do girls ever change outside of the stalls in the bathroom??
over 1 year ago
Yes, everyday before dance
I need your advice, how do I go into the girls bathroom to change my pad.. im a guy? and i wear pads.. this is a serious question btw..
over 1 year ago
Oh my.. Do you need to use the girls bathroom? Or? Maybe you could ask another guy to help you
Riley, i really need your help
please help me..
over 1 year ago
Okk!!
Yeah, I need to use the girls bathroom and Idk what to do
Cause well.. you really wanna know what happened?
over 1 year ago
Yes
Well I went into the guys bathroom to change my pad at school and like this guy that harasses me was in there and heard me rip the pad open, he knew it was me in the stall and like he got all of his friends to harass me later and went back to class and told everyone. JON WEARS PADS!!! HE'S A PEDO
over 1 year ago
Ohh wow, honestly if you feel more comfortable using the girls bathroom just walk in and use it nobody's gonna care and if they question you, just say that you feel more comfortable in there. No shame!
I'm so scared to go into the guys bathroom cause every time i go in there to change my pad i get harassed.
over 1 year ago
This is actually really sad, just use whatever bathroom you feel most confident in or you could just go in the middle of class when there is no one really around
And he loves he feeling of the pad against his balls! And then went all over social media and harassed me for years, and he still does it and it's been 3 years :/ he got all of his friends to go after me cause of it and i even got beat up for it too when going into the guys bathroom idk what to do
over 1 year ago
Ohhh.. Just ignore them, do whatever makes you happy
Yeah but.. what if I go in and girls are in there, and they don't understand and get all freaked out? What do I do?
over 1 year ago
What's the worst they can do anyway? Don't worry about that if you feel better using the girls bathroom then honestly use it, people might say shit but don't let it get to you, high school's almost over anyway then you can go to uvic and they have unisex bathrooms so just look forward to that
They watch me every second, it feels like that :/.. this guy found out where i was working once and followed me from Best Buy to Best Buy all over Surrey, Langley, everywhere! He's such a creep.
over 1 year ago
That's very creepy
yeah but what if they are like yelling and screaming at me to get out :/ then what do i do?
over 1 year ago
Just be like "bitch please!" Then snap your fingers, flip your hair and walk past them
Can I use the girls bathroom like anywhere? What if they go to security and security won't allow it and bans me from the mall or wherever.. ?
over 1 year ago
If that happens then that's really messed up, you shouldn't be punished for doing what feel most comfortable with, and our is all into gay/ lesbian pride so I don't think they would ban from anywhere
What if the girls argue and really don't let me go into a stall?
over 1 year ago
I don't anyone is really going to care that much they say shit but I doubt they would stop you
What if the girls say thought that they don't feel comfortable with me in there... like, would u feel comfortable with a guy being in the stall next to you?
over 1 year ago
Personally I wouldn't care and I think that most girls wouldn't care either but some people might but I don't think it should matter anyway don't worry about them go where you feel comfortable
Like, how many stalls are in the girls bathroom like at school and like at the mall... or like at the movie theatre? And uhm, how many girls are usually in the bathroom at these places at once? Just wondering... :/ im worried if u cant tell
over 1 year ago
There are a bunch of stalls and yea girls will sometimes hang around and do there makeup or whatever and talk shit about other people or talk about whatever idek, but don't go at break thou it's always full
This sounds stupid, but can you tell me how I should go in there, what I should do and say if girls are in there, and then what I should do and like, what stall do I go into (next to the door, away from it) and like.. what do I do if the girls in the stall next to me talk to me&when/how do i leave?
over 1 year ago
Just go in like you would normally go to the bathroom, if someone talks to you in the stall ignore them because it's awkward if you talk to them, when you leave just leave like you normally would there's no shame, just be confident
Like, what if I do go in the girls bathroom and it's full of girls, like what do I do?
over 1 year ago
If there's a line for the bathroom just wait in line, and if people question you then just say that you feel more comfortable in the girls bathroom than in the guys and if people tell you to leave ignore them you have every right to be there if that's what you're most confident with
And like, what if I go in the girls bathroom and there are some girls changing in there, outside of the stalls? what do I do?
over 1 year ago
Just don't look and go straight into the stall
Uhm.. how do I decide what stall to go into though when I go into the girls bathroom?
over 1 year ago
Any stall I don't think it really matters, whatever one you want
Can I use the pad machine on the wall in the girls bathroom? Or would that be too weird or uhm, can I ask a girl for a pad in there? What would I say to her? Like if I really really need one? Would i ask her face to face in there or ask her while im in the stall?
over 1 year ago
Yea you can use the machine but they're usually broken or empty, and if you ask a girl just ask her to her face not through the stall that's usually awkward
Yeah, but what if like all the stalls are full and the girls are changing outside of the stalls, I'd have no where to go though... like what should I do?
over 1 year ago
There's a little wall in the bathroom so just stand behind the corner until a stall frees up
Like, what would I say to her if i had to ask her for a pad face to face? should i be embarrassed to ask her?
over 1 year ago
No, just be hey, do you have an extra pad?
