. They think it proves how irresistible they are, but it only proves that he was of poor character in the first place and the wife is better off without him.

It doesn't make sense in a planning for the future sort of way, because in that case sense is you lose them how you win them. It makes sense in a "I have low self esteem but if this guy pays attention to me instead of the woman he married I can convince myself I'm better than her" way.

 

[NoReturn]

That's a "female to male", right?

absolutely. you can tell from the babyface. probably pre-testosterone or barely started using it.
also this polyamory shit is a big reason that i'm just not interested in dating anymore. people are too obsessed with sex, sex, sex. it's depressing.

"Enby" + "Poly" + "site:tiktok.com" =

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[keyboredsm4shthe2nd]

"Enby" + "Poly" + "site:tiktok.com" =

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"Gay men want me"
No they don't honey.

 

[RepeatedMeme]

Does anyone else have flashes of rationality where they think maybe treating abandonment issues with partners who only want to be around when we're fucking is a bad idea?

 

[blablabla]

Another idiot cucked by another bi slut. Such many cases

 

[Geese Howard]

Courtesy of r/relationship_advice. The first paragraph is very reddit.

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationsh...my_30f_best_friend_30f_and_her_boyfriend_35m/ (https://archive.is/gfcmI)

 

[Zebedee]

Courtesy of r/relationship_advice. The first paragraph is very reddit.

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I got halfway through that and genuinely started getting confused over who was fucking who. I’m not even religious, but biblically speaking I’m pretty certain that it’s this shit that caused Sodom and Gomorrah to get deep sixed.

 

[Ted_Logan]

Ah yes poly or I call it cheating just with extra steps. I knew someone that I consider my lolcow that was in poly and her cuck of a husband was ok with it. Like ok fine enjoy your wife dating mainly like underage boys like in their late teens.

 

[Zarkov]

Courtesy of r/relationship_advice. The first paragraph is very reddit.

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Genuine friendship is impossible to maintain with those poly tards, they're toxic assholes who reason only in terms of who they can sleep with the most and when they can start fucking. Sooner or later one of them is going to try to poon you, and it will poison your social circle until you cut ties for good.

 

[Zebedee]

Genuine friendship is impossible to maintain with those poly tards, they're toxic assholes who reason only in terms of who they can sleep with the most and when they can start fucking. Sooner or later one of them is going to try to poon you, and it will poison your social circle until you cut ties for good.

It’s almost like healthy boundaries in friendships are just as important as those with romantic partners.

Jee wizz you guys, we sure are (re)learning things today!

 

[DumbDude42]

Genuine friendship is impossible to maintain with those poly tards, they're toxic assholes who reason only in terms of who they can sleep with the most and when they can start fucking. Sooner or later one of them is going to try to poon you, and it will poison your social circle until you cut ties for good.

they try to 'reason' about things that can't really be reasoned about.
like, jealousy exists, and it's strong. it's an emotion, an instinct, no amount of arguing and reasoning (more like rationalizing and sugarcoating) is gonna make it go away, and no amount of self-indoctrination through poly literature is going to 'cure' you of it. all you can do is try and suppress it, live in denial of it, lie to yourself about it, but that's really not sustainable and will come crashing down on you sooner or later.

 

[Coffee Druid]

Courtesy of r/relationship_advice. The first paragraph is very reddit.

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That reads as so disrespectful and violating. So, the two of them got together to discuss the guy having sex with OP....Without even contacting OP. Like they said, they just view them as a sex object. Also the female friend is not a best friend and they should stop calling her that. If someone decides to act like a cunt to you and NOT tell you what’s wrong then they can fuck off. Perhaps it was jealousy, it which case why is she poly if she’s prone to that? Doesn’t seem like a recipe for success anyway.

Damn, I can’t imagine discussing with my partner whether it’s okay for them to fuck someone else.

 

[Amber the Hedgehog]

I got halfway through that and genuinely started getting confused over who was fucking who. I’m not even religious, but biblically speaking I’m pretty certain that it’s this shit that caused Sodom and Gomorrah to get deep sixed.

Two roommates who are just friends, OP and Cindy. OP has an ex called Mark who she had sex with when they were together but that's all in past. Mark is now long distance dating Cindy and they are in open relationship, so fucking each other and other people. OP was planing to have a hiking trip with Mark. Far as OP is concerned this purely friendly but behind OP's back Mark said to Cindy that he is hoping it turning into sex.

