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Maybe India is the not-pregnant girl he left her for?
Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl
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Eventually with nothing from Noah and valentines day almost over Alex throws up some old pics. It's obvious he's not there, hasn't given her anything, hasn't posted anything to acknowledge the day or the relationship. He's still inactive on his own social media. Got to be in rehab right? I'd feel bad for her but it's hard to when she can't even get over the way she talked this relationship up and just admit it's all gone pear shaped like everybody said it would.
The criticism of their relationship and pregnancy was never "ableism" or about her body it was that exactly this would happen.
The criticism of their relationship and pregnancy was never "ableism" or about her body it was that exactly this would happen.
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New post on IG celebrating 31 weeks.
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Alex is "very uncomfortable"
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Alex asserted in the last video she used to be able to do her own makeup before the third trimester. I'm not sure that's true. She sort of shows how she used to wedge her arm between her legs, and her arm would clearly fit, but she acts like she can't and goes on a out the pregnancy. It's just weird to watch her emphasize how she's more disabled with some real excitement.
I think it's a pretty normal question for disabled mothers to ask what the odds are pregnancy and motherhood could disable them further. Sometimes women deny loss of function because they just want their pregnancy so much and they want it to be perfect and they don't want any resentment toward their child. If Alex believes there's truly nothing wrong with being disabled to the core of her being, I guess that's good. If I went from being a carefree person who could wipe myself and do my own makeup to a very pregnant disabled woman who was first at the mercy of an addict who then abandoned me, I'd be heartbroken. I guess she's just tougher than I am.
Also she shows off an obviously old and healed striae. Just
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I think it's a pretty normal question for disabled mothers to ask what the odds are pregnancy and motherhood could disable them further. Sometimes women deny loss of function because they just want their pregnancy so much and they want it to be perfect and they don't want any resentment toward their child. If Alex believes there's truly nothing wrong with being disabled to the core of her being, I guess that's good. If I went from being a carefree person who could wipe myself and do my own makeup to a very pregnant disabled woman who was first at the mercy of an addict who then abandoned me, I'd be heartbroken. I guess she's just tougher than I am.
Also she shows off an obviously old and healed striae. Just
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I'm concerned he's presumably not dead in a ditch where he cannot shake the baby.
Or maybe the bathtub?
Anyway, anyone who works in family law will tell you that the worst custody issues are the ones where NEITHER parent should have it, and that happens far more than most people could ever imagine, and it has nothing to do with SES.
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So, I read this thread and this is incredibly bleak, as we all are aware.
Personally, besides her disability and immaturity, a big thing that honestly has been bothering me about the entire thing is the age difference.
I mean, I get how and why they've got so much in common, considering both of them are as emotionally mature as a lump of dirt.
But, I hope I can say this without it being too MATI, but I'm literally some odd weeks older than Noah and as a gen Z, I can say that 99% of my peers are genuinely retarded and shouldn't be procreating this young, or at all.
Most of my peers don't know how to wipe their own asses or fight their way out of a wet paper bag on a good day.
It's horrifying to think that someone my age who's already fucked their not-fully-developed brain up with substances being the #1 caregiver to a fully disabled person and a new born.
I wouldn't trust Noah or anyone like him with a fucking GOLDFISH, let alone two vulnerable people that would be solely dependent on him.
I can see this ending so completely wrong– and the worst part is that it would've been completely avoidable if people gave a shit and saw the baby as a human and not just a social media accessory baby doll.
Maybe I'm clutching my pearls, which I completely may be, but I don't like the way that he holds her in these pictures. There's no support for her body, for anything. It doesn't even look comfortable.
I get that holding someone bigger is different than holding a new born, but there's no common sense of "I'm holding someone that can't defend themselves if they fall" support to her either. I don't think Noah would be the type to even care if what he's holding is uncomfortable.
I got a bad feeling about this, Scoob…
Personally, besides her disability and immaturity, a big thing that honestly has been bothering me about the entire thing is the age difference.
I mean, I get how and why they've got so much in common, considering both of them are as emotionally mature as a lump of dirt.
But, I hope I can say this without it being too MATI, but I'm literally some odd weeks older than Noah and as a gen Z, I can say that 99% of my peers are genuinely retarded and shouldn't be procreating this young, or at all.
Most of my peers don't know how to wipe their own asses or fight their way out of a wet paper bag on a good day.
It's horrifying to think that someone my age who's already fucked their not-fully-developed brain up with substances being the #1 caregiver to a fully disabled person and a new born.
I wouldn't trust Noah or anyone like him with a fucking GOLDFISH, let alone two vulnerable people that would be solely dependent on him.