What if she asks me why when i ask her if she has an extra pad or is like.. "wtf" or if she slaps me.. :/
over 1 year ago
She won't slap you, and just tell that you need a pad you don't have to say why
huh? what wall? and i cant like just... wait next to the sinks until a stall frees up if girls are changing in there?
over 1 year ago
There's a little half wall between the stalls and the door/ sinks so just stand on the other side of it or you could just go to the mall no one changes up there
what wall are u referring to btw? and uhm.... can't i just wait next to the sinks if girls are changing in there and all the stalls are full?...? not sure if this question went through :/
over 1 year ago
There's a little like half wall thing but yea just wait by the sinks
Uhm... what do I do if a girl asks me for a pad, like when I'm in the stall? What would I do? Like idk if it would happen, but what if it does?
over 1 year ago
Umm if you have one then I guess give it to her if you want? Idk and if you need one thou they have free pads/ tampons in the office in the nurse area you don't need to ask you can just go in get some
do i have to stand behind that wall?
over 1 year ago
No it really doesn't matter
Idk if this ever happens.. u'd be able to tell me but like.. what if i go in a stall to change my pad and like, the bin to dispose them into is full? does that ever happen?? and if it is full, uhm, where do i put it?
over 1 year ago
Uhhh.. Sometimes it is and if it is just wrap in toilet paper and put in the garbage but don't flush it
uhm, if i do get asked by the girl in the stall next to me.. how do i like uhm, hand her a pad?
over 1 year ago
Idek man just pass it to her under the stall I guess but that's never happened to me before so don't worry about it
uhmmm this is an embarrassing question,
but when I go in there.. should I sit down to pee and change my pad...?
over 1 year ago
Uhhhhmm.. Whatever you feel like nobody can see you anyway
Do you think its a good idea for me to go into the girls bathroom? and like, what if I go into the girls bathroom and it's huge and there are like 30+ stalls in there what do I do?
over 1 year ago
There's no more then 10 stalls tops, and I can't really say if it's a good idea or not, it's really up to you if you're not ashamed and you more comfortable using the girls rather than the guys then yes you should there's no reason not to
should i be ashamed to use the girls bathroom?
over 1 year ago
I don't think so
If you don't mind me asking... do you use pads? You've obviously used more than I have (I think) and uhm.. what kind(s) have you found to be the best? Just wondering..
over 1 year ago
Umm... I don't anymore but I liked the Kotex ones..
Do I need a girl to like walk me into the girls bathroom, or can i just walk right in?
over 1 year ago
Just go in!
Is it ok if like, when I am taking the bus and waiting at the bus stop... to ask a girl for a pad there? What would I say to her and how would I approach her?
over 1 year ago
Sure you can if you want.. They have free ones in the office tho
What if the girls in there are all like, you may feel comfortable, but we don't... then what do i do?
over 1 year ago
Idek ignore them
How would I approach her at the bus stop? And what would i say to her to get a pad?
over 1 year ago
I have never asked a girl for a pad at a bus stop before but if you really want to then just walk up to her and ask
and what do i say? like.. cause im not in the bathroom... so idk what to say..
over 1 year ago
Just ask herrrrr
Just be like.. "do you have an extra pad?" That's all?
over 1 year ago
YES
Do you think she'll be weirded out with me asking her? will she give me one?
over 1 year ago
I don't know
What do I do if she gets weirded out?
over 1 year ago
I don't know!!!
I'm not gonna lie, I like you a lot and I really really appreciate you helping me with all of my issues. It means alot to me. Thank you
over 1 year ago
Anytime
When I am in the girls bathroom in the stall, can I just open my pad normally and change it normally, like without having to like do it quietly like I did in the guys bathroom to try and hide the noise.... :/
over 1 year ago
You can do it as loud as you want!
Wil any girl say anything to me in the bathroom if they hear me opening up my pad?
over 1 year ago
No
Uhm, what if like I'm in the girls bathroom and I ask a girl for a pad and like, she hands me a tampon.. what do I do with it and uhm like.. how do I get a pad?
over 1 year ago
Idek.. Just use the tampon
I can't use a tampon, that's the problem.. so what would i do with it and how would i get a pad?
over 1 year ago
Are you a guy?
Yes I'm a guy.. like when I go into the girls bathroom and ask for a pad, if I get a tampon what do I do with it?
over 1 year ago
Ok.. So wait, why do you need pads then?
My dad passed away last year all of a sudden and well, ever since I've been gaining loads of weight and i'm trying to take it off. i gained 100 lb due to stress and the diet i am on to take it back off is really hard as im always exercising and walking and working out.. when i work out, walk and
over 1 year ago
I'm sorry to hear that
exercise i sweat a TON down there and my underwear gets wet and then I get huge rashes down there and then i can’t walk.. so i started to wear pads to absorb that moisure so I can walk around and stuff… is it weird that i wear pads?
over 1 year ago
Yes it is, have you tried diapers?
Uhm, emotionally, I'm not going to wear diapers cause the last image of my dad that I have is him wearing diapers... i wont be able to do that for a long time... :/ thats why I'm using pads... and also pads are easier to carry around than a huge diaper.
over 1 year ago
Ohh ok
So is it ok if I wear a pad? and go into the girls bathroom to change it?
over 1 year ago
Tbh I couldn't give a shit if I tried
hi beautiful! idk you but can you ask me a random question bc someone asked a question about you and I wanna screenshot it and. show you
Allyson (':
over 1 year ago
About me? That's weird but okk I will
Hey someone asked me a question type thing about you
Kate Vidovich
over 1 year ago
Really?? What is it?
It's about the pad stuff and now this person is asking me about it I'm just gonna delete it It's so annoying!!!
Kate Vidovich
over 1 year ago
Yes delete it! That is an excellent idea!!
Yo i think this pad person has a weird fetish and is not looking for advice at all
over 1 year ago
Oh yeaa that makes sense, it's very creepy thou
***they just wanna fulfill their fetish needs in my opinion
over 1 year ago
Yeaa idk you could be right, I'm pretty sure I know who it was and it's extremely weird and creepy imo