Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

Am I remembering correctly that Noah has admitted that he could only have sex with Alex while drunk? Any chance this little club experience was cooked up by Alex to get some dick? Isn’t his hashtagsoberjourney basically the end of their sexual relationship, if he can only fuck her while he’s on the sauce?
This wouldn't surprise me, even though postpartum you're supposed to wait 6 weeks and be cleared by the obgyn to have sex. We all know Alex doesn't listen to doctors recommendations, she will just claim they're "ableist" and never told her anyways.
 
This wouldn't surprise me, even though postpartum you're supposed to wait 6 weeks and be cleared by the obgyn to have sex. We all know Alex doesn't listen to doctors recommendations, she will just claim they're "ableist" and never told her anyways.
Granted, I don’t have a goblin body and I have never had a kid yoinked out my sunroof. But I have heard that women who have C sections bleed less, although that doesn’t negate the whole “dinner plate wound” thing.
 
Granted, I don’t have a goblin body and I have never had a kid yoinked out my sunroof. But I have heard that women who have C sections bleed less, although that doesn’t negate the whole “dinner plate wound” thing.
From what I understand, even with a C-section, the removal of the placenta from the c-section still causes a large amount of bleeding down through the cervix and out the vagina, just like a vaginal birth. The uterus will then occasionally contract and cramp, pushing out more contents as it shrinks down in size over the next few weeks. Alex is down right bonkers for going clubbing right after a c-section, let alone birth. Id be horrified if she was trying to get some dick right now either.
 
Went through this thread over the evening and I must say it's been quite an experience. There's something strangely comforting in seeing the love for Ari instead of the usual cattiness of BP. For as much shit this place catches from the rest of the internet, we have some true lovely mother hen Kiwis. As a man, I know absolute jack and shit about pregnancy care, and this thread was definitely educational.

Ari, you've fought your way into this world through unfavorable and unfortunate circumstances. I hope you grow to be healthy and strong. May you be blessed.

Alex, congratulations on the beautiful baby girl. You beat the odds this time, please don't jeopardize your family's well-being and your own health by attempting it again. Get your shit together, stop partying and be a mom. Your daughter is a baby, not a paycheck.

Noah, from man to man, fuck you. You missed the birth of your child to rehab off of *checks notes* Adderall, weed, and kratom, assuming you weren't just off partying it up with the bros. Your first test of will was being there for your family and you've fucked it up. For you as well, get your shit together. Make an effort to actually be there for your daughter and her mother. Don't be one of those faggots who disappear from their child's life and end up posturing for dad points. I can see him being one of those guys who posts "I WANT TO SEE MY CHILD" on social media to impress the new girl.
 
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her fucking nasal vocal fry drives me insane so I don’t really watch her videos without wanting to push her down some stairs (I’m fucking kidding of course)
I'm not.
What is the twerk juice again?
It's her SMA medicine, really fancy, expensive stuff.
Also she just got back on her medication, now I don't have SMA, but I take medication daily and I know enough to know that frequent alcohol use lessens/blocks the effect of medication
I think she takes infusions, not pills. They don't know much about full side effects like what it does to fetuses so who knows if they know if alcohol messes with it.
 
I'm not.

It's her SMA medicine, really fancy, expensive stuff.

I think she takes infusions, not pills. They don't know much about full side effects like what it does to fetuses so who knows if they know if alcohol messes with it.
Lolol thank you for answering my kinda drunk questions and god damn I’m glad the farms is back. I hate that she calls it her twerk juice. Maybe just because I am horrified at her 100% of the time.
Can I call my lexapro a fancy name to attract squishy hitlers (lol I hate him so much)
 
Granted, I don’t have a goblin body and I have never had a kid yoinked out my sunroof. But I have heard that women who have C sections bleed less, although that doesn’t negate the whole “dinner plate wound” thing.
Your mileage will vary on that.

Spoiled for tmi but realevant to this discussion
I've had 2 c-sections. One emergency, one was scheduled. The emergency c-section i didn't bleed heavily or for very long maybe a week and a half, i could wear a regular night pad by day 5 post partum. The one that was scheduled I bled heavily for nearly 7 weeks. Everything was normal as could be.

Idk how Alex even had the energy for clubbing after a c-section.
 
To be fair, it's not like she moves a lot either way.
I'd be concerned about blood clots. She had major surgery not too long ago and isn't able to move around much. Going to a club and drinking seems to be the exact opposite thing of what you should do in her situation.
 
