Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[The Judean People's Front]

She's just disingenuous as fuck. Like many other lolcows, if her mouth is moving she's lying. Ableism is a convenient thing to screech when something doesn't go her way; she has no concept of what being an actual disability activist entails and has decided that being a whiny brat about her own desires makes her an "activist."

Similarly, I highly doubt the OnlyFans content is anything beyond her awkwardly posed in bad makeup and overpriced lingerie. She's very careful with her wording - "intimacy content" - what even is that? This way when ppl are angry that they can't see Noah pounding her (grosssssss) she can point out that she never advertised that. And then she can offer more customized stuff for those willing to pay for it. That's my suspicion anyway.

 

[often puzzled]

Similarly, I highly doubt the OnlyFans content is anything beyond her awkwardly posed in bad makeup and overpriced lingerie.

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but there's a topless photo of her somewhere in this thread (I refuse to look), and Noah apparently does/has feature in her content. I can't remember details, but it also seems like a Redditor once signed up for her OF and described what they saw without dumping pics. I'll have to see if I can find that post.

In the meantime, Alex is letting us know that she's a totes awesome mother and that Ari is super duper safe in the high rise. My X key broke. As usual, I did not save all her selfies. Just assume we had the usual narcissistic quantity of them. She does the same thing as Kelly Lenza: she puts her face in story images with unrelated text.

Here's an especially obnoxious video from moving day. I've had it but couldn't get it to attach until today:

Spoiler: Ari in her new room

Ari's room. Note floor-to-ceiling windows and lack of decoration (since she specifically said she wanted to decorate). This is a still from a video, and Ari never once looked at her mom.



Another video still. Ari again never looked at Alex, but, to be fair, she was completely absorbed in her toys.



In her new ball pit. Alex was chattering away at her, but Ari never looked. Again, though, she was having a good time with the balls. At a quick glance, I couldn't find this ball pit, but I suspect I'm not using the right keywords.



In this video, she showed the outlets to prove that they were baby-proofed.

Spoiler: drunk?

She brought her birthday balloons with her. This was taken around 5 her time (on Wednesday, I think?), and the blurriness is from the original photo.



The next day, she posted a claim that they had friends over:

Spoiler: about motherhood

"Ari is down for her nap, now time for mom to each lunch."



"ppl commenting / messaging ab the windows in Ari's room, I live in a high rise . . . the bottom windows don't open lol."



"I'm disabled by I know how to parent " -- lololololololol



"Do yall criticize all moms or just disabled ones?" -- everyone comments on parenting, and no one thinks anyone else is doing it right. If you ever talked to other parents, you'd know this. Because you're a spectacularly shitty parent and plaster everything across the internet, you hear it more than most.

Spoiler: random

There were a bunch of pictures of boats, interspersed throughout the day-- while she was supposedly inside with Ari. Looks more like she kept escaping outdoors.

Spoiler: grid posts

Two new ones, comments mostly sanitized.

Spoiler: Reddit tidbits

I took these a few days ago and no longer remember what I was looking for. However, I saw a few tidbits that seemed worthy of saving to share, so here they are. She'd posted a video of herself taking twerk juice and ended up having to close comments all over the place. There's a reference to someone posting (in FB comments) a clip of her saying that she takes it so she can drink, but I couldn't find that.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

Yeah, I do know about the topless pictures, but I honestly think my brain doesn't register her nipples anymore because we see them so often. I meant more like she isn't gonna actually fuck on her porn site. She's just gonna do stuff that's tame even for soft-core and then screech sex worker rights (while also still possibly selling Other Videos specialized to whatever that sicko's tastes are).

 

[Randomrando]

"Do yall criticize all moms or just disabled ones?"

Alex is so self absorbed she can't recognize that EVERY "influencer" who puts their child online gets scrutinized through the most judgemental of microscopes.

It's just her.
And it's ableism.

She really can't see anything but herself.

