deathtomelody
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Wish people would realize women feel the same about straight porn, our entire existences being turned into just a braindead fuckdoll. I think yaoi is less harmful since it's mostly fictional fake people and only like teenage girls/people with 0 social awareness think real gay men are "just like yaoi omg" but porn-brained men more often see real life breathing human woman as just the same as their pornified fantasies. This always sounds like a regurgitated take from people who think yaoi is just the girl equivalent to moid gooner porn.Why is she surprised? How fucking retarded do you need to be to not realise that gay people are the biggest haters of fujos? No one hates a fujo more than an actually gay man. This is common knowledge if you're into yaoi? Believe it or not but people kinda hate when you fetishise their entire lives and portray it as some cutesy bullshit and ignore all the actual problems they face, you know I would have expected a woman of all people to understand that but oh well.
also who cares if they "portray your struggles as cutesy" that's a whiny ass self-centered thing 2 care about, it's fictional stories and no one's fetishing you bro. I don't think every negative aspect of something has to be portrayed in any media about that thing. It's giving "we need more representation!!!" who tf is gonna read about gay men cleaning the shit out of their assholes and getting called faggot on the street.
and now, if you don't mind me sperging out, I've thought about the psycho-social reasons behind why yaoi is so common, and think it's kinda escapism for women to express their sexual feelings without having to project onto a female character since 90% of the time in porn or even romance media they have no agency and in relationships they're only an object to be claimed (or a stereotypical caricature for some man's fetish). Male characters are more often actually allowed to have depth and humanity, so projecting onto a male character feels easier since it's more divorced from the current stereotypes women have to live with, there's no "i'm not as pretty as her he wouldn't choose me" "He's only choosing her because she's an available hot female", it would feel like actually being chosen for who you are without the baggage of being female in society. most yaoi manga (that I've read) focuses way more heavily on the romance aspect than just being porn (there'll be like 1 sex scene and then 50 chapters of talking abt their feelings). Idk if it's different for like western yaoi fanfic and shi i don't read that there might be more goonery
I think "yaoi is homophobic fetishism" only serves to make more girls who engage in it for the reasons stated above just poon out cuz then they get an excuse to not get hated on. particularly the young ones, more teenage girls are into yaoi since then it's very difficult to feel like you fit the "female role" since it's just made up stereotypes that get enforced on you at that age, so it's pretty easy if you hate/don't fit these gender roles to not want to have to have on your "girl costume" even in your fantasies.
orrrrrr maybe I'm just another autistic stupid woman idk
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I think "yaoi is homophobic fetishism" only serves to make more girls who engage in it for the reasons stated above just poon out cuz then they get an excuse to not get hated on. particularly the young ones, more teenage girls are into yaoi since then it's very difficult to feel like you fit the "female role" since it's just made up stereotypes that get enforced on you at that age, so it's pretty easy if you hate/don't fit these gender roles to not want to have to have on your "girl costume" even in your fantasies.
orrrrrr maybe I'm just another autistic stupid woman idk
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