Granted, I don’t have a goblin body and I have never had a kid yoinked out my sunroof. But I have heard that women who have C sections bleed less, although that doesn’t negate the whole “dinner plate wound” thing.
It probably depends on the woman, but at the time of birth, for a vaginal birth, the average blood loss is about 400ml (a bit less than a pint). For a c-section, it's about twice that, because there's the blood loss from the incision AND the placenta wound, and if the woman was not in labor beforehand, the uterus does not naturally shrink down the way it does with a natural birth.
 
Do we have confirmation she was actually drinking at that club, before we all roundly condemn her for doing so?

Not that being there was a great idea in the first place, obvs, but lotta posters here leaping on her for drinking post-partum when all I've seen so far is one picture of her inside a club where she doesn't appear to have a drink in her hand? She deserves tearing down a peg, but let's at least rip her to shreds for things she's actually doing and not tilt at windmills here
 
Do we have confirmation she was actually drinking at that club, before we all roundly condemn her for doing so?

Not that being there was a great idea in the first place, obvs, but lotta posters here leaping on her for drinking post-partum when all I've seen so far is one picture of her inside a club where she doesn't appear to have a drink in her hand? She deserves tearing down a peg, but let's at least rip her to shreds for things she's actually doing and not tilt at windmills here
It’s really more the fact that she exposed her addict baby daddy to an environment that could potentially lead to relapse literally days after he was spit out of his latest round of rehab. Additionally, a club is a dirty place. She’s going to the nicu to visit Ari, and I very highly doubt she cleaned her chair before heading back to the nicu. It also just looks extremely bad. She’s under more of a microscope than most parents by virtue of the scrutiny she invites online, and to be partying while her daughter fights for her life in the hospital is very tacky.
 
It’s really more the fact that she exposed her addict baby daddy to an environment that could potentially lead to relapse literally days after he was spit out of his latest round of rehab. Additionally, a club is a dirty place. She’s going to the nicu to visit Ari, and I very highly doubt she cleaned her chair before heading back to the nicu. It also just looks extremely bad. She’s under more of a microscope than most parents by virtue of the scrutiny she invites online, and to be partying while her daughter fights for her life in the hospital is very tacky.
Isn't Squidgy Hitler going to a club like... squidgy Hitler's choice though? Given the lives he was doing before he went back to Chicago it doesn't seem like she's leading him down a path he wasn't already on. He's as much of an approximation of a grown adult as she is, legally. And multiple posters here are clutching pearls at the idea of her drinking while Ari is in NICU, but as far as I can tell that's just an assumption we've all made and run with, that picture definitely doesn't show her holding alcohol.

I'm a big believer in mocking the fuck out of Alex and every misstep she makes, it's not like she doesn't give us fresh fodder for this on the daily. But we look like idiots if we criticise her for stuff she's not actually doing, no? Just my two cents, anyway.
 
Isn't Squidgy Hitler going to a club like... squidgy Hitler's choice though? Given the lives he was doing before he went back to Chicago it doesn't seem like she's leading him down a path he wasn't already on. He's as much of an approximation of a grown adult as she is, legally. And multiple posters here are clutching pearls at the idea of her drinking while Ari is in NICU, but as far as I can tell that's just an assumption we've all made and run with, that picture definitely doesn't show her holding alcohol.

I'm a big believer in mocking the fuck out of Alex and every misstep she makes, it's not like she doesn't give us fresh fodder for this on the daily. But we look like idiots if we criticise her for stuff she's not actually doing, no? Just my two cents, anyway.
I personally feel like it's in poor taste regardless of whether there was alcohol consumption. He wasn't there for his daughter's birth, because he was in rehab; To "hit the club" days after his return, is a bit of a brow raise.

Also, she's claiming to need a break? I know she can't help the way that she is, but, she does nothing really, she points at things and someone does it for her.

I am in hopes that it's a last hoorah before her child comes home? That's giving her a lot of credit.
 
I personally feel like it's in poor taste regardless of whether there was alcohol consumption. He wasn't there for his daughter's birth, because he was in rehab; To "hit the club" days after his return, is a bit of a brow raise.

Also, she's claiming to need a break? I know she can't help the way that she is, but, she does nothing really, she points at things and someone does it for her.

I am in hopes that it's a last hoorah before her child comes home? That's giving her a lot of credit.
It's absolutely a brow raise... Which was sort of my point. She's giving us plenty of provable retarded, poorly-thought-out behaviour to mock and criticise so we don't really need to be condemning her for things she isn't actually doing...
 
