Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

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I'd agree with you if she hadn't chosen to have a kid.
And now that kid is living with her again? Who's bright idea was it to bring her there, in the middle of a move and Alex is complaining about not having someone there for her night routine.

I truly think she's using this shit to improve her social media interaction and make money, tow tier rage bait.
 
More moving updates from Alex, plus a new grid post featuring mama's little content machine. She says she knows people want to know where she's moving, and she'll give us two guesses, and the first doesn't count. One of her new caregivers is doing her packing for her. She calls the other two new caregivers "flaky." She goes on to complain about how hard the moving process is for her because "it's my stuff" and because people ask her questions.





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At this point, I didn’t give a f**k what the Internet has to say.

until someone has been dealt your cards, they cannot have an opinion on how you choose to play them.

my story of motherhood has definitely been a very unique one and not in the way that I would have chose. The tough choices, the heartache, the depression, the emotions, all of it has been all consuming.

every minute away from my daughter has been a minute in hell. I am so extremely thankful for the people around me that have helped me as much as they have and have protected my daughter and have cared for her in ways that I physically cannot.

but, enough with the sappy shit. Send Ari being back here. She is so much more interactive with me, and we are able to be physically connected more than ever! I will tell her, Ari, do you want to go for a ride? And she will come running up to me and say up up!!!

I had a deep fear that she would have forgotten about me, but nope! She knows exactly who her mother is, and I am beyond thrilled to be back with her making memories, face-to-face 🤍 and for all the single parents out there… It is fking hard, but we got this



Here's a still from Reddit. While panning around in one of the moving videos, you can see Alex's pee-stained mattress and Ari's crib with a tent pitched over it:

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Feel free to rate me dumb, but I actually don't have a huge problem with this. She's an adult with capacity to make decisions, even if those decisions are terrible. If you're there to facilitate her daily life, that is her daily life.
I understand that POV, but I wouldn’t want to facilitate decisions that directly lead to harm.
I’m actually curious about whether caregivers have standards surrounding drugs and alcohol now. We know from My 600 Pound Life that they can’t restrict food, but that’s a different kettle of fish.
 
I understand that POV, but I wouldn’t want to facilitate decisions that directly lead to harm.
I’m actually curious about whether caregivers have standards surrounding drugs and alcohol now. We know from My 600 Pound Life that they can’t restrict food, but that’s a different kettle of fish.
it becomes a difficult line to balance on. if Alex said "I want to lie in the middle of the road", well you would obviously decline that because that will lead to harm, even if it's her decision.

but if she says "I don't want to shower or be toileted, I want to sit on this towel and have it changed once a day" is that ok? it's certainly not recommended and will lead to harm through skin breakdown, but a sound minded adult can make a bad decision like that if they want to.
 
Here's a still from Reddit. While panning around in one of the moving videos, you can see Alex's pee-stained mattress and Ari's crib with a tent pitched over it:

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I might be wrong- but isn't Ari 2, or very damn near close to being 2? She should be transitioning into a toddler bed at this point, shouldn't she? Presumably the tent is there because it doubles as a safety feature to stop Ari from climbing out and falling.
Then again I'm not surprised- a toddler being able to freely interact with their environment would be a nightmare for Alex. Can't have the content generator out and about, best keep her contained and restrained until someone comes to release her!
 
I might be wrong- but isn't Ari 2, or very damn near close to being 2? She should be transitioning into a toddler bed at this point, shouldn't she? Presumably the tent is there because it doubles as a safety feature to stop Ari from climbing out and falling.
Then again I'm not surprised- a toddler being able to freely interact with their environment would be a nightmare for Alex. Can't have the content generator out and about, best keep her contained and restrained until someone comes to release her!

Ari turned 2 on March 6. I'm guessing that the tent is to keep Ari contained if she's alone with Alex.