Cindy is being a cunt, pure and simple, but I will give her slight benefit of an doubt. Maybe she was given the impression that Mark and OP had talked about sexy hiking before Mark brought it up to her. Then she would have some reason to be cold to OP because she thought they had made plans behind her back. Helping a friend and then finding out that help going towards her sleeping with your boyfriend, yeah feeling resentful makes sense. Still going all shitty and passive aggressive isn't great behavior when her agreement with Mark was open anyway. Yeah I get that they had also no dating each other's friends rule but as Mark points out this is a shared friend who he already banged before they started dating.

All and all shows why you shouldn't get involved with poly idiots even as friends. Despite making it clear that you aren't into it, they assume you can be turned and so get roped into drama anyway. I have seen this happen in real life too so this story isn't unrealistic at all. Heck I have seen friends used as time fillers so that other person doesn't "get caught" with side pieces because despite all grand talks they are still jealous and petty like rest of us.

 

[Maldavius Figtree]

That reads as so disrespectful and violating. So, the two of them got together to discuss the guy having sex with OP....Without even contacting OP. Like they said, they just view them as a sex object. Also the female friend is not a best friend and they should stop calling her that. If someone decides to act like a cunt to you and NOT tell you what’s wrong then they can fuck off. Perhaps it was jealousy, it which case why is she poly if she’s prone to that? Doesn’t seem like a recipe for success anyway.

Damn, I can’t imagine discussing with my partner whether it’s okay for them to fuck someone else.

You don’t know how the boyfriend sold it to the other girl. She probably assumed OP was willing and trying to fuck her boyfriend.

 

[Rabidcolombian]

Courtesy of r/relationship_advice. The first paragraph is very reddit.

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“How dare they view me as a sex object!”

Then stop being one. Stop with this casual sex poly nonsense - sex is SUPPOSED to release oxytocin that makes you bond to your partner - no shit there’s a strong possibility one partner will have trouble moving on and still have sights on sleeping with you. If he AND OP’s BF viewed her in this way, it says more about OP than them and possibly alludes to something that OP’s not willing to share. Why in the world would your BEST FRIEND ever think so lowly of you to think you’d EVER do that? Apparently there’s a character trait there that leads the friend to assume this - I’ve had friends for less than two years that have a better opinion of me than this friend of 15 years does of her. MOST people do. So something doesn’t add up.

Jesus help these people.

 

[Free the Pedos]

“How dare they view me as a sex object!”

Then stop being one. Stop with this casual sex poly nonsense - sex is SUPPOSED to release oxytocin that makes you bond to your partner - no shit there’s a strong possibility one partner will have trouble moving on and still have sights on sleeping with you. If he AND OP’s BF viewed her in this way, it says more about OP than them and possibly alludes to something that OP’s not willing to share. Why in the world would your BEST FRIEND ever think so lowly of you to think you’d EVER do that? Apparently there’s a character trait there that leads the friend to assume this - I’ve had friends for less than two years that have a better opinion of me than this friend of 15 years does of her. MOST people do. So something doesn’t add up.

Jesus help these people.

I don’t quite agree—poly may have rotted her friend and the BF’s brains to the point where they assumed anyone would be down to casually swap bodily fluids and degrade romantic love. I hope OP ditches them until they snap out of it.

 

[Rabidcolombian]

I don’t quite agree—poly may have rotted her friend and the BF’s brains to the point where they assumed anyone would be down to casually swap bodily fluids and degrade romantic love. I hope OP ditches them until they snap out of it.

Excuse me - thought it said OP was also poly.

Still, the header of, “Don’t talk bad about poly, I will NOT follow any advice that is anti-poly!” suggests their rot got into her brain.

You don’t write a post about an alcoholic friend and all the insane mishaps that have happened after they drink five beers before noon to start the post by saying, “I want NO alcohol shaming in the replies, I will NOT listen to any advice that says alcohol is the problem!”

The OP is also an idiot.

 

[Brain Problems]

Maybe she was given the impression that Mark and OP had talked about sexy hiking before Mark brought it up to her.

She probably assumed OP was willing and trying to fuck her boyfriend.

Yeah this is what I thought when I read the reddit post too. I'll allow for the chance though that this broad is just psycho after being cunt-deep in this degenerate world of poly for too long and starting to jump at shadows but I have a feeling her pervert boyfriend tried to make it sound like he had already cleared it with 2/3 of the group.

At the end of the day though, like @Rabidcolombian and @Free the Pedos are saying (unless I'm misreading) it's interesting that even considering the notion that poly rots people's brains and destroys relationships of all types is a kind of shibboleth that must not be allowed any air or sunlight.

For every "successful" poly relationship there are another 10 smoking craters in their wake but don't you fuckin dare mention it because... it's mean? Unfair? Hurts their degenerate feelings? Weird how they're so defensive...

 

[NoReturn]

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