I personally feel like it's in poor taste regardless of whether there was alcohol consumption. He wasn't there for his daughter's birth, because he was in rehab; To "hit the club" days after his return, is a bit of a brow raise.

Also, she's claiming to need a break? I know she can't help the way that she is, but, she does nothing really, she points at things and someone does it for her.

I am in hopes that it's a last hoorah before her child comes home? That's giving her a lot of credit.
Alex is a passive viewer in life. It would get so boring to look at things and people and be unable to interact with it in any meaningful way. Ari doesn't really get anything out of Alex that she can't get better from her familiar NICU nurses.

If you had a baby in the NICU, you still have to go home and clean your toilet, make dinner, and walk the dog. It's mundane stuff you don't think about, but gives you a richer, fuller life.

Alex isn't someone who has enough intellectual discipline to work at going to school or learning a language. She doesn't do anything creative and she doesn't have much ability.

I suspect (maybe wrongly) she's too self-absorbed to join an online interest-based group. The only reason I can see not to party is the infection risk.
 
I mean, her baby is cared for, and if your baby is in NICU I think it’s okay that you don’t spend the hours you aren’t visiting locked away at home or anything. I think the more concerning thing is that I struggle to imagine anyone who has just had major abdominal surgery who feels like going to a club so soon afterwards, and I question whether this was more Noah’s idea or hers. And also, Noah’s sobriety etc etc.

But do we know for sure that Noah was with her?? Because if he wasn’t, I’m a little shocked that she would independently desire to do this on her own.

That said, sometimes post-surgical meds can trick you into thinking you’re ready for regular activities when you’re not. You feel fine in the house pain-wise and are bored laying around and think you can handle an outing, not realizing how fast your energy bar drains when you’re healing. And I imagine someone who is non-mobile would be less fatigued by an outing by virtue of having to physically move around less.

Idk I’m a big fan of moms not having to morally police themselves just cuz they’re moms, but also my hunch is she did this just because she wants Noah to love her.
 
Alex doesn't even really seem to understand why going to a club was a bad look, which says a lot about her emotional maturity. She was understandably displeased about the pictures getting out, but her response-- which was basically "lol, so what, I need ME TIME"-- was terrible.

I wonder if she'd understand why it's a terrible look better if someone put it to her in potential sponsorship terms. As in: "Alex, before you go out clubbing while your premature infant is in the NICU, ask yourself: what would a potential sponsor say about this?" You'd hope the answer would be obvious-- sponsors of baby products like the Boppy pillow would run the other way-- but it's Alex, so maybe it's not obvious. Still, though, her crying story for a month or so ago suggests that her financial plan is to make money via sponsorships, and she very specifically mentioned supporting her family and buying a house. Clubbing, with or without alcohol, while your baby is in the NICU is going to drive sponsors far, far away.

I bring up the sponsorships because you can bet your bottom dollar that the Reddit sponsor-notification squad just made this bullet point #1 on the "drop Alex now" spreadsheet. I blame the Reddit squad for notifying the sponsors, but I blame Alex and her lack of insight (and foresight) for giving them the fodder. Some of the older stuff comes from confusing and poorly-documented sources, but this one is straightforward, from an optics perspective.

And, again, regardless of how I feel about policing her activities, if she wants to be an influencer-- which she very vocally does-- then she needs to make decisions that are in line with that objective.

Bad decisions. Bad decisions everywhere.
 
Isn't Squidgy Hitler going to a club like... squidgy Hitler's choice though?
Yes, he should bear majority of that responsibility, but Alex bears some too since she has chosen to be his significant other. Choosing to be the SO of an addict usually means avoiding enabling or encouraging them to have any excuses to relapse at all, and especially not in a way that presents them that option on a silver platter the way Alex did. She is his "other half", so to speak, to deny that she has massive amounts of influence over someone who has severely impaired impulse control as they are fresh out of rehab would be a mistake. I think it's less that she should feel totally responsible and more that she is willfully ignorant and in denial of her complete irresponsibility.

I can't speak for everyone, but I think this strikes a chord because it only further proves how completely unprepared, immature, and ignorant they both are. This isn't the time to be making teenage oopsies, these are real life adult problems that can and will potentially permanently impact their own lives and everyone around them, including their newborn daughter. It's disturbing how lightly they both take it.
 
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