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Also, abuse victims often think it isn't that bad. He only left her for four or six hours without a phone or any means to look after herself. He didn't actually kick the door down. Maybe she was saying really vile things or threatening to call the police on his drug use, and he made the excuse that SHE trapped HIM. She might have feared retaliation and kept silent for that reason. She might have promised to drop the charges to keep the peace. And maybe he made one too many threats, and the night before, she just told the truth.I bet Noah threatened the tell-all in response to Alex messaging his new girlfriend to stay away from him.
His response enraged her so much that the next day she filed for custody and a CPO.
Interesting that she didn't do that immediately. It makes me think that she was holding out hope that they would reconcile, despite his behaviour. The threatened tell-all made her realise that he has truly moved on.
She was absolutely in the right to tell the girlfriend. He shouldn't be spending time with any vulnerable people until he's fixed himself. He has poor self-control and a disregard for others' well-being. This is the perfect storm for a woman to be seriously hurt.
I understand loving your son, but the Smiths aren't getting younger. Noah has to change. Noah was willing to give up everything for his impulsivity and addiction. He is lost. Let him go. Forgive yourselves for enabling him. Do better for an innocent child who needs you more and more as days go by. Babies need you for all their basic needs. Children need you for so much more. They need you for their moral, intellectual, and social development. They're Christians. Surely they can appreciate Abraham's willingness to sacrifice their own son for the greater good. I think they should take a note, block his number, and change the keys.