I just scrolled back on Alex's Instagram to confirm Ari's birthday, so here's an additional observation: Noah has long since removed all photos of Alex from his Instagram, but Alex still has Noah's photos on her own Instagram.

Also, Alex's TikTok is back.
 
Surely that canopy thing won't restrain a rambunctious 2 year old for long. I think it would be more of a hazard than anything. I wonder if Ari is bothered by the piss stench of the mattress.
That stained mattress, oh my. Waterproof mattress protectors exist and are cheap, it's insane that she didn't use one. That mattress is wrecked now. Is she nose blind?

Finally, Ari handing Alex the popcorn... getting her trained early I see. Sigh.
 
it becomes a difficult line to balance on. if Alex said "I want to lie in the middle of the road", well you would obviously decline that because that will lead to harm, even if it's her decision.

but if she says "I don't want to shower or be toileted, I want to sit on this towel and have it changed once a day" is that ok? it's certainly not recommended and will lead to harm through skin breakdown, but a sound minded adult can make a bad decision like that if they want to.
No one can make her do anything, just like any other adult. What you assist her with is going to come down to what your agency will back you on though. Most likely you'd just get re-assigned unless you'd really fucked up, so you could actually insist that you're putting on gloves, refuse to help her film porn, and (probably) not get fired. Normally carers aren't actually there to help you just do whatever, not unlike service animals they perform set tasks -- fucking Andie the munchie doesn't actually need help in the bathroom, and thus her care home doesn't have to provide her with an on-call female attendant, Alex does, so they would, but where you might do a quick pube trim, she's just gotta wait until her next waxing session. (Unless you want to help with that? Bit weird though)

Plus, insisting on lying in the road could easily get you or I a 3 day vacay to the grippy sock hotel, and we can get up. So no, you can't help your client commit suicide...slow suicide though? That's complicated enough when it's simply a competent adult refusing medical care, something like "I want fournier's (crotch) gangrene" is a whole new ballgame (needless to say, don't google that one)
 
An actual carer is for a person's activities of daily living. So, get up, get showered, get dressed, toileting, eating, going to bed. All that fun stuff we take for granted. Sippy cups of booze and moving boxes are not part of that.

There's a fine line to walk, but generally speaking a client's autonomy needs to be respected. You can insist, but you can't force anyone to do anything. You can't force someone to shower, even if it's been 2 weeks - you can't force them into a state of undress. You can't force someone to eat, drink, or take their medication either.

Alex can refuse to wear a diaper, wear pants, wear AFOs. That's her choice. It might be the wrong choice, but it's hers. You cover your ass by noting the refusal, though.
 
Too add to that if a person is non-compliant enough they can be dropped as a client. Things change with a kid there though there job is NOT to take care of Ari it is to make sure Alex can do her ADLs. That may be one reason she does not want a real one because she may be a safety risk to Ari if left alone with her.
 
I believe that was Noah's dad in the pic with Ari.
In the video when Alex says "Ari is back here" I think she means 'here in this state' not 'here in my apartment'
She is back with the Smiths for however long (Please, Please let it be forever) and it sounds like she has visits with Alex which is why she says her caregiver has to care for her and sometimes my daughter.

As for not hiring professional carers, iirc part of the issue is that she can hire carers in Illinois but not in Florida because she is registered as living in Illinois. She is defrauding the Govt or her State insurance and I'm not sure if it's because she gets something out of it (like higher renumeration) or if it's just that moving it to Florida takes a lot of time, effort, and paperwork.
 
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I believe that was Noah's dad in the pic with Ari.
In the video when Alex says "Ari is back here" I think she means 'here in this state' not 'here in my apartment'
She is back with the Smiths for however long (Please, Please let it be forever) and it sounds like she has visits with Alex which is why she says her caregiver has to care for her and sometimes my daughter.

