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Sent to bed at eight thirty tonight. Female housemate wanted to go to bed even earlier than usual, and since the house is old and creaks underfoot, I have to retire early lest the noise of myself moving around keeps her up. I feel like I should be in bed with the light off, with my head under the covers, reading Mercedes Lackey's talking horses by torchlight. The two hour nap that female housemate had this afternoon evidently didn't do its trick.

There's a lot about her that pisses me off, but being sent to bed each night like a primary school kid is really getting to me. At first I was willing to go along with it because you have to compromise and shit if you want to live with others, and I'm certainly not the easiest person to live with either, but before she came I used to have this whole evening routine worked out and that's all gone. Now I just get sent to bed, "Yes Mum, right away." Since the rats' cage is by my room I can sneak out and medicate them if any of them need to be drugged up, and she can't begrudge me going to the loo, but that's as much as I can get away with.

Female housemate gets up late, goes to sleep early, and naps during the day. If male housemate makes noise coming home of an early morning after nightshift, she'll take his head off. If I make noise during the night, she takes my head off. And I'm so fucking pussy whipped by now that when she says she's taking a nap, I slink into a corner and barely move until she's awake again.

There has to be a better way to live than this. This is a twenty six year old woman, not a six week old infant. We should not be held hostage to her sleeping patterns.
What the fuck man, you're paying money to live there right? What's going on over there?
 
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Two different couples in our acquaintance circle are going through a bunch of drama (unrelated to each other). It sucks to see all the negativity going on, and the anxious part of my brain is paranoid it’s going to bleed over and affect my own relationship. A few small issues have already cropped up these past few months. Nothing break up worthy but who knows what can happen now.
 
why do birds suddenly appear everytime you are near @Random Dyke?

everytime you reply with such personality and charm it makes my heart flutter, I'd let you berate me all day if it meant I could hear your cute remarks

it was meant to be! we were destined to find love together baby I can feel it in my bones
Please stop man
 
Had second follow-up with spine surgeon this morning. Took two X-rays. Showed all hardware continues to be well-seated and bone continuing to grow to eventually complete the fusion. No pain, just some residual tightness in lower back muscles, not surprised. Nerves can take a long time to heal. Doctor was happy. I was happy. Back in six months. 👍

To celebrate, when I went to Costco afterward bought a big chocolate cream pie. 👍
 
>be me
>terrible at math and numbers, much more of one of those faggy liberal arts faggots
>take an introduction to statistics class five years ago during my year at community college in preparation for transfer to four year university
>didn't even do that well despite actually trying for once in my life
>fast forward five years
>somehow graduate with a B.S.
>somehow get accepted into an M.S. program
>currently enrolled in a 600 level stats course for graduate students
>as someone terrible at math
>as someone who took intro to stats five years ago
>at a community college
>and I didn't even do all that well
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On moderation queue, other than that - just great, got my hearing back... not at full scale but it'll do, for a while.

Appointed to host a community mapping project for Doom close to the end of the year and have been tasked with recourse gathering... That's gonna be fun.
 
>be me
>terrible at math and numbers, much more of one of those faggy liberal arts faggots
>take an introduction to statistics class five years ago during my year at community college in preparation for transfer to four year university
>didn't even do that well despite actually trying for once in my life
>fast forward five years
>somehow graduate with a B.S.
>somehow get accepted into an M.S. program
>currently enrolled in a 600 level stats course for graduate students
>as someone terrible at math
>as someone who took intro to stats five years ago
>at a community college
>and I didn't even do all that well
Relax. I was never that great at math, either. Got through high school and community college. When I transferred to a university started with basic math and worked my way up to statistics and eventually calculus. Learned that if you can add, subtract, multiply and divide you can do any math there is. Your school may have provisions for tutoring in weak areas. Might want to check it out. You CAN do it. 👍
 
today fucking sucks ass. the people repairing my switch accidentally formatted it, which wouldn't be a big deal if nintendo weren't such fucking troglodytes and saved splatoon 2 data to the cloud, since i'd backed everything else up.
so i go to the park to feed the ducks because they'll help me take my mind off of it, but no a fucking retard child and her incompetent, absent-brained father come dick around and the kid fucking throws birdseed not only on the ground, but on me.
and the final goddamn offense is that after 5 years of living with retarded, crack-addict neighbors who argue and scream and blast music at 4 am, and just after they move out, some new mongoloid college kids come to take their place and do the exact same fucking thing.
fucking lobotomize me.
 
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