 

[often puzzled]

Yeah, I do know about the topless pictures, but I honestly think my brain doesn't register her nipples anymore because we see them so often. I meant more like she isn't gonna actually fuck on her porn site. She's just gonna do stuff that's tame even for soft-core and then screech sex worker rights (while also still possibly selling Other Videos specialized to whatever that sicko's tastes are).

Post about Noah's OnlyFans content. (archive)
Post about Alex's OnlyFans content (post-Ari). (archive)
speculation about full nudity and teasers. (archive)

The post I remembered was alluded to in one of those other posts, but I still haven't found it (the redditors need to use descriptive post titles instead of "omg lol check this out"). Seems like your theory might be correct: topless stuff, but then tries to sell harder-core stuff to the perverts with deep wallets.

She also probably honestly thinks she's so hot that people would be willing to pay top dollar for topless photos, which only ever show one tit anyway-- the other is in her armpit.

Edit: here it is. -- Archive.

It sounds like she's just as lazy about OnlyFans as she is about everything else. She's always saying she'll be more active on platform X, then she's active for a few days, and then it falls dead. It's one of the things that makes keeping up with her frustrating. It wasn't even that long ago that she was going to be super active on YouTube and post social media classes. Before that, she was going to be mainly active on Snapchat. She's not using either at the moment.

Spoiler: screenshots of post

 

[Stroppy Trollop]

Those brows.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

I don't know how to feel knowing that "Yeah daddy, stick it in my disabled pussy" isn't just a hilarious Alex meme, she actually said it in the guise of being sexy.

I am vomit.

 

[My cravat doesn't flutter]

"Ari is down for her nap, now time for mom to each lunch."



"ppl commenting / messaging ab the windows in Ari's room, I live in a high rise . . . the bottom windows don't open lol."



"I'm disabled by I know how to parent " -- lololololololol



"Do yall criticize all moms or just disabled ones?" -- everyone comments on parenting, and no one thinks anyone else is doing it right. If you ever talked to other parents, you'd know this. Because you're a spectacularly shitty parent and plaster everything across the internet, you hear it more than most.

Just gonna leave this here:

 

[suspended animation]

The only time to worry about those apartment windows would be during a tornado or hurricane. I'm 99.9% sure those are hurricane impact, since that's a newer building and there are laws and building codes pertaining to hurricane protection (homeowners insurance has requirements, too.) If you don't have high impact windows, you'd need shutters, and there's no way that building is relying on putting up shutters for each storm.

The windows are one of the last things in that household to worry about.

 

[My cravat doesn't flutter]

People keep saying that Alex being so disabled is a reason for the lack of attachment, but its more so that Alex gives no shit about that kid. I've worked with extremely disabled people with children and they find ways to make that attachment regardless of disability.

C7 Quadreplegic mother on youtube does tons of videos on being a parent.

She discusses the difficulties of it as well.

Something I noticed while watching her dress the newborn is that she stops to comfort her every time she gets even slightly upset. Getting the baby's head through the collar of her onesie was particularly unpleasant and the instant she gets that one part done, she stops to comfort her. I could never see Alex doing something like that (if she were capable). That speaks volumes about her as a disabled mother. On the one hand, you have Meg, who knows her disability makes some things more difficult for her baby and goes out of her way to comfort her daughter at every little upset. On the other, you have Alex, who only cares about having her baby in cute outfits for photo ops and would never have the patience or empathy Meg has.

 

[often puzzled]

Alex has posted very little. We haven't had a ton of photos of Ari at the new place, and we haven't seen Cairo at all. Both Ari and Cairo liked it at the Smith house, and they'd both be better of there (though she does love and care about Cairo). She discovered some of those AI art accounts on Instagram and reposted stuff from them, posted a few random shots outside the apartment, but she's overall posted very little. This update covers the time since my last update, but, as you'll see, it's really very little.

Spoiler: random

"the finish product"











This was from today. That shirt is filthy.

She posted these two videos today:

Reddit noticed that Ari's knee was either dirty or bruised, so Alex then posted this:

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

Those selfies. Goddamn, someone really needs to introduce Alex to retinol and sunscreen, stat.

