Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[often puzzled]

The trash fire continues to burn brightly, to no one's surprise.

Last night, after all this went down, Noah made a few posts about the situation in his Instagram stories. All have since been removed.

Spoiler: Noah speaks

Alex weighed in on the situation a few hours ago. She admits that she's in a bad place and is drinking too much. She does not admit to having an actual problem with alcohol. She doesn't know where she's going to be going when she leaves her current apartment. She claims to miss Ari (ha).



The messy little clout chasing goblin who kicked all this off posted a bunch of stuff in his Instagram stories. Of note, he is clearly reading Reddit.

Spoiler: gross dude who made the call speaks

Messy little clout goblin went live somewhere (TikTok? Instagram? I'm lost) earlier. Noah joined in, and so did his new girlfriend. I will put relevant screenshots from Reddit under a spoiler, but here's what I'm gathering their claims are:

• This guy was in rehab (of course) with Noah and his new girlfriend. Alex wanted to get in touch with someone, anyone from the rehab in order to make OF content. Her hope was that this OF content would make Noah jealous.
• Alex keeps calling (they say drunk calling) Noah's mom. Noah's mom puts up with it because she loves Ari and wants her back.
• Alex is also "stalking" (online) and calling the new girlfriend's mom.
• Ari is with Alex's parents.
• Noah's parents want Ari back and are apparently willing to use the courts.
• Alex uses Ari as a pawn against Noah and Noah's parents. She tells Noah he will never see Ari.
• Noah is still unemployed (shocking!-- or not) and claims to be sober.
• Cairo is still with the Smiths.

Spoiler: summary of live screenshots (from Reddit)

In summary, everyone involved in this is complete and utter trash. Alex lives for this kind of drama, and the facially tattooed wannabe Soundcloud rapper also seems to.

 

[Oracular Slug]

I absolutely despise drunks claiming they'd never say the things they said. You may not like everyone knowing you think narcan is for pussies, but you did fucking say it.

In summary, almost everyone involved in this is complete and utter trash.

The Smiths still seem like decent people.

 

[Kittehclaws]

I wonder if the Smiths are waiting to see if Alex settles in a more grandparent‘s rights friendly state before filing anything. Florida isn’t exactly the best venue for grandparents as intervenors.

 

[LonesomeDud]

Who cares if Alex thinks Narcan is for pussies? Alex can't snort or shoot up opiates without another person doing it to her. Let her have her unpleasant and untrue opinion, because if you throw down a bunch of nails and run, she's not catching up to you.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

It's all sad, Kiwi friends. I don't like Alex, but I also don't like watching depressive alcoholics-in-denial cry. I've had enough of that in my life.

Her saying she hates doing OnlyFans is interesting. I don't know if I fully believe it (she probably hates parts of it, like the creepy cripple fetishists she has to talk to), but it's seems a self-sabotaging thing to say.

But then I guess anyone paying for her nudes isn't likely to be concerned about whether the woman doing the cripple porn is financially trapped into doing it.

 

[My cravat doesn't flutter]

Who cares if Alex thinks Narcan is for pussies? Alex can't snort or shoot up opiates without another person doing it to her. Let her have her unpleasant and untrue opinion, because if you throw down a bunch of nails and run, she's not catching up to you.

I still think that wheelchair will be the death of her. She's essentially drunk driving whenever she's in that thing. Those controls have to be fairly touch sensitive for he to use them with her almost nonexistent dexterity. If she's out for a night on the town and accidentally turns right instead of left or vice versa, she could easily tip over a curb and be completely fucked. Able-bodied people are perfectly capable of horribly injuring themselves while drunk. Alex has no way to catch herself if she falls and she can't push the wheelchair off of her if she gets trapped under it.

 

[LonesomeDud]

I still think that wheelchair will be the death of her. She's essentially drunk driving whenever she's in that thing. Those controls have to be fairly touch sensitive for he to use them with her almost nonexistent dexterity. If she's out for a night on the town and accidentally turns right instead of left or vice versa, she could easily tip over a curb and be completely fucked. Able-bodied people are perfectly capable of horribly injuring themselves while drunk. Alex has no way to catch herself if she falls and she can't push the wheelchair off of her if she gets trapped under it.

I would guess she'll get ARDS and never get off the vent. People fling themselves out sometimes, not much worse for the wear. I don't think Alex is bulletproof, but let her have the drunk driving. She entered the stage of alcoholism where she isn't going out, anyway. She's just chilling with her PCA or whatever.

 

[often puzzled]

Alex claims-- not for the first, second, or even third time-- that she's totally going to get sober for real. She also claims that she wants to be with Ari and blah blah blah, which is most certainly untrue. She's been loving being a "childless" party girl in Florida.



It's hard to see this as anything other than getting caught and knowing you need to say all the right things.

