Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[LonesomeDud]

Just the simple logistics of it... What is Noah going to do when the caregiver calls out and all three have a stomach bug?

What would Alex do if Noah leaves for a pack of smokes and never comes back? She and her baby could starve to death in their own beds and everyone would cry over what a poor little victim she was and had no control.

 

[TheCakeIsALie]

You’re not being serious, are you? Alex is not equipped to be a mother in any way. She would not be allowed to adopt or foster. Hiring a surrogate would be insanity (and I’m sure even the most unethical agency would baulk at the idea of a woman in Alex’s condition trying to buy a kid).

Also - and I may be in the minority - I am sick to death of the normalisation of surrogacy, aka renting a women’s body for nine months, like it’s a totally acceptable thing to do. It isn’t.

what another person chooses to do isn’t our business, regardless of how you feel about surrogacy. I do believe it’s predatory however there are uses for it. I do believe it should be properly regulated, though.

No, Alex shouldn’t be a parent. My comment was a what if she was an actual responsible adult type of scenario. Think the little couple or other situations where couples wanted to be parents but knew the dangers of being pregnant, or chose to adopt for another reason. In Jen Arnold’s case, she had choriocarcinoma which was documented and shown in the show as she was adopting a child, I think it was her daughter. As she stated “how ironic that the one time I get pregnant, I get cancer “.

 

[Allo Vera]

what another person chooses to do isn’t our business, regardless of how you feel about surrogacy.

No. Nope. Choice feminism does not apply here. Any woman willing to get pregnant for money has to be desperate. There’s no real “choice” here. I make that my business as a woman who’s had kids and understands the physical toll.

Also, no one gives much thought to these babies who are commissioned and sold. We don’t take puppies and kittens away from their mothers at birth, but we think nothing of doing it to human babies.

Anyway, I’ll stop derailing.

 

[TheCakeIsALie]

No. Nope. Choice feminism does not apply here. Any woman willing to get pregnant for money has to be desperate. There’s no real “choice” here. I make that my business as a woman who’s had kids and understands the physical toll.

Also, no one gives much thought to these babies who are commissioned and sold. We don’t take puppies and kittens away from their mothers at birth, but we think nothing of doing it to human babies.

Anyway, I’ll stop derailing.

I already said I dont exactly agree with it but I dont agree on a lot of other stuff like just letting school shootings going and why congress allows lobbying at all. But it doesn’t mean I should say no one has the right to use surrogacy, guns etc etc.

Kids living in orphanages are also preyed on and those kids sure as hell don’t get good care from an orphanage, but there’s no outrage about that is there? Look at all he overseas adoptions where the parents were lied to about the condition of the child, particularly Reese’s Rainbow. Or the fact that kill shelters exist and one million other problems.

Bad stuff is going to happen in this world regardless of what we think on a personal level. No one in this thread thinks Alex having a kid is a good idea, no one thought Gwen should have had a second kid after being told the chances of it happened again were high.

Should be just sterilize all disabled people? No of course not. And Alex will not be a good mom, she is a terrible person and she’s going to face the consequences of her actions and I’ll be here to watch the fallout.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

No. Nope. Choice feminism does not apply here. Any woman willing to get pregnant for money has to be desperate. There’s no real “choice” here. I make that my business as a woman who’s had kids and understands the physical toll.

Also, no one gives much thought to these babies who are commissioned and sold. We don’t take puppies and kittens away from their mothers at birth, but we think nothing of doing it to human babies.

Anyway, I’ll stop derailing.

From one mother to another, your perspective (on either the inevitability of desperation, or the physical toll of pregnancy) isn't universal.

As for puppies and kittens, it's not analogous. And we do indeed breed animals and separate babies from mothers after a couple of months (during which time the development is not at all similar to human development in terms of what is taught/accomplished in those couple months). Human babies can be (and are, very commonly) fed without nursing; that's easily done and on a relative scale much simpler than dropper-feeding a newborn kitten.

Impact on a surrogate baby is no different than any old baby given up for adoption at birth.

Kids living in orphanages are also preyed on and those kids sure as hell don’t get good care from an orphanage, but there’s no outrage about that is there?

We don't have orphanages in the United States anymore for exactly this reason.

 

[Trombonista]

Can we not argue about surrogacy in this thread? I'd rather ask why Alex feels the need to be sexy. Why is that the most important thing to her?

 

[Jane Eyre]

Alex is 28 weeks pregnant now.



She also reposted these pics and it turns out that @emmabingwte is the daughter of Heidi Murkoff, the author of What to Expect.



Make of this what you will.

 

[LonesomeDud]

I'd rather ask why Alex feels the need to be sexy. Why is that the most important thing to her?

Disabled people get infantalized and desexualized a lot. In years past, desexualizing the severely disabled was necessary to some degree. If Alex stayed at home with her parents like disabled people used to and there wasn't 24/7 care, inevitably, her dad would likely at some point have to give her a shower. Seeing your disabled adult daughter naked and vulnerable is pretty much your average man's worst nightmare, second only to knowing some active drug addict is having sex with her between caregiving.