As for Ari - dirt or bruise, who knows?
Although one would imagine that if it was dirt, that surely both knees and both hands would be equally dirty from crawling?

 

[blue gopher snakes]

Those selfies. Goddamn, someone really needs to introduce Alex to retinol and sunscreen, stat.

As for Ari - dirt or bruise, who knows?
Although one would imagine that if it was dirt, that surely both knees and both hands would be equally dirty from crawling?

Eh babies get dirty and bruised up even when they’re healthy and not abused. This is a pearl clutching moment.

If Ari doesn’t stay with the grandparents, I would look for injuries related to one specific abusive event if Noah gets mad at her during a sleep regression and I would look for more consistent evidence of neglect if Alex is left in charge of her during the day. Ari could also be at risk for injuring herself if she manages to climb on or into something dangerous before Noah can intervene/if Alex is “parenting.”

Poor Ari has been thriving ever since she moved to Florida and has been cared for by the grandparents. Watching her regress into neglect and despair will be as much fun as fucking Alex probably was. That is to say, not at all.

 

[glass_houses]

Yeah, pearl clutching over a bruise on Ari's knee is pretty ridiculous. Bubs at that age are always bruised. They have very little physical coordination and can't judge distances very well, so they are constantly running face first into hard objects, or falling over when they try stand on those teetering baby legs. I'd worry if she wasn't bruised tbh, it'd suggest that she's not meeting her milestones. If Ari was covered in bruises and in pain that would be alarming, but a single bruise on her knee is nothing to be concerned over.

This is yet another reason why Alex should be keeping Ari off of social media, or at least being extremely careful with what gets posted. There is way too much scrutiny and perfectly normal things generate massive over reactions.

 

[Sparkling Yuzu]

This is yet another reason why Alex should be keeping Ari off of social media, or at least being extremely careful with what gets posted. There is way too much scrutiny and perfectly normal things generate massive over reactions.

I'm not naming any sites but...

Spoiler

reddit.

 

[My cravat doesn't flutter]

Yeah, pearl clutching over a bruise on Ari's knee is pretty ridiculous. Bubs at that age are always bruised. They have very little physical coordination and can't judge distances very well, so they are constantly running face first into hard objects, or falling over when they try stand on those teetering baby legs. I'd worry if she wasn't bruised tbh, it'd suggest that she's not meeting her milestones. If Ari was covered in bruises and in pain that would be alarming, but a single bruise on her knee is nothing to be concerned over.

This is yet another reason why Alex should be keeping Ari off of social media, or at least being extremely careful with what gets posted. There is way too much scrutiny and perfectly normal things generate massive over reactions.

I'd understand the upset if it was bigger and darker - like encompassing her entire knee - but these guys are grasping at straws. That shirt's so big on her, it could easily cause her to trip and bump her knee. She's a baby. Coordination is not her strong suit.

 

[TismFarmer]

I like that in the second clip, Ari was clearly dismissing Alex after her initial (kind of) laugh. Then she scanned across to the other side and says "Daddy!" then keeps her eyes firmly on him and says " Daddy" again. She had completely tuned out Alex screeching in her ear, I guess she's so used to it that it's become background noise...
The part at the end where she seems like she's imitating Alex's screeching and then mutters to herself with an adorable frown is definitely my favourite.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

I had a look at the subreddit to see what they are saying, and it's wild.
They're analysing every photo from the last few days, claiming there's bruises between her eyes, finger marks on her upper arm, another bruise on her calf, scratches on her hands...I'm sure there is also a bit of contrast upping going on for maximum drama.

She's a baby learning to walk. I'd be more shocked if she didn't have bruises. It's surprising that these are people claiming to be mothers yet are saying "my baby didn't have anything like this".
I'm sure the redditfags will set off a fresh flurry of CPS calls as a result of this. Sigh.

 

[GenociderSyo]

CPS only cares with bruising of the knee in children who are too young to be ambulatory. All they will do is make enough complaints that it becomes a cry wolf situation if something really happens.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

And so it begins.
This from her most recent Instagram post.
These people are absolute cancer.