I just hope that the Smiths-- who seem to be good and decent people who love their granddaughter-- get custody of Ari. Everyone else can just live out their trashy little dramas far, far away from that sweet child.

 

[Terfatron]

It's hard to see this as anything other than getting caught and knowing you need to say all the right things.

Because fuck proving things.
She's getting kicked out of her apartment, this is the perfect time for a month of in patient rehab.
she could go to some swanky resort, drink fruit juice and really think about what she's done to her daughter.
After it's done she could probably swallow (lol) her pride for a couple of months, move to her mom's house or a apartment close by, be a daily part of aris life but not alone custody.
Slowly rolling towards bettering herself and be a mother, not just a fucktard with a child.

Like, I get it. Being a mom is tough and its gotta be even tougher not even being able to physically be there for your child. Imagine them waking up from a nightmare and you can't even pick them up to hold them.
fucking brutal.

BUT! She KNEW this! All of it, 100 times over. She went through this taxing pregnancy just to what? Give her healthy and beautiful daughter away to her mother?
They both made it out alive, she should be trying so much harder.
I know you don't control alcoholism in that sense but you can, as a grown woman with a child, take the steps necessary to keep it at bay.

Spoiler: PL and some obviouses

I have a kid almost the exact same age as Ari so seeing all this is just so sad.
To be a parent is to own up to your own shortcomings and take those necessary decisions that will make your life better in the long run.
There's no "perfect mother" but that doesent mean you have to be this level of bad.
I do have sympathy for her but disability or not, it's comes down to carachter and what youre willing to sacrifice.
Sadly, Alex want it all and think she can juggle party girl/OF tragedy/mother and wholesome influencer all at once and that she can play all roles to perfection.
ofc she's been coddled her entire life and this is probably the first time she ever had to make sacrifices for someone else, and that's though but that's what's it's like for many people.

I couldn't imagine missing this time of my kids life. Everything they learn, milestones getting hit and seeing them grow every day.
But again, she rather keep up appearance than to do something of actual value. If she does all these changes, properly, now she has all the time in the world coming back and be the best mother she can be (within her limitations) but the longer she wants the deeper the crack grows and one day there will be no turning this around.
She SHOULD be scared, fucking terrified and i would say this is one of those situations that will define who she's gonna be for the rest of her, and Aris, life.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

this is the perfect time for a month of in patient rehab.
she could go to some swanky resort, drink fruit juice and really think about what she's done to her daughter.

Yeah but who is paying for that? She absolutely needs rehab - not just to get off the alcohol merry-go-round but also for the appalling deconditioned state she's allowed herself to get into. But I don't think she has insurance right now, at least in Florida. There was some discussion about this a ways back because she said she is paying Selina out of pocket which struck us as strange since she should theoretically receive some caregiver support through whatever social safety net she's utilizing for health insurance (and I think she confirmed she has no benefits in FL? I can't recall for sure).

I dunno if she's just fully been away from doctor care and her meds or if maybe she has some doc back in Chicago sending her the "twerk juice."

Her whole partygirl schtick always seemed to me like a poor coping mechanism for a foreshortened lifespan - live fast, die young, that whole thing. And then I suspect the latest round of partying has a lot to do with trying to push away the reality of her life: alone with a baby she can't take care of and a baby daddy who is possibly the most repulsive human on Earth. That pull towards the drink is incredibly strong, I'm sure.

I don't know what my point even is, it all just makes me sad. I probably should take an Alex break.

 

[LonesomeDud]

She's already two. Before Alex and Noah know it, it will be over. And they're just wasting time hurr durr durring on SM.

 

[blue gopher snakes]

Alex is so full of shit.

“Boohoo I am struggleen but none of my friends or family knew because I am brave and stoic, not because this is bullshit meant to calm the internet rabble before a mob forms.”

She loves partying, she loves OF (which she did even when the regular cash was rolling in), and she’s been living it up without Ari.

 

[often puzzled]

Alex updates with a grid post:

Spoiler: post text

Day 3 sober

I am very proud of myself. Today has been very difficult, but I am hanging tough. I feel more motivated than ever and I feel extremely empowered. I want to be better for my daughter and for myself and the people around me.

I haven’t been sleeping very well and I know that is a part of not drinking alcohol anymore. I woke up at three in the morning to a phone call that I did not recognize followed by text messages that were quite disturbing and threatening. You can guess who it was.

Normally, I would wake up this morning and start drinking about it and probably handle the situation the wrong way. Instead, I am taking the appropriate actions to handle the situation in a mature and responsible way.

Right now, I just feel very blessed to be able to be sitting outside in the sunshine, watching the boats go by drinking a lemonade instead of an alcoholic beverage.

Thank you so much for all your continued support. The outpouring of love in my comments, email, and messages has been a huge source of my motivation and drive to keep going and doing better & stay on the path.