As for not hiring professional carers, iirc part of the issue is that she can hire carers in Illinois but not in Florida because she is registered as living in Illinois. She is defrauding the Govt or her State insurance and I'm not sure if it's because she gets something out of it (like higher renumeration) or if it's just that moving it to Florida takes a lot of time, effort, and paperwork.
Oh I truly hope Ari is back with the Smiths at this point. They seem to be the only people in this entire saga without their heads firmly shoved up their own assholes, and the only ones genuinely capable of keeping Ari safe and making decisions based on her best interest and not clouded by drugs, alcohol or a desperate need for internet validation. That recent video Alex posted where Ari feeds her popcorn was hard to watch. That poor child is already smarter and more lively than both of her parents combined, and she deserves a chance to thrive away from their bullshit.
 
Alex confirms that she's leaving Fort Lauderdale.

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She hasn't yet revealed where she's going.

Another update. Alex appears to be back in the Smiths' neighborhood and is with both Cairo and Ari :

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Details: the numbering seen above the garage is congruent with the house numbers in the Smiths' neighborhood (their address is 16403 Ruby Lake, Weston, FL 33331). They're in a subdivision where the houses have five-digit numbers (as seen here). The neighborhood is very sameish, and all of the houses have brick driveways with white concrete sidewalks cutting across them. The plantings are also very Florida. The van in the driveway has a Florida license plate.
 
Alex could solve her caregiver problem by hiring two professionals who will bathe, toilet her, help her dress, dole out meds or whatever-for the most important hours, which I would assume would be morning and evening. And she could hire her fun nanny/housekeeper/companion to give her booze and take photos of her snatch along with babysitting and cleaning to fill in the gaps. She does hire three.

She seems to care more about the companion part than the QOL part. I don’t know how many times you’d have to be left helpless in a wheelchair to figure that out but it sounds horrible to me, and I think most people as disabled as she is would rather have a professional so she isn’t trapped again.

Unfortunately, while she almost certainly has access to trained professionals with a disability like hers, she’d rather do the type of family caregiver that takes a test and gets $20.00 an hour.
 
Alex could solve her caregiver problem by hiring two professionals who will bathe, toilet her, help her dress, dole out meds or whatever-for the most important hours, which I would assume would be morning and evening. And she could hire her fun nanny/housekeeper/companion to give her booze and take photos of her snatch along with babysitting and cleaning to fill in the gaps. She does hire three.

She seems to care more about the companion part than the QOL part. I don’t know how many times you’d have to be left helpless in a wheelchair to figure that out but it sounds horrible to me, and I think most people as disabled as she is would rather have a professional so she isn’t trapped again.

Unfortunately, while she almost certainly has access to trained professionals with a disability like hers, she’d rather do the type of family caregiver that takes a test and gets $20.00 an hour.
Don't forget, a properly trained professional would have standards, likely be a mature-aged adult and would make Alex *feel* disabled with all their stuffy "policies and proceedures" talk. At least with young discount carers from Craigslist, she can play make believe that she's got some real friends.
 
Alex confirms that she's leaving Fort Lauderdale.

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She hasn't yet revealed where she's going.

Another update. Alex appears to be back in the Smiths' neighborhood and is with both Cairo and Ari :

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Details: the numbering seen above the garage is congruent with the house numbers in the Smiths' neighborhood (their address is 16403 Ruby Lake, Weston, FL 33331). They're in a subdivision where the houses have five-digit numbers (as seen here). The neighborhood is very sameish, and all of the houses have brick driveways with white concrete sidewalks cutting across them. The plantings are also very Florida. The van in the driveway has a Florida license plate.
Curiouser and curiouser...
Have the Smiths done some wretched deal where they've given her a home in order to have their granddaughter live with them?
 
Curiouser and curiouser...
Have the Smiths done some wretched deal where they've given her a home in order to have their granddaughter live with them?
I wouldn’t blame em, get squishy Hitler on the birth certificate and idk what Florida’s laws are but they seem to be the most stable option currently.
Poor Ari.
 
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