If a male believes females don't have a right or deserve private spaces to the point of using social intimidation and legislation to strip them of that, then that man hates women with intensity and it is all encompassing.
If you make fun of a transwoman on Kiwi Farms, you're a white-supremacist terf who hates transpeople with an intense and all encompassing hatred, and you want to literally murder them with your words, which are violence. That's what they say about us, and it's just as stupid.
When you're passionate about an issue it's easy to demonise the opposing side until they're nothing but evil caricatures who oppose you solely out of low malice and hatred, but that's a ridiculously childish and lazy way of looking at the world, and people here aren't likely to accept it. If somebody is pro-choice, it's generally because they want to protect women's rights to reproductive freedom, not because they hate unborn babies with an all-encompassing intensity. If somebody is pro-life, it's generally because they want to protect unborn babies, not because they hate women with an all-encompassing intensity. The other side isn't full of monsters, it's only full of people who disagree with you.
I'm extremely sympathetic towards women who feel that their spaces are being stripped away from them and they're being socially, financially and legally intimidated into silently accepting it. We both know there's a horde of animal psychopaths out there using woke politics as an excuse to feel powerful by destroying, deplatforming and terrorising anyone they can classify as a deserving target, and women are disproportionately taking the brunt of this.
But there's a big difference between that and just being a tranny who'd really rather not live in fear of being thrown into a male prison or end up homeless because shelters won't accept her. You'd have to be an absolute coon to put your hand up and say 'My demographic doesn't deserve rights', and it's absolutely ridiculous to present a binary where somebody either values women's interests over their own, or hates women with an intense, all-encompassing hatred.
I'm not going to call you a murderous neo-nazi transmisogynist just for wanting private, trans-exclusive women's spaces. Laura isn't going to call you a murderous neo-nazi transmisogynist just for wanting private, trans-exclusive women's spaces. The people who are going to call you that are screeching on twitter, and working in google, and moderating reddit, and infiltrating every fetid, degenerate corner of silicon valley, and the university boards, and law enforcement, and government, and they don't give a fuck what a semi-homeless breadline gig-worker BPD hon in the desert thinks about anything.
If you hate those people even half as much as I hate them, the least you could do is stop behaving like them.