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He couldn't find his small shorts. I'm actually just surprised he hasn't disappeared into the night. He must be depending on Alex for housing, food, and nicotine.
Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl
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A tree
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Birthday letter from Noah to Alex.
"From all the dinner dates, to the clubbing basically every day, to being able to stay at home and do nothing and be OK, because I have you".
He's a kept man.
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I read it as 'because I have Xan' and I feel like it's probably actually more accurate that way
First of all the angle is too low and she’ll probably get cholic, so he ain’t nailing shit. We’ll see how much Alex loves being a mom when that happens.
Second of all
Sure, Jan.
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A tree
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Like the doctor approved baby-strangler canopy that was just taken down for readjustment and is going back up any day ....where is the canopy anyway? She made such a big deal over it surely she wasn't......bullshitting because she can't ever admit to being wrong?
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I wouldn’t even blame them Noah “sobriety” notwithstanding if they came home from the NICU without their baby for the Nth day in a row, and wanted to have a beer or glass of wine together to unwind from the actual hell that must be. Like fuck. I can’t imagine. Plus, she can’t even pump on risdiplam so sure, why not? No one is saying you can’t live, but if your life is SEXY DISABLED PARTYGIRL IN THA CLUB, and now there’s a baby, maybe… find a new way to live?
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Here's the pic Alex shared, being inside the pool.
The doctors told Alex that once Ari is able to eat just from the bottle for 2 days and not need the feeding tube at all, then she can be released to go home. For now Ari is managing to eat 80% of the bottle feeds.
Alex loves working.
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Rate me 
, because I fully drank the "maybe Alex will become a better person" Kool Aid.
This dummy is going to let some insane incognito Redditor "babysit" Ari and human traffic her to teach Alex a lesson because she wants to LARP at being a regular woman without even knowing what that means.
Alex is really like an uncanny valley version of a troon LARPing as a woman. She thinks the point of womanhood is the aesthetic of "hot girl sexy club party monster" and "placid mother." Alex is neither adventurous and fun the way a really sexy woman and the content she's posting of Ari isn't like the early days. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm not getting the vibe she is completely in love with her infant now that her big hit of oxytocin has dried up.
, because I fully drank the "maybe Alex will become a better person" Kool Aid. This dummy is going to let some insane incognito Redditor "babysit" Ari and human traffic her to teach Alex a lesson because she wants to LARP at being a regular woman without even knowing what that means.
Alex is really like an uncanny valley version of a troon LARPing as a woman. She thinks the point of womanhood is the aesthetic of "hot girl sexy club party monster" and "placid mother." Alex is neither adventurous and fun the way a really sexy woman and the content she's posting of Ari isn't like the early days. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm not getting the vibe she is completely in love with her infant now that her big hit of oxytocin has dried up.
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This is exactly it. Not a parent myself, but I feel like a huge undercurrent of parenthood is sacrifice. Coming to terms with the fact that, actually, you can't go out clubbing and on impromptu vacations and all that crazy shit. Hell, the freedom to do what you want is always the top brag of childfree communities.
Yeah, new parents might think, "Man I really want to (XYZ)", but then the thought is finished with, "... but I can't, because I've got the bub to think of now." Alex's thought processes aren't reaching that end point yet. Who knows if they ever will?
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My dude, your optimism and faith in the ability of others to improve themselves is truly wonderful and admirable to a raging misanthrope like myself... but you're really in the wrong place for that sort of thing. Yes, the world is full of people who stupidly procreated and then realised that they needed to clean their shit up for their baby, but Alex is not one of those. Alex didn't allow herself to get pregnant because she wanted her own little bub to have and hold and give the best of herself to. Alex had the bub because she wanted more attention, more sponsorships, and because she thought pitching herself as 'super disabled mum' would be the natural evolution of her brand. At no point did Alex consider that she was carrying a miniature human that would eventually grow into her own person. Her view of Ari was more that the foetus within her was an organic doll that she could eventually use as a photograph prop. I'm admittedly terrible with facial expressions, but Alex in this video looks depressed and frightened with Ari on her lap; the whole thing just has this vibe of, "Oh shit, what have I done? I don't want this," to me.Rate me
This dummy is going to let some insane incognito Redditor "babysit" Ari and human traffic her to teach Alex a lesson because she wants to LARP at being a regular woman without even knowing what that means.
Alex is really like an uncanny valley version of a troon LARPing as a woman. She thinks the point of womanhood is the aesthetic of "hot girl sexy club party monster" and "placid mother." Alex is neither adventurous and fun the way a really sexy woman and the content she's posting of Ari isn't like the early days. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm not getting the vibe she is completely in love with her infant now that her big hit of oxytocin has dried up.
Some people grow out of being a lolcow, or they get treatment for their mental illness, or they at least learn to keep their weirdness off of the internet. Alex will never do any of these things. Not only is her entire life lived online, it's her only way to make money. And, most importantly, Alex has a severe case of what makes all lolcows truly great: Narcissistic Personality Disorder. NPDs never get better, because they're incapable of realising how fucked up they are. A psychopath or a sociopath will, at least eventually because they need to make a human suit to walk around in, but narcs cannot because everything they do is perfect. You cannot talk sense into a narc. There is nothing you can do to convince them that they're a cunt; believe me, I've tried.
Alex is a lost cause. The only hope is that she gives Ari up, or that Ari is eventually taken from her.
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People can change for the better, which also is frustrating to me as someone who knows people and their hearts can change. She is choosing not to be changed into something better and missing out on all the good things in life.