I’m outside and I see people having a glass of wine at lunch or a beer and I cannot lie — it definitely was a bit triggering, but I let myself feel the emotion and let it wash over me and now I am refocused.

Keep on going [heart emoji]

I like the see how you almost made me drink? sideswipe. Very mature, very insightful.

She also posted this in stories:



She apparently really can't use TikTok for whatever reason and has removed it from her LinkTree:

 

[LonesomeDud]

Well, atta girl. The road to sobriety starts somewhere.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

Alex updates with a grid post:

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Spoiler: post text

Day 3 sober

I am very proud of myself. Today has been very difficult, but I am hanging tough. I feel more motivated than ever and I feel extremely empowered. I want to be better for my daughter and for myself and the people around me.

I haven’t been sleeping very well and I know that is a part of not drinking alcohol anymore. I woke up at three in the morning to a phone call that I did not recognize followed by text messages that were quite disturbing and threatening. You can guess who it was.

Normally, I would wake up this morning and start drinking about it and probably handle the situation the wrong way. Instead, I am taking the appropriate actions to handle the situation in a mature and responsible way.

Right now, I just feel very blessed to be able to be sitting outside in the sunshine, watching the boats go by drinking a lemonade instead of an alcoholic beverage.

Thank you so much for all your continued support. The outpouring of love in my comments, email, and messages has been a huge source of my motivation and drive to keep going and doing better & stay on the path.

I’m outside and I see people having a glass of wine at lunch or a beer and I cannot lie — it definitely was a bit triggering, but I let myself feel the emotion and let it wash over me and now I am refocused.

Keep on going [heart emoji]

I like the see how you almost made me drink? sideswipe. Very mature, very insightful.

She also posted this in stories:

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She apparently really can't use TikTok for whatever reason and has removed it from her LinkTree:

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Why is her face two different sizes? Not to be mean (really!). The right side (as viewed, meaning her left) is twice the width of the left, starting above her cheekbone - it curves out, looks really swollen, whereas the other side is basically a straight line. I even scrolled up to the prior photo of her itt to see if I’d just not noticed or if she doesn’t usually post head-on photos, but nope to both. Also looks swollen Is this a filter thing? Did I forget she had wisdom teeth out yesterday? Are my eyes broken?

 

[often puzzled]

Why is her face two different sizes? Not to be mean (really!). The right side (as viewed, meaning her left) is twice the width of the left, starting above her cheekbone - it curves out, looks really swollen, whereas the other side is basically a straight line. I even scrolled up to the prior photo of her itt to see if I’d just not noticed or if she doesn’t usually post head-on photos, but nope to both. Also looks swollen Is this a filter thing? Did I forget she had wisdom teeth out yesterday? Are my eyes broken?

She often looks swollen and puffy. I hadn't noticed the asymmetry until you pointed it out. Here's a selfie from today for anyone who wants to continue the exercise in facial comparison:



She does filter into oblivion, and her nose flare is at least partially due to the breathing apparatus she wears at night. She's got a dead tooth in the front but can't ever have dental work that requires sedation because of her issues.

 

[fitty tucker]

If that photo was taken a little after she woke up, it may be due to passive gravity-dependent fluid collection. She's often puffy, and that kind of edema tends to settle with gravity. Especially during the nonmovement of sleep.

 

[Terfatron]

Yeah but who is paying for that?

This is the one time she should swipe that card and not look back.
If she were to invest $10+k in a ok rehab for a month and actually change she would make that money back in revenue.
People LOVE a good comeback story, especially when there is a kid involved or someone you won't think be able to change, she checks both.
I guess there's also down-payment options or something like that.

She could come back and talk about addiction while disabled, how she dealt with it and how she deal with it rolling forward.
Ex addicts on social media can make BANK so she has a real opportunity here if she's just prepared to put in the work and actually invest in her self. It would open doors for talks and pods because she has a very specific and unique angle on it.

That's also the reason I'm not holding my breath.
She's posting fluff pieces about drinking lemonade and watching boats and nothing about future plans or actions she will take.
She still think she can wrangle herself out of this which just tells me she's not ready to stop drinking at all. Right now she's just embarrassed she got caught so give it a few weeks and she be back on it.
I dont wish that for her or Ari at all but I see nothing making me believe otherwise right now.
Hope she get some proper help, that her mom step in or whatever.

At least Ari is not seeing any of this.

 

[often puzzled]

Hope she get some proper help, that her mom step in or whatever.

Her mom also apparently has a drinking problem, unfortunately.

Alex claims to be smiling:



She's got yet another UTI:



Wearing one of those TikTok-trending mask things:



Grid post, featuring really good decisions (or not):

Caption and some comments:

 

[CatSuga-Ogrish]

Meanwhile, a normal disabled woman is living life to the fullest.......