I can see this ending so completely wrong– and the worst part is that it would've been completely avoidable if people gave a shit and saw the baby as a human and not just a social media accessory baby doll.
Maybe I'm clutching my pearls, which I completely may be, but I don't like the way that he holds her in these pictures. There's no support for her body, for anything. It doesn't even look comfortable.
I get that holding someone bigger is different than holding a new born, but there's no common sense of "I'm holding someone that can't defend themselves if they fall" support to her either. I don't think Noah would be the type to even care if what he's holding is uncomfortable.
I got a bad feeling about this, Scoob…
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It's because she still wears it as a badge of honor. Not so much the fact that she is disabled on its own, but that she is disabled AND pregnant. For some reason she really, truly sees it as an accomplishment and a bragging right, and doesn't see the cognitive dissonance involved in "Guess what world, I'm disabled and pregnant! And my pregnancy makes my disability worse! So take that!" She uses it like a "gotcha", but it's just not one. At all.
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my sister gave birth a few years ago and she was classed as hugely high risk because she only had one arm.
i just remember the late night calls begging me to come help change the baby because she was just wiggling so much that my sister couldn’t hold her down with the stump while doing everything else with her good hand.
feeding time, dressing, putting to bed and even something as simple as helping her to walk for the first time can be impossible tasks.
she nearly shook the baby a few times because she was twice as exhausted as an able bodied mother and the dad was as useful as noah.
alex is far far far more disabled than my sister and i dread to fucking think what will happen to that poor child. when that child stops being pliant and becomes a fussy, irritable toddler that defies and says no, but still needs her more than anything to fulfil their needs. god fucking help it.
i just remember the late night calls begging me to come help change the baby because she was just wiggling so much that my sister couldn’t hold her down with the stump while doing everything else with her good hand.
feeding time, dressing, putting to bed and even something as simple as helping her to walk for the first time can be impossible tasks.
she nearly shook the baby a few times because she was twice as exhausted as an able bodied mother and the dad was as useful as noah.
alex is far far far more disabled than my sister and i dread to fucking think what will happen to that poor child. when that child stops being pliant and becomes a fussy, irritable toddler that defies and says no, but still needs her more than anything to fulfil their needs. god fucking help it.
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Some medical updates from Alex. She has swollen feet which can seen clearly in the pic of her laying on the bed. Her blood sugar is looking good so maybe she doesn't have GD after all, just a false positive test. If the baby's birth weight is above 5 pounds she might not need to spend a lot of time in the NICU and Alex hopes that means they'll both go home together after a few days in the hospital.
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The false positive rate for the one hour gtt is high. That’s why a three hour one is done if the one hour comes back elevated,
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Who is blowing sunshine up her ass about the baby going home with her? There’s a lot more to it than size. The fetal brain grows a ton in the last few weeks of pregnancy with one of the main things being gained is the coordination to eat and breathe at the same time. Lots of late preterm babies stay for a few weeks trying to get that skill down.
And while I’m ranting…. What kind of dumbass obstetrician and hospital is ok with a film crew in the delivery suite? That’s a liability nightmare.
And while I’m ranting…. What kind of dumbass obstetrician and hospital is ok with a film crew in the delivery suite? That’s a liability nightmare.
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Because it's for a documentary I guess, not just a regular birth being filmed.
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Probably a hospital that's getting a metric fuckton of money for it. The American healthcare system is more predatory than a paedophile in a primary school.
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I definitely don’t think she realizes this. I’m sure her OB/MFM is telling her to prepare for a NICU stay but she’s disregarding it.
My two youngest were “older preemies”, 37 and 35 weeks. 37 weeker struggled to use a bottle at first and 35 weeker needed oxygen for a few days. Both of them were the size of full term babies. Size has nothing to do with development.
Also her baby may have issues regulating blood sugars with her having GD.
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Baby's going to be 35 weeks. If any idiot discharges that baby home before her anticipated due date deserves a thorough doxxing and his own thread.
And for all the Redditfags to never give him a moment of peace. Just those unbearable bitches yammering into his voicemail and texts forever, way off the mark, going on about some hamster he abandoned in college and they knew he'd always be human garbage or something equally stupid.
And for all the Redditfags to never give him a moment of peace. Just those unbearable bitches yammering into his voicemail and texts forever, way off the mark, going on about some hamster he abandoned in college and they knew he'd always be human garbage or something equally stupid.
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It’s possible the baby could be discharged before the due date. They really just want to make sure baby is able to breathe on their own, maintain body temperature, nurse without issue and gain weight.