I don't believe in lost causes in my offline life, and I don't accept that Alex is one. I like to think that if Alex sat down and read her thread from beginning to end, she would realize she will always have haters. People will always ridicule and despise her, but that doesn't mean she can't wholly devote herself to Ari and be the best mom possible. Ari deserves that. Alex deserves that.
I definitely think as Ari approaches full term size and development, she's losing her luster to Alex. I can't imagine the frustration of a crying baby and not being able to pick it up or rub its back. The thought gives me anxiety. That said, she did it to herself and has no one but herself to blame. For the first time in her life, Alex has to put aside her selfish desires instead of being treated like a cosseted child herself.
I don't know what Alex will do, overall, but neither do you, @glass_houses. I don't mean that in a snarky way, but in a comforting one. And even if she doesn't do anything but continue to be a world class asshole on wheels, Ari is a genuinely wonderful little girl who has brightened some moments in my day by turning out so beautifully, and that's worth a lot on a place like Kiwi Farms.
I don't believe in lost causes in my offline life, and I don't accept that Alex is one. I like to think that if Alex sat down and read her thread from beginning to end, she would realize she will always have haters. People will always ridicule and despise her, but that doesn't mean she can't wholly devote herself to Ari and be the best mom possible. Ari deserves that. Alex deserves that.
I definitely think as Ari approaches full term size and development, she's losing her luster to Alex. I can't imagine the frustration of a crying baby and not being able to pick it up or rub its back. The thought gives me anxiety. That said, she did it to herself and has no one but herself to blame. For the first time in her life, Alex has to put aside her selfish desires instead of being treated like a cosseted child herself.
I don't know what Alex will do, overall, but neither do you, @glass_houses. I don't mean that in a snarky way, but in a comforting one. And even if she doesn't do anything but continue to be a world class asshole on wheels, Ari is a genuinely wonderful little girl who has brightened some moments in my day by turning out so beautifully, and that's worth a lot on a place like Kiwi Farms.
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@LonesomeDud I sincerely hope that you are right, and that Alex eventually makes myself and all her other haters liars. I think the first few weeks of Ari being home will determine one way or another if Alex is capable of growing a soul.
You mean she loves “working”?
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I think that once Ari is home her *loving parents* will be out clubbing like they used to, because that's what Alex does. It's her brand, it's her life, and why should having a baby stop her? In her mind, that's why she has staff.
Whether we find out about it just depends if anyone local catches them out, like that Redditor did, as given the backlash I can't see Alex posting clubbing pics now.
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I saw how becoming a mother changed my sister (in good ways.) I hope that Alex eventually realizes how freakin’ lucky she is to have an intact baby, relatively safe delivery, for her to have bounced back so well, and settles into motherhood. But I think I’m being very optimistic.
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Becoming a mother made my sister even worse. And one of the worst things she did to her children was allow monsters free access to them. If someone hurts Ari, Alex is physically incapable of stopping them. And being a narc, she might not even want to.
My sister said to me once, "It's every woman's right to having children, whether she's disabled or not," and was genuinely shocked when I replied, "No it isn't."
People who know ahead of time that they won't be able to take care of their children have no business having them.
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Seeing as she posts every little baby thing, she would have posted about the appointment five times already. Just admit you made a mistake.
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Thing is, because Alex is a narc, she probably wouldn't see anything wrong with how she goes about her life. It's HER life after all and we're just jealous haters who don't get it. If she read her entire thread she would probably think that a) We're all just stupid and don't understand how much better/smarter she is than us. b) We're all losers that don't know what it's like to have a life and party, so there's no way we'd ever be able to understand that partying is her god given right and c) We're all mega Karens who worry about and make a big deal out of every little thing. Ari will be fine being raised by whoever happens to be taking care of/hanging out with Alex and you all need to chill out. She's totally got this under control, just look at her instagram, mother of the year. And stop asking about Noah when he goes to rehab 2-3 weeks out of every month! He's a great father and definitely not a mentally unstable closet case, dying to escape the situation he helped create.
Karen farms idiots.
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Do premature newborns take longer to “activate” than full-term babies? I’m referring to the “second night syndrome” wherein babies need a long rest after being born and then become more animated in the subsequent days. Alex’s lack of urgency in being physically present in the NICU might be explained if she thinks that newborn near-vegetative sleep-haze is Ari’s actual temperament. Why wouldn’t the NICU, in Alex’s mind, be able to handle Ari all day and night when all she does is faintly ask for milk and then immediately pass out again after feeding?
It’s a flimsy guess at best. But clearly Alex did no research on the care and feeding of human babies, so I think assuming her complete ignorance is a safe bet.
It’s a flimsy guess at best. But clearly Alex did no research on the care and feeding of human babies, so I think assuming her complete ignorance is a safe bet.
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They're still trying to catch up on the weeks of growing in utero they missed out on. They generally don't have as much awake time as a normal newborn (my anecdotal experience), and your focus in the NICU is also to cluster feeds/cares/treatment so you can do everything in one go so they can have longer periods of rest so they can grow. I've been out of the NICU game for a long time so it may have changed, but say they're quite little like <32 weeks, you might do feeds every 2 hours (via tube) but every 4 hours do a nappy change/cuddle/as needed blood tests.
Then as they get a bit bigger you can space it out to 3hr feeds with them having a go at a suck feed, but maybe only doing a quick nappy change and leaving bigger cares to every second feed. Then once they're >36 weeks getting them up every 3-4hr for a feed/change and getting them to be a bit more awake.
When they're learning to suck they also get sleepy easily and can't finish feeds because they get so tired.