 

[A tree]

Alex gives an emotional delivery update. She won't be able to see or touch the baby because she will be in ICU in a different building to NICU. Then she pivots to talking about her disabled body doing the "magic" which seems optimistic to say the least and releasing photos or film of the delivery.

And right on cue she spoke too soon. Alex is on a vent and looking at admission. Here we go folks it's getting ugly.



Girl cant even talk about her lungs without fetish pandering.

 

[LonesomeDud]

Hang in there, Alex. Let's see if we can make it to 34 weeks.

I simultaneously don't like and am rooting for her.

 

[A tree]

Her feet and hands look so white in that picture I hope her heart can take the strain.
I see an admission in the very near future.

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And from Alex' stories. Healthy is a dirty word apparently but she claims not to be in any pain. Maybe not yet but normal pregnancy gets pretty damn uncomfortable past this point. I just honestly feel sorry for her now. I can't even find hate in my heart no matter what a dumbass she is and what she's done this is getting very real and she's mentally unprepared.

 

[LonesomeDud]

I hope she is admitted to the hospital. Since Noah relapsed, he can't be trusted to care for her. Not much he can do with a needle in his arm nodded out.

Take a lesson from the munchies. Demand a hospital bed. PLEASE.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

Her feet and hands look so white in that picture I hope her heart can take the strain.
I see an admission in the near future.

That was the first thing I noticed too, how tan the rest of her was and how stark white her feet and hands were. That's not a good sign.
She really needs to be inpatient, now.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

Her feet and hands look so white in that picture I hope her heart can take the strain.
I see an admission in the very near future.

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And from Alex' stories. Healthy is a dirty word apparently but she claims not to be in any pain. Maybe not yet but normal pregnancy gets pretty damn uncomfortable past this point. I just honestly feel sorry for her now. I can't even find hate in my heart no matter what a dumbass she is and what she's done this is getting very real and she's mentally unprepared.
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I'm having the opposite experience with her. I think she is a massive fucking idiot for getting knocked up, and seeing her like this is making me both loathe and feel repulsed by her.

The irresponsibility, triviality, and off-the-charts selfishness*, the fucked life she's given this baby of hers, all in the context of a trashy, thirsty, self-promoting life she tries to portray as containing no meaningful compromises is sending me. She's a prime example of the notion that just because you can doesn't always mean you should. And sometimes it means you never should.

* nevermind the fraud

 

[Jane Eyre]

On a more positive note, Noah assembled the baby's bassinet and Alex is so happy that her nipples almost started leaking.

 

[Chizubaga]

Just the simple logistics of it... What is Noah going to do when the caregiver calls out and all three have a stomach bug?

What would Alex do if Noah leaves for a pack of smokes and never comes back? She and her baby could starve to death in their own beds and everyone would cry over what a poor little victim she was and had no control.

Dammit man, this is bleak. What's sad about this is it's very realistic and probable. I really hope she decides to go with a company that can supply a caregiver, she can't just rely on one honestly.

 

[UncleBlazer]

On a more positive note, Noah assembled the baby's bassinet and Alex is so happy that her nipples almost started leaking.

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I don't see how that's accessible? I'm pretty sure unless someone else picks up the baby and places it in her arms, she's not gonna be picking up or holding that baby.

 

[Barbarella]

I hoped for a miscarriage early on, but whatever you may believe, this is a human baby now. I don’t want this child to die. Or Alex, she is twisted but not evil. (At least, not yet.)

I also don’t want baby to grow up with a druggie dad and a narc disabled mom who will have no choice but to let baby cry in bed, hungry and in a wet diaper for hours, while Dad is out scoring with his buddies.

Thinking about it, best case scenario is Alex realizing early on that she can’t do it, and allowing her mom and dad to take it on. They don’t seem too old; many grandparents start again. That way Alex can visit and play mommy but has no real responsibility.

Next best case is a custody fight where parents win custody, equal with 3rd best where the baby is taken (or adopted) and somehow gets adopted and isn’t in the system. All, no doubt, wet dreams on my part. And of course, actually is healthy.

I want to say if you hate Alex you are doing the farms wrong but honestly, there is little to laugh about here. I don’t hate her, but I hope she is a cow who can learn and doesn’t do this again. As a mom, I understand the baby desire but as a practical human, I’d know when to focus on other things. She’s been taught disabled can do anything without any tempering as to the truth. She can be a laywer, not a mom.

It’s a sad situation, mostly for the baby.

 

[Flourishing Pinecone ❧]

Her flared nostrils now make sense that she's revealed she usually has CPAP at night, it's like how babies in NICU get those horrid squished piggy noses after being on nasal CPAP.

Anyway I really hope baby comes out of this alive and well. It will be a testament to the large multidisciplinary team caring for Alex.

Spoiler: edit: examples of piggy noses

from an article published in 1996, the technology and monitoring has obviously improved, and their noses do get better as they grow, but these are some obvious examples

 

[A tree]

I don't see how that's accessible? I'm pretty sure unless someone else picks up the baby and places it in her arms, she's not gonna be picking up or holding that baby.

That looks to me like a co sleeper cot. It slots